7 segnali rivelatori del linguaggio del corpo: non gli piaci.
A volte è davvero difficile decifrare gli uomini. Al primo appuntamento, vi divertite un mondo, tutto sembra perfetto e all'improvviso, BOOM!
Inizia a comportarsi in modo strano, adducendo scuse banali, come quella di essere troppo impegnato o simili. Alla fine, smette di rispondere alle vostre chiamate.
Vorreste che qualcuno vi dicesse cosa gli passa per la testa. Eravate sicuri di essere un abbinamento perfetto e ora iniziate a dubitare dei vostri stessi pensieri.
Per evitarlo, prestate attenzione al suo linguaggio del corpo. Sarete sorpresi di quanto si possa imparare su una persona solo osservandola.
So, the next time the two of you meet, observe the following body language signs that will reveal his true nature and indicate that he’s not that into you:
Nessun contatto visivo
You’re telling him some interesting stories about your childhood while his eyes keep wandering and he simply cannot look you in the occhi.
This indicates that he’s not that interested in what you have to say to him (if you’re sure that he’s not an introvert).
That’s why he cannot concentrate on you or what you’ve been talking about.
Another sign is if he’s looking at you but cannot hold his gaze longer than two or three seconds. After that, his eyes keep wandering and he has that weird facial expression, pretending he’s actually listening to you.
La sindrome delle braccia incrociate
If his arms are crossed (but first make sure that he’s not cold), it means that he’s subconsciously trying to create some kind of a barrier between the two of you.
His mind orders him to do it because he doesn’t feel that comfortable and that is why he’s subconsciously creating a barrier in order to retreat.
An additional indicator is if he’s not that engaged in the conversation and you’re the only one initiating it.
He’s faking his smile
Il sorriso è lo strumento più potente che può dire molto sul nostro stato d'animo o sulle nostre intenzioni.
Un sorriso autentico non richiede sforzi. Gli zigomi si alzano naturalmente, gli occhi diventano brillanti e si ha un aspetto genuinamente felice. Un sorriso falso è l'esatto contrario.
You’ll know he’s faking his smile if during the conversation he seems like he’s trying too hard to smile.
Il suo sorriso è lontano dal genuino and it looks ridiculous to you. It means he’s just trying to be polite but he’s not into you.
Il suo corpo e i suoi piedi non sono rivolti verso di voi.
Gli uomini di solito si siedono con le gambe aperte quando gli piacete e amano la vostra compagnia.
I know it sounds weird but it’s true and they’re not even aware of it. If his legs and feet are not pointed toward you, he’s indicating that he would rather be somewhere else.
Il suo corpo sta inconsciamente cercando di trovare un'uscita e questo è il motivo per cui i suoi piedi sono puntati verso di essa invece che verso di voi.
He’s constantly touching his nose
Another interesting indicator is his nose. If he’s constantly touching his nose, it means that something negative is going on in his head. It can also mean that he’s lying to you.
Altri indicatori sono l'agitazione e l'incapacità di mantenere la calma.
Quindi, prestate attenzione al suo naso per riconoscere questi sottili indicatori che possono aiutarvi a svelare la verità.
He’s scratching his hair
If you’ve ever observed someone trying to solve a difficult task (be it an exam or something else), you’ve probably noticed how they start scratching their hair in order to find a solution for that particular problem.
That way, our body indicates that we’re confused. We don’t know how to solve the problem and it’s making us feel uneasy.
So, if he starts scratching his hair, know that something’s going on in his head.
He’s probably not that into you and he’s confused by you and his mixed emotions. He doesn’t know how to react.
He’s sitting on the edge of his chair
Does his sitting position appear very unnatural to you? Is he sitting on the very edge of the chair, like he’s preparing to be catapulted to Mars?
If the answer is yes, his body is trying to tell you that he’s tense and he doesn’t feel comfortable around you. His body indicates that something’s wrong and that he is most probably not into you.
But this one is tricky. It can also indicate that he’s head over heels for you and he’s very excited about everything you’re about to say next.
If you’re not sure, check other signs to confirm your doubts.
Prima di giungere a una conclusione, assicuratevi che tutti questi segnali del linguaggio del corpo (o alcuni di essi) siano seguiti da altri indicatori rilevanti, come il modo in cui parla, il suo contegno generale e il suo comportamento.
