Aguenta só mais um pouco, toda essa dor que sentes agora vai desaparecer em breve

Antes de mais, preciso que me façam um favor. Vá até ao espelho mais próximo da sua casa e diga-me honestamente, o que vê?

Well, if you see a deeply hurt and broken-hearted woman who doesn’t have the strength to carry on anymore, you aren’t even aware of how wrong you actually are.

A única perspetiva correcta é a que deve ser criada na sua mente. A forma como gostaria de se ver e sentir e a forma como gostaria que as outras pessoas o vissem.

Por vezes, a vida torna-se difícil.

People disappoint you. The ones you love the most hurt you. But that’s just how things really are and you can do absolutely nothing about it.

A vida é dura, mas tu tens de ser ainda mais duro. Encare-a como um grande combate com muitos e muitos rounds.

Tens de lutar, aconteça o que acontecer. Sabe porquê? Porque o és suficientemente forte para te continuares a levantar, por mais vezes que a vida te deite abaixo.

Don’t give up after just a few rounds.

You’re so much better than that. Just because someone won a little battle, don’t allow them to win the entire fight.

Tomou a decisão de confiar nesse homem e de lhe dar o seu coração. E ele tinha o teu coração na palma das mãos e depois optou por deitá-lo fora e pisá-lo até se partir completamente.

Everything happens for a reason and that’s why you mustn’t look at it as your mistake. It was God’s choice, too. He sent you that lesson only to make you smarter and even stronger than you already were.

You can cry for many more nights and shut yourself off from the world but unfortunately, that wouldn’t change a thing.

That’s not the way you’ll heal your heart.

As feridas continuarão a existir e poderão doer ainda mais.

You let one wrong person inside your heart but that mustn’t make you close the door of your heart forever.

One day, the right one will come knocking on that door and you’ll have to let him in. You’ll see all the light and happiness he’ll carry into your damaged heart.

You’ll never be able to forget it, that’s a fact. And you shouldn’t either.
You’ll heal but you’ll never be able to remove all the scars left after it. And you shouldn’t even be trying to.

Leave them right where they are and embrace every single one of them. Wear all those scars proudly because they’re the only witnesses of everything you went through.

They’ll be your little reminders to tell you when it’s time to hit the brakes every time you fall in love with someone and they don’t reciprocate your feelings in the same way.

Esperem só mais um bocadinho, por favor. Eu sei it’s really stormy right now but I promise you, it won’t rain forever. It can’t and it won’t.

And if you’re feeling lost…

… if you don’t know how to move on or what to do next, don’t worry. We all feel like that sometimes.

Trust me, but really trust me on this, there is a way out. And soon, very soon, you’ll find the right direction and be able to rise above it all.

As coisas hão-de melhorar.

You’ll come out as the only winner of that situation. You’ll know that you didn’t do anyone wrong, that you didn’t hurt anyone.

You’ll know your heart is still pure, unlike the heart of the person who hurt you, and it’ll be your greatest victory.

Agora, mais uma vez, façam-me o mesmo favor. Respire fundo, vá novamente ao espelho e diga-me: o que vê agora?

Is it going to be a hurt woman who somewhere along the way of loving the wrong man lost herself or is it going to be a strong and fierce woman who is capable of everything and doesn’t give a damn about people who don’t deserve her at all?