10 sinais claros de que já perdeste tempo suficiente com ele e tens de seguir em frente

No matter how hard you try, you can’t shake off that awful feeling that something isn’t right. You see that things have changed and you’ve tried so hard to fix it, but you still have the feeling that something is missing.

Infelizmente, sometimes it’s just not meant to be and you can do absolutely nothing about it. You can’t go against destiny.

Really, sometimes your only option is to give up and move on. You have to know when it’s time to let him go because há algo melhor à tua espera no futuro e temos de estar preparados para isso.

Here are some definite signs that will help you understand when it’s time to stop fighting for your relationship and move on.

You feel that he doesn’t care for you as he did before

No início, ele fazia pequenas coisas para provar o seu amor por si todos os dias. Era atencioso, planeava encontros românticos e queria passar cada minuto do seu tempo livre consigo.

Agora, tudo isso desapareceu. Sente-se só a maior parte do tempo porque quase não passam tempo juntos. Não há mais surpresas românticas e sente que a faísca está a desaparecer.

Provavelmente tem razão e deve at least talk to him about it and see what’s going on. If your feelings are not reciprocated, you shouldn’t waste a minute more of your time on him.

Muitas coisas podem ser resolvidas, mas quando não há sentimentos de ambas as partes, a relação está condenada.

You aren’t his priority

If you treat him like he is the most important person in your life and he doesn’t make you a sua prioridade, então devem pensar na vossa relação.

You should know your worth and you should never fight for someone who puts everything and everyone ahead of you. It’s not worth it.

He doesn’t treat you the way you deserve

Por muito que o ames, tens sempre de te amar mais a ti própria. Tens de saber o quanto vales e o que mereces e nunca te deves contentar com menos do que isso.

If he mistreats you, it’s because he doesn’t love you. He uses your honest feelings because he believes you won’t leave him, no matter what he does to you.

Don’t ever allow this to  happen. Show him that he can’t play with you simply because you’ve shown him that you love him.

He doesn’t appreciate you enough

Os seus sentimentos são importantes. A tua opinião é importante. Ele tem de a respeitar e nunca a tomar como garantida. Devem tomar todas as decisões em conjunto.

Se he doesn’t appreciate you the way he should and you allow him to get away with it, it’ll only show him that you also don’t appreciate yourself enough.

He doesn’t want to make things official

He’s taking forever to take the next step in your relationship. If he was sure about his feelings and your love, he wouldn’t wait so long to have ‘the talk’ about the future of your relationship.

Obviously, there is a reason for this procrastination. If you wait for too long for him to make your relationship more serious, you’ll only suffer and you might also miss some other great things.

You don’t see yourself with him in the future

Pense no seu futuro por um momento. Ele está incluído em todos os seus planos para o futuro? Tem a certeza de que ele é o homem com quem quer passar o resto da sua vida?

If you can’t picture yourself with him in the future, then you shouldn’t waste your time in the relationship.

Tem a sensação de estar numa relação unilateral

You are the only one who makes any effort to make the relationship work. You share very deep feelings for your significant other but you are aware that your feelings aren’t reciprocated.

You’ve poured yourself into the relationship but you still haven’t gotten anything out of it. Being in a one-sided relationship is the worst feeling ever. If you’ve found yourself in one, you should step back and let it go.

Evita habilmente discutir os problemas

Têm de confiar um no outro e ser capazes de se abrir um com o outro e falar sobre as coisas que vos incomodam na relação.

Se houver comunicação deficiente between you, your relationship is doomed to failure already. It’s just a matter of time before one of you realizes this.

A sua família e os seus amigos aconselham-no a terminar a relação

Se a sua família e os seus amigos apoiam a sua decisão de se separar e até o aconselham a fazê-lo, deve ouvi-los porque são pessoas que só querem o melhor para si.

They know how much you’ve tried to make the relationship work and they are also aware of the fact that he isn’t the right guy for you. They know that you deserve so much more than what he’s giving you.

Já não há química entre vós

A intimidade física é importante para qualquer relação saudável. Cria uma ligação mais forte entre vós. Esse tipo de proximidade é o que mantém viva a chama da vossa relação.

If you can’t feel the real connection with your man, if there is no chemistry between you, it means that there is also no love.

If there is no love, then what’s the point of fighting for your relationship?

O amor é algo que nunca pode ser forçado and sometimes it’s truly better to be single than stuck in a relationship with someone who doesn’t make you feel loved and happy.