8 Sinais mistos mais comuns que os homens enviam e o seu significado

Não detestas sinais contraditórios? O que é que ele pensava quando dizia/fazia/não fazia isto ou aquilo?

It’s kinda frustrating. But it seems like the dating scene of today can’t survive without mixed signals.

Entrar na mente de um homem e tentar compreender o seu ponto de vista não é fácil.

No entanto, fizemos o nosso trabalho de casa. Pedimos a 30 homens para serem brutalmente honestos no que diz respeito a sinais contraditórios e foi isto que descobrimos:

Um texto aleatório do nada depois de ter desaparecido durante um longo período de tempo

   

Ele está apenas a verificar se ainda estás aí, se ainda te preocupas o suficiente para responder.

He usually doesn’t want anything concrete, he just wants your attention.

If a text is short and effortless, don’t even bother to text back. He wants to boost his ego by believing that he can have you any time his text lights up your phone.

Mandar mensagens a toda a hora, mas nunca te convidar para sair

Este é um homem que envia mensagens sem intenção. Ele apenas gosta de se manter em contacto consigo, gosta da conversa e gosta da atenção que está a receber e nada mais.

If you have been texting or keeping in touch in any way for a while now and he hasn’t had the decency to take you on a proper date, you are in a namoro that’s never turning into a real relationship.

Ele inicia a conversa e depois desaparece durante muito tempo

He’s definitely playing games. Let’s face it—a man who sends you a text you replied to almost immediately still has his phone in his hands and he sees that you texted back.

Ele está apenas a atrasar a resposta para que saiba que está a seguir as regras dele.

He wants to build the tension and anticipation and get you more hooked. Don’t play his game.

Ele afasta-se depois de alguns bons encontros

The first and most probable thing here is that he is not dating only you, if he had time to text and meet up with you before and now he is using the ‘busy’ excuse.

He is probably seeing other women alongside you. Don’t get too attached and keep your options open.

Secondly, he might not be ready for a relationship because he went through a break-up recently and he only just realized that. If that’s the case, thank him for not making you his rebound girlfriend and wave him goodbye.

Quando ele diz que só quer ser amigo mas continua a namoriscar contigo

He wants you in his life, he probably even likes you but he doesn’t want to date you or enter into a relationship with you.

That’s why staying in your life as your friend is the safest way to go.

He made it clear that he is not into anything serious so he has no obstacles to flirting with you freely. But don’t get confused, it is just for the sake of flirting; some men are simply like that.

Ele é todo a favor das chamadas nocturnas

When a man only calls or texts late at night, his intentions are clear—he wants to get naked with you.

He is probably drunk and alone, or both of the two, and in need of some TLC and trying to see if it’s possible with you.

If he doesn’t ask you out, if he never meets up with you during the day and you only see each other when he finds it convenient, you have to face the fact that tu és o seu engate, um amigo com benefícios e nada mais.

Ele viu-a com outro homem e agora está a fazer um esforço

Ele viu-te com um tipo qualquer, que pode muito bem ser apenas teu amigo, mas o que se passa é que os ciúmes dele foram despertados. De repente, ele manda mensagens, telefona, comenta e gosta de fotos nas suas redes sociais.

Provavelmente, ele está a comportar-se assim porque vê o outro homem como uma concorrência e, assim que vir que a pode ter de volta, voltará a ser frio.

What’s happening here is that he doesn’t want to be with you but he doesn’t want the other guy to be with you either. Don’t fall for this.

Ele diz que não está pronto para uma relação AGORA

Ele pode realmente não estar preparado ou está a ser esperto e a fazer jogos.

He knows how the female brain works and that by adding ‘right now’ to his sentence, that will be the only thing she will hear.

He is awakening false hopes that someday something more meaningful might happen, especially if his story follows with ‘let’s have fun’, ‘we don’t need labels’ or ‘let’s keep it casual for now and see what happens’.

You don’t have to wait and see anything, he is just telling you that he is not relationship material and he never will be as far as you are concerned.

Don’t waste your time hooking up with him if you want something more real.

The bottom line is a guy who likes you won’t send you mixed signals, apart from maybe very early on while he is still trying to figure out where he stands with you, to avoid getting ahead of himself.

But if his behavior continues, don’t even bother reading his mixed signals and send him packing.

Precisas de alguém que goste de ti e que não tenha medo de o mostrar. Precisas de alguém com quem possas comunicar de forma aberta e honesta e não alguém que queira que leias a sua mente.