40 maneiras bonitas e românticas de convidar uma rapariga para sair (com exemplos)
É assustador para os homens fazer isto. Todos nós temos medo da rejeição e, sejamos francos, as raparigas sabem mesmo como ser más e acabar connosco a sangue frio.
So, even though I am a girl, I get it—it’s scary to ask a girl out because you never know how she’s going to react.
But what if I said that there is a way, or better said that there are 40 cute and romantic ways to ask a girl out without having to fear she’s going to give you the cold shoulder?
Trust me, there are. So instead, you’re going to arrebatá-la com a sua criatividade e a sua abordagem.
Um erro que todos os rapazes cometem e que você também cometeu (provavelmente) é o esforço mínimo que se faz quando se aproxima de uma rapariga.
I’m not sure yet why you do it but my best guess would be that you’re scared to tell her you like her so you go in lame because you’ve already got comfortable with the fact she’s going to turn you down.
What every girl gets out of this approach is that you’re not that interested in her but for some reason, you’re still approaching her.
It’s kind of an ‘if it works, it works’ vibe you’re spreading. Logically, the girl is definitely going to turn you down.
Caros rapazes, as raparigas querem ser arrebatadas.
Elas querem sentir-se especiais e querem ver através do seu comportamento e das suas acções que quer realmente aquela mulher especial e mais ninguém.
That’s why effort matters. That’s why your approach has to be unique, fun and creative.
Put some romance in while you’re at it and there you go—you have a successful recipe on how to ask a girl out.
If you’re by any chance cute, well, that’s an additional bonus, although it’s not the most important thing you need.
O ingrediente secreto para o sucesso é o esforço e a confiança.
And please, hurry up! Don’t wait, don’t beat around the bush, because if you don’t scoop her up, someone else will!
40 maneiras giras e românticas de convidar uma rapariga para sair
1. Telefonar-lhe
Chickens text and send messages on social media. I mean, come on, everyone can text and it’s a not a big deal to do it.
With that being said, try doing something not so out of the ordinary but in this era, a bit surprising—call her on the phone.
She’ll hear your voice and you’ll leave a more clear impression through the phone rather than with a text.
And one more important thing—she’ll think you’re really making an effort.
2. Leve-a a um encontro inesquecível
The key is to be thoughtful. She’s been on God knows how many regular dates in her lifetime.
O que precisa de fazer é algo diferente, algo que a faça recordar essa data para o resto da sua vida.
Making a date unforgettable doesn’t mean you have to take her to expensive places or buy her expensive things.
Maybe others did that too and it won’t be anything new to her. So, let’s
riscar isso da lista de coisas para tornar um encontro memorável.
Find out what she likes and take her there but make it the best date ever. It wouldn’t hurt you to throw in a surprise or two.
Although be careful not to go over the top because unfortunately, she’ll think you’re trying too hard.
3. Convidá-la para sair com música
Make a killer playlist—just choose the approach you want to take first.
If you’re about to sweep her off her feet with romance, then make a killer romance music playlist and I don’t mean downloading already made playlists but really make an effort and do it yourself.
She won’t have the heart to say no to you. Love and good music always go hand in hand!
4. Fazê-lo no dia do aniversário dela
Or any special day, in case her birthday already passed. It’s not cheesy, it’s not blah—it’s romantic and creative.
First, you’ll flatter her by letting her know that you remembered when her birthday is and second, you’ll never forget your anniversary.
5. Dar-lhe um peluche
Devise a careful tactic to win her heart. You can’t just approach her holding a teddy bear and ask her out.
It doesn’t work like that and it’s not that simple. First, give her a teddy just because you thought of her.
Diz-lhe que querias fazer algo que a fizesse feliz.
Depois, deixe-a pensar durante alguns dias.
By giving her that teddy bear, you’re sneaking into her mind and she won’t be able to get you out of there for some time.
Assim, passados estes dias, volta a aproximar-se dela e convida-a para sair.
