7. Não caias no seu bombardeamento amoroso
I hate to generalize, but you know how most men are. They act as if they’re ready to do everything in the world for you – until they get what they actually want.
For some, it’s your heart; others só quero dormir contigoenquanto outros procuram a sua confiança. Seja como for, no momento em que conseguem o que pretendem, mudam de atitude.
Suddenly, there is no more Mr. Nice Guy from the beginning. Now, you’re the one who has to beg for his attention and the one who chases him around.
Então, como é que se evita que isto aconteça? Bem, se quiser mantê-lo interessado, don’t take everything he says or does for granted.
Look, don’t be paranoid and question his every move. That will drive you crazy as well.
Mas, por favor, preste atenção à diferença entre emoção genuína e bombardeamento de amor.
If he plans the future the first time he sees you, if he starts putting pictures of you two together on his social media right after the first date, or if he starts with some huge romantic gestures even if you haven’t met each other right, he’s probably deceiving you.