8 razões adoráveis para os homens adorarem abraçar-se

Os homens são completamente iguais às mulheres. Todos estes estereótipos sobre os homens odiarem acariciar são simplesmente ridículos.

Falando por experiência própria, os homens adoram acariciar-se. Quando sentem algo por si e estão interessados em si, aproveitam cada momento consigo para tocar e abraço. It’s a completely normal way of displaying affection.

On the other hand, if a guy doesn’t want to cuddle, don’t label him as ‘not a cuddling type’ because there is no such thing.

Instead of that, he is probably just not interested in you or is not yet sure where your relationship is going, so he doesn’t want to give you false hope.

So, we’ve agreed that guys love to cuddle, but do we know why? Here it goes:

Faz-nos sentir seguros

 

It is in a man’s nature be protective and by hugging you, they are showing you they care for you. They don’t want anything bad happen to you, and they are showing it by cuddling.

They want to keep you by their sides, hold on to you tightly and never let you go. In his arms, you’ll feel safe and loved, just the way he wants you to.

Ele sente-se suficientemente homem

Whether they like to admit it or not, men love control. They love to be in charge of things, and one of the things they’d love to be in charge of is your relationship.

Gostam de pensar que são eles os responsáveis por isso. Por isso, querem sentir-se másculos.

They want to be the type of man you’ll come to when you feel down and sad.

They want to hold you in their arms, and tell you it’s going to be alright. They want to give you comfort when you need it.

Ele quer fazer-te feliz

Is there something more beautiful than a warm and nice hug at the end of a hard day? Well, that’s how much he loves you, and that’s what he wants to give you.

Ele quer tomar-te nos braços e abraçar-te para te relaxar. Ele quer que te sintas protegida e que te abras com ele.

Cuddling is not just an ordinary thing to him. It’s a chance for you to open up in a safe space and be vulnerable without judging. It’s a chance for you to feel happy.

Ele quer sentir o contacto

 

Ele não só quer que sejas feliz, como também quer ser feliz ele próprio.

E tocar em alguém e estabelecer um contacto próximo dá-lhe isso mesmo.

O cérebro produz hormonas de felicidade quando tocamos numa pessoa que amamos.

That’s why he has the need to cuddle with you. He wants to feel the physical contact which brings forth happy thoughts.

It’s not sex, but it’s intimate

You’d think that all guys are just about sex. Well, believe it or not, they are not.

Some guys want to show you affection, but they don’t want to insult you by taking you to bed too early.

Instead, they will cuddle because it’s another way of being intimate with the person you care about without taking your clothes off.

Não há pressão

O sexo pode ser muito stressante para os homens. Eles têm de se esforçar e dar o seu melhor.

They don’t want to disappoint you. Sometimes this pressure has a great impact on their performance.

Mas uma das razões pelas quais os homens adoram acariciar-se é o facto de poderem ser eles próprios.

Podem desfrutar da proximidade consigo sem sentirem qualquer pressão. Podem ser simplesmente eles próprios.

Pode levar ao sexo

Once again, it doesn’t have to and no pressure, but it can. If the cuddling goes one step further, than the sex is guaranteed. It all depends whether you are in the mood or not.

Mas lembre-se que os homens que gostam de acariciar acariciam-se porque gostam, não porque isso possa levar ao sexo.

But that doesn’t mean that the possibility isn’t hanging somewhere deep in the back of their minds, just in case.

Podem ser vulneráveis

Not only are they making you feel safe and letting you be vulnerable, they are opening up to you, too. They are also being vulnerable when you’re cuddling.

They usually love to be heroes who protect and are always there when there’s trouble.

Mas, na verdade, os rapazes são tão vulneráveis como nós. Eles também são seres humanos com sentimentos. Ficam tristes; ficam magoados.

E enquanto se acariciam, podem partilhar todas essas coisas consigo.

Se quiserem, podem abrir-se e pedir conforto. Os mimos são o momento perfeito para isso.