7 Sinais reveladores de linguagem corporal de que ele não está interessado em você

Por vezes é muito difícil decifrar os homens. No primeiro encontro, vocês divertem-se imenso, tudo parece perfeito e, de repente, BOOM!

Começa a agir de forma estranha com desculpas esfarrapadas de que está muito ocupado ou algo do género. Eventualmente, deixa de responder às suas chamadas.

Gostaríamos que alguém nos dissesse o que se passa na cabeça dele. Tinha a certeza de que era uma combinação perfeita e agora começas a duvidar dos teus próprios pensamentos.

Para o evitar, preste atenção à sua linguagem corporal. Ficará surpreendido com o quanto pode aprender sobre uma pessoa apenas observando-a.

So, the next time the two of you meet, observe the following body language signs that will reveal his true nature and indicate that he’s not that into you:

Sem contacto visual

You’re telling him some interesting stories about your childhood while his eyes keep wandering and he simply cannot look you in the olhos.

This indicates that he’s not that interested in what you have to say to him (if you’re sure that he’s not an introvert).

That’s why he cannot concentrate on you or what you’ve been talking about.

Another sign is if he’s looking at you but cannot hold his gaze longer than two or three seconds. After that, his eyes keep wandering and he has that weird facial expression, pretending he’s actually listening to you.

A síndrome dos braços cruzados

If his arms are crossed (but first make sure that he’s not cold), it means that he’s subconsciously trying to create some kind of a barrier between the two of you.

His mind orders him to do it because he doesn’t feel that comfortable and that is why he’s subconsciously creating a barrier in order to retreat.

An additional indicator is if he’s not that engaged in the conversation and you’re the only one initiating it.

He’s faking his smile

O sorriso é a ferramenta mais poderosa que pode dizer muito sobre o nosso estado de espírito ou as nossas intenções.

Um sorriso genuíno não requer esforço. As suas maçãs do rosto sobem naturalmente, os seus olhos ficam brilhantes e parece genuinamente feliz. Um sorriso falso é totalmente o oposto.

You’ll know he’s faking his smile if during the conversation he seems like he’s trying too hard to smile.

O seu sorriso está longe de ser genuíno and it looks ridiculous to you. It means he’s just trying to be polite but he’s not into you.

O corpo e os pés dele não estão apontados na sua direção

Os homens sentam-se normalmente com as pernas abertas quando gostam de si e apreciam a sua companhia.

I know it sounds weird but it’s true and they’re not even aware of it. If his legs and feet are not pointed toward you, he’s indicating that he would rather be somewhere else.

O corpo dele está inconscientemente a tentar encontrar uma saída e é por isso que os pés dele estão apontados para ela e não para si.

He’s constantly touching his nose

Another interesting indicator is his nose. If he’s constantly touching his nose, it means that something negative is going on in his head. It can also mean that he’s lying to you.

Outros indicadores são a inquietação e a incapacidade de manter a calma.

Por isso, preste atenção ao nariz dele para reconhecer estes indicadores subtis que o podem ajudar a revelar a verdade.

He’s scratching his hair

If you’ve ever observed someone trying to solve a difficult task (be it an exam or something else), you’ve probably noticed how they start scratching their hair in order to find a solution for that particular problem.

That way, our body indicates that we’re confused. We don’t know how to solve the problem and it’s making us feel uneasy.

So, if he starts scratching his hair, know that something’s going on in his head.

He’s probably not that into you and he’s confused by you and his mixed emotions. He doesn’t know how to react.

He’s sitting on the edge of his chair

Does his sitting position appear very unnatural to you? Is he sitting on the very edge of the chair, like he’s preparing to be catapulted to Mars?

If the answer is yes, his body is trying to tell you that he’s tense and he doesn’t feel comfortable around you. His body indicates that something’s wrong and that he is most probably not into you.

But this one is tricky. It can also indicate that he’s head over heels for you and he’s very excited about everything you’re about to say next.

If you’re not sure, check other signs to confirm your doubts.

Antes de chegar a uma conclusão, certifique-se de que todos estes sinais de linguagem corporal (ou alguns deles) são seguidos por outros indicadores relevantes, como a forma como ele fala, a sua atitude geral e o seu comportamento.