10 señales inequívocas de que ya has perdido suficiente tiempo con él y tienes que pasar página

No matter how hard you try, you can’t shake off that awful feeling that something isn’t right. You see that things have changed and you’ve tried so hard to fix it, but you still have the feeling that something is missing.

Desgraciadamente, sometimes it’s just not meant to be and you can do absolutely nothing about it. You can’t go against destiny.

Really, sometimes your only option is to give up and move on. You have to know when it’s time to let him go because algo mejor te espera en el futuro y tienes que estar preparado para ello.

Here are some definite signs that will help you understand when it’s time to stop fighting for your relationship and move on.

You feel that he doesn’t care for you as he did before

Al principio, hacía pequeñas cosas para demostrarte su amor cada día. Era atento, planeaba citas románticas y quería pasar contigo cada minuto de su tiempo libre.

Ahora todo eso ha desaparecido. Te sientes solo la mayor parte del tiempo porque apenas pasáis tiempo juntos. Ya no hay sorpresas románticas y sientes que la chispa se apaga.

Probablemente tenga razón y debería at least talk to him about it and see what’s going on. If your feelings are not reciprocated, you shouldn’t waste a minute more of your time on him.

Muchas cosas se pueden arreglar, pero cuando no hay sentimientos por ambas partes, la relación está condenada.

You aren’t his priority

If you treat him like he is the most important person in your life and he doesn’t make you su prioridad, entonces deberías pensar en tu relación.

You should know your worth and you should never fight for someone who puts everything and everyone ahead of you. It’s not worth it.

He doesn’t treat you the way you deserve

Por mucho que le quieras, siempre tienes que quererte más a ti misma. Debes saber cuánto vales y lo que te mereces y nunca debes conformarte con menos que eso.

If he mistreats you, it’s because he doesn’t love you. He uses your honest feelings because he believes you won’t leave him, no matter what he does to you.

Don’t ever allow this to  happen. Show him that he can’t play with you simply because you’ve shown him that you love him.

He doesn’t appreciate you enough

Tus sentimientos importan. Su opinión es importante. Tiene que respetarla y no darla nunca por sentada. Debéis tomar todas las decisiones juntos.

Si he doesn’t appreciate you the way he should and you allow him to get away with it, it’ll only show him that you also don’t appreciate yourself enough.

He doesn’t want to make things official

He’s taking forever to take the next step in your relationship. If he was sure about his feelings and your love, he wouldn’t wait so long to have ‘the talk’ about the future of your relationship.

Obviously, there is a reason for this procrastination. If you wait for too long for him to make your relationship more serious, you’ll only suffer and you might also miss some other great things.

You don’t see yourself with him in the future

Piense por un momento en su futuro. ¿Está él incluido en todos tus planes de futuro? ¿Estás segura de que es el hombre con el que quieres pasar el resto de tu vida?

If you can’t picture yourself with him in the future, then you shouldn’t waste your time in the relationship.

Se siente como si estuviera en una relación unilateral

You are the only one who makes any effort to make the relationship work. You share very deep feelings for your significant other but you are aware that your feelings aren’t reciprocated.

You’ve poured yourself into the relationship but you still haven’t gotten anything out of it. Being in a one-sided relationship is the worst feeling ever. If you’ve found yourself in one, you should step back and let it go.

Evita hábilmente discutir los problemas

Tenéis que confiar el uno en el otro y ser capaces de abriros y hablar de las cosas que os molestan en la relación.

Si hay mala comunicación between you, your relationship is doomed to failure already. It’s just a matter of time before one of you realizes this.

Tu familia y amigos te aconsejan que rompas

Si tu familia y amigos apoyan tu decisión de romper e incluso te aconsejan que lo hagas, deberías hacerles caso porque son personas que sólo quieren lo mejor para ti.

They know how much you’ve tried to make the relationship work and they are also aware of the fact that he isn’t the right guy for you. They know that you deserve so much more than what he’s giving you.

Ya no hay química entre vosotros

La intimidad física es importante para toda relación sana. Crea un vínculo más fuerte entre vosotros. Ese tipo de intimidad es lo que mantiene viva la chispa de la relación.

If you can’t feel the real connection with your man, if there is no chemistry between you, it means that there is also no love.

If there is no love, then what’s the point of fighting for your relationship?

El amor es algo que nunca se puede forzar and sometimes it’s truly better to be single than stuck in a relationship with someone who doesn’t make you feel loved and happy.