7 señales evidentes de que has encontrado a tu alma gemela

“A bond between souls is ancient – older than the planet.” ~ Dianna Hardy

Desde el momento en que nacemos, nuestra alma está destinada a tener una pareja. Antes de que las personas se conozcan y se enamoren en el mundo físico real, sus almas se encuentran en el mundo espiritual.

Crean un vínculo irrompible que se transforma en auténtico amor conmovedor.

You have to have your match—your other half—because we are all incomplete. As much as we would like to believe that we don’t need anybody, we do.

Necesitamos a alguien con quien compartir nuestras cargas. Necesitamos a alguien que sea nuestra roca cuando llegamos a esos lugares oscuros de nuestra mente.

Necesitamos a alguien que nos complete.

Ese alguien te ayudará a ser una mejor versión de ti mismo. Te hará mejor persona. Hará que todos tus rasgos positivos superen a los negativos.

He has the ability to make you almost perfect—the best you can be.

There is one little thing. I hear how people say that there is no such thing as a soulmate—that this idea is just a load of BS.

But, I disagree with that. You see, everyone has their other half—there’s no discussion about that. It’s just that sometimes people don’t know how to recognize it.

No one says that connecting with your soulmate is going to be easy because you’re meant to be. That doesn’t mean that the two of you won’t go through the same relationship problems as others do.

The beginning of every relationship is tough, so is the one with your soulmate. Don’t expect your world to be colored pink and flowery. It’s the same world as it was before.

The only thing that is different is that you’ve been given a chance to reconoce a tu alma gemela porque podría estar disfrazado.

Don’t gamble that chance away. Instead, try hard to make it work because, in time, all your hard work and all your investment in your relationship will pay off.

In case you’re struggling with figuring out whether he is your soulmate or not, here are some obvious signs that can help you make the blurry picture clearer:

1. Es solidario

Nunca te dejará colgado. Decidas lo que decidas hacer, él te cubrirá las espaldas.

Even if he thinks that might not be the smartest move in the book, he’ll be there for you because he knows how important it is to make mistakes.

You learn from them. He will let you make that mistake, but he will be there for you when you fail. And it will be ok. You’ll have his support to keep on trying.

2. It’s like you know each other

This happens when you meet someone you were destined to meet. You have the feeling you’ve met him already.

His face looks familiar and his moves look so natural—like you’ve seen his gestures a thousand times before.

And what about déjà vu? What about those times when you could have sworn the exact same situation with the exact same person happened? How is that possible when you met him just the other day?

3. Estás en la misma página

When the two of you meet, you talk about everything—you share your life stories, your hobbies etc. That’s how you create a deeper bond.

Y en algún punto del camino, te das cuenta de que tienes, si no la misma, sí un conjunto similar de moral y valores.

You are the same kind of people. That’s why it so easy to talk to your other half.

That’s why he gets everything you say. That’s why he understands how you’re feeling. Because he can relate to that.

4. Te hace sentir seguro

Whenever you’re in trouble or you’re just feeling down, you crave his embrace. You just need to be in his arms.

El calor de su cuerpo, su respiración y los latidos de su corazón te hacen sentir segura. Estás seguro de que nadie ni nada en este mundo puede tocarte.

Even when you’re radiating with negative energy, he has a solution for that. He sucks that energy out of you with his positivity. And once again you feel safe.

5. Es digno de confianza

Never, ever, ever would you keep something from him. You don’t feel that pressure and embarrassment you might feel around others.

You can tell him absolutely anything. It’s because you know he will listen to everything you’ve got to say. He will give you advice if he’s got some.

That’s why you can trust him. Because you know he won’t judge you. He can only help you.

6. Sientes el uno por el otro

It’s a telepathic connection. Even if you don’t want to tell him you’re in pain for some reason, he will know it—he will feel it.

Basta con que te mire a los ojos para que se dé cuenta de que algo va mal.

Y por mucho que intentes ocultarlo, fracasarás.

And when he sees you’re in pain, he will feel for you. He will feel that pain in his own skin—like something bad happened to him.

Porque tú eres uno. Lo que te duele a ti también le duele a él.

7. Lo sabes

Algo muy dentro de ti te dice que él es el indicado para ti. Es algo que nadie puede explicar con palabras.

Es algo incomprensible y, por tanto, misterioso.

It’s like there is some kind of spiritual force that is pushing you towards each other, and each and every little thing falls into its place.

Eso es. Tarde o temprano experimentarás todas estas señales. Sólo tienes que ser lo suficientemente sabio como para reconocerlos.

Sólo hay un alma gemela. Si le echas de menos, ¿quién sabe si volverás a encontrarle?

But, on the other hand, if you do miss him, does that mean there’s no one else there for you?

And if so—where do the all unrecognized souls go?