7 Sinais óbvios de que encontrou a sua alma gémea

“A bond between souls is ancient – older than the planet.” ~ Dianna Hardy

Desde o momento em que nascemos, a nossa alma está destinada a ter um par. Antes de as pessoas se conhecerem e se apaixonarem no mundo físico real, as suas almas encontram-se no mundo espiritual.

Criam uma ligação inquebrável que se transforma num verdadeiro amor palpável.

You have to have your match—your other half—because we are all incomplete. As much as we would like to believe that we don’t need anybody, we do.

Precisamos de alguém com quem partilhar os nossos fardos. Precisamos de alguém que seja a nossa rocha quando chegamos a esses lugares escuros da nossa mente.

Precisamos de alguém que nos complete.

Esse alguém vai ajudar-te a ser uma versão melhor de ti mesmo. Ele fará de ti uma pessoa melhor. Ele fará com que todas as suas características positivas superem as negativas.

He has the ability to make you almost perfect—the best you can be.

There is one little thing. I hear how people say that there is no such thing as a soulmate—that this idea is just a load of BS.

But, I disagree with that. You see, everyone has their other half—there’s no discussion about that. It’s just that sometimes people don’t know how to recognize it.

No one says that connecting with your soulmate is going to be easy because you’re meant to be. That doesn’t mean that the two of you won’t go through the same relationship problems as others do.

The beginning of every relationship is tough, so is the one with your soulmate. Don’t expect your world to be colored pink and flowery. It’s the same world as it was before.

The only thing that is different is that you’ve been given a chance to reconhecer a sua alma gémea porque ele pode estar disfarçado.

Don’t gamble that chance away. Instead, try hard to make it work because, in time, all your hard work and all your investment in your relationship will pay off.

In case you’re struggling with figuring out whether he is your soulmate or not, here are some obvious signs that can help you make the blurry picture clearer:

1. Ele é solidário

Nunca serás deixado pendurado. Seja o que for que decida fazer, ele protegê-lo-á.

Even if he thinks that might not be the smartest move in the book, he’ll be there for you because he knows how important it is to make mistakes.

You learn from them. He will let you make that mistake, but he will be there for you when you fail. And it will be ok. You’ll have his support to keep on trying.

2. It’s like you know each other

This happens when you meet someone you were destined to meet. You have the feeling you’ve met him already.

His face looks familiar and his moves look so natural—like you’ve seen his gestures a thousand times before.

And what about déjà vu? What about those times when you could have sworn the exact same situation with the exact same person happened? How is that possible when you met him just the other day?

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When the two of you meet, you talk about everything—you share your life stories, your hobbies etc. That’s how you create a deeper bond.

E, algures ao longo do caminho, apercebemo-nos de que temos, se não o mesmo, um conjunto de valores e de moral semelhante.

You are the same kind of people. That’s why it so easy to talk to your other half.

That’s why he gets everything you say. That’s why he understands how you’re feeling. Because he can relate to that.

4. Ele faz-nos sentir seguros

Whenever you’re in trouble or you’re just feeling down, you crave his embrace. You just need to be in his arms.

O calor do seu corpo, a sua respiração e os seus batimentos cardíacos fazem-nos sentir seguros. Tens a certeza de que ninguém ou nada neste mundo te pode tocar.

Even when you’re radiating with negative energy, he has a solution for that. He sucks that energy out of you with his positivity. And once again you feel safe.

5. Ele é digno de confiança

Never, ever, ever would you keep something from him. You don’t feel that pressure and embarrassment you might feel around others.

You can tell him absolutely anything. It’s because you know he will listen to everything you’ve got to say. He will give you advice if he’s got some.

That’s why you can trust him. Because you know he won’t judge you. He can only help you.

6. Sentem-se um pelo outro

It’s a telepathic connection. Even if you don’t want to tell him you’re in pain for some reason, he will know it—he will feel it.

Basta um olhar nos teus olhos para que ele perceba que algo está errado.

E por mais que tentem escondê-lo, não conseguirão.

And when he sees you’re in pain, he will feel for you. He will feel that pain in his own skin—like something bad happened to him.

Porque tu és um só. O que vos magoa também o magoa a ele.

7. Sabe-o bem

Algo no teu íntimo diz-te que ele é a pessoa certa para ti. Isso é algo que nunca ninguém consegue explicar por palavras.

Trata-se de algo incompreensível e, por conseguinte, misterioso.

It’s like there is some kind of spiritual force that is pushing you towards each other, and each and every little thing falls into its place.

Aqui tem. Mais tarde ou mais cedo, vai sentir todos estes sinais. Basta ser suficientemente sábio para os reconhecer.

Só existe uma alma gémea. Se tiveres saudades dele, quem sabe se o voltarás a encontrar?

But, on the other hand, if you do miss him, does that mean there’s no one else there for you?

And if so—where do the all unrecognized souls go?