Oh and why a teddy bear? Every girl likes a teddy bear. You can’t go wrong with a teddy. Ever.
6. Liberta o teu poeta interior
We all have an inner poet. It’s just a matter of whether we want it to come out or not.
Sei que qualquer pessoa pode compor algumas frases bonitas se estiver a falar com o coração.
With that being said, so can you, so don’t be scared and give it a try.
She won’t laugh at you and she’ll love whatever you write, especially if she has a romantic soul.
What you write is not that important, what you think is what counts. The fact alone that you’re opening up to her is a big deal.
She’ll see you’re being honest and letting her see you in your most vulnerable state.
Nota: As raparigas gostam quando os homens ficam vulneráveis.
7. Cozinhar algo para ela
Man, ask help anywhere you can. Ask your mom to teach you how to bake or go to your grandma’s for rescue, just learn how to bake something.
There is nothing cuter or more creative than a baked cookie saying ‘Will you go out with me?’
And just a hint for you—if it’s perfect, she’ll know you bought it somewhere but if it really looks like a something a guy who never before baked anything in his life, then she’ll definitely know you did it yourself, which means you put in the effort.
In other words, you’ll win her over instantly.
8. Write it down somewhere she doesn’t expect
Use sand, snow, windows, mirrors, whatever you can get your hands on. It’s a super sweet and romantic way to ask a girl out.
Seria ainda melhor se o pudesses fazer quando ela não está contigo, para que ela possa ficar surpreendida quando o vir.
Of course, if you don’t get the chance to surprise her, do it in front of her. The effect will definitely be the same and the answer will be yes!
9. Faça-o à moda antiga - leve-lhe flores
Every girl falls for flowers. She may even say she doesn’t like them but deep down all of them are honored and kind of melt when they get flowers.
It’s a genuine gesture made when someone likes someone. Who can stay indifferent at that moment?
Flowers cannot mean anything else, other then ‘I like you’.
10. Ou experimentar algo novo - uma pizza?
Se hábitos de namoro da velha guarda fail, try being creative. Truth be told, it may be a bit cheesy but it’s funny, trust me.
Order an extra cheese pizza and slip a note in it saying ‘I know this is cheesy but I’d love to take you out for dinner next week’.
Note: If she’s lactose intolerant, maybe it would be wiser to try something else.
11. Organizar uma caça ao tesouro
Girls love playing games. Therefore, I’m suggesting a treasure hunt and yes, I’m implying you are the treasure at the end of the game.
Dê-lhe enigmas e pistas para tornar esse momento memorável.
She’ll have a ton of fun and I promise she will never have had a more original idea for being asked out in her life.
This will excite her and you’ll leave a great impression since you’ve organized all of that just to ask her out.
Of course, don’t forget to let your last clue lead directly to you, when you have to ask her out face-to-face.
12. Faz isso com a tua voz
Ok, ambos concordamos que uma pessoa tem de ter talento para poder cantar.
If you do, then it’s a huge plus and it can turn your performance into a highly romantic one, leading you to a definite yes from the lady.
On the other hand, talent is desirable but not necessary. Furthermore, if you can’t sing, it would be even better.
In that way, she’ll see that you’re willing to make a fool out of yourself to get her to go out with you.
She’ll think you’re funny and you’ll win her over by showing how much effort you’ve put into asking her out.
13. Biscoito da sorte?
Se o conseguires, serás realmente o homem certo.
Somehow, I don’t know how, try slipping a note saying ‘Will you go out with me?’ in her fortune cookie.
She’ll be speechless for everything other than ‘yes’.
14. Comprar bilhetes com antecedência
Don’t give her any hints and don’t say anything.
Compre bilhetes para a banda de que ambos gostam ou para o jogo de que ambos gostam e apareça à frente dela, com os bilhetes na mão, e peça-lhe para ir consigo.
She won’t be able to say no. It will come as a pleasant shock and a surprise for her.
15. Acender algumas velas
Wait for the chance to get her alone. Plan this during the evening, otherwise it won’t make any sense.
Acenda algumas velas e crie um ambiente romântico e depois faça a pergunta.
Nothing says effort and romance like a couple of lit candles and she won’t be able to not melt because of your boldness, creativity and the fact that you genuinely care about her.
16. Tenta escrever uma mensagem num balão
Nem todos vocês são particularmente faladores com raparigas.
Truth be told, more of you get so nervous that more than once you say something completely wrong, something you shouldn’t have said that ruins everything.
Bem, se pertence ao grupo de homens que não são muito bons com as palavras ao pé das mulheres, então tente algo como uma mensagem num balão.
Torne este balão especial, faça-o só para ela. Escreva a sua mensagem e deixe-o preso à janela ou à porta do carro dela.
17. Escrever-lhe uma carta
Don’t use your computer, don’t use your phone. Write her a handwritten letter.
Nothing says ‘I like you’ more than putting that amount of effort into asking someone out.
You could just as easily write it down in an email and send it with just one click but you decided otherwise—she’ll appreciate you taking the time and putting that much effort with nice handwriting to write down your thoughts and let her know you like her.
18. Peça conselhos aos seus amigos
If you really like her, then you’ll ask your friends to help you, either with coming up with ideas or with the execution of an already made-up plan to ask her out.
If you don’t have any ideas, write down ‘Will you go out with me?’ on some card and ask your friends to hold the pieces of card along the road you know she passes by every day or somewhere you know she’ll see them.
19. Enviar o seu cão para entregar uma mensagem
If you see each other in a dog park, then it’s an excellent idea to tie a note around your dog’s neck and accidentally let him run away to her or you can just walk by, so she can see the note.
Devo admitir que este momento poderia facilmente transformar-se numa cena de filme.
20. Leva-a a fazer algo que sabes que ela gosta
If you know she likes music, then take her to a concert. If she’s a bit of an art freak, then take her to a new gallery opening or to the gallery she always wanted to visit. Whatever the destination is, make sure it’s something she likes.
You’ll definitely get some extra points for making that move and you’ll get her to go out with you, especially if she didn’t know whether to go or not.
21. Esforça-te por criar uma atmosfera perfeita
Por vezes, as velas românticas e as frases de engate mais pirosas não são suficientes para a convencer a sair consigo.
Bem, nessas alturas, o que é preciso é um bom ambiente. É preciso criar o ambiente perfeito para que tu e ela possam relaxar.
Se o conseguir, terá mais hipóteses de a conquistar.
22. Entrar no telemóvel dela
Isto é tão fácil de fazer, mas tão inteligente.
Use an excuse to take her phone, which shouldn’t be a hard thing to pull, and while she’s not looking, change your name to ‘Will you go out with me? :)’.
Espere que ela se vá embora e depois telefone-lhe.
Ela vai cair nessa jogada imaginativa, sem dúvida.
23. Comprar-lhe um bilhete de lotaria
If you don’t want to complicate things, try this tactic.
Buy her a lottery ticket and tell her if she wins, she’s taking you out for a dinner and if she doesn’t, you’re taking her out instead.
It’s a win-win situation.
24. Chocolate = romance
Who doesn’t like chocolate? It’s basically equal to romance and dates. Now, you have two choices.
Either buy her some chocolate you know she likes and slip a note inside asking her out, or write ‘Will you go out with me?’ with chocolate.
Honestly, I don’t know which option she’ll like better. Either way, you can’t go wrong.
25. But for a passionate coffee lover, it’s coffee
Esta abordagem requer alguns ensaios antes de a convidar para sair.
You’ll have to buy her a couple of morning lattes before you build up the courage to ask her out.
Anyhow, this is how you’re going to do it. Write it down on the bottom of her cup and wait to see her reaction.
Se, por alguma razão, isto não resultar, basta escrever no lado.
26. Escreve-o na berma da estrada
Faça-o parecer divertido e criativo.
Use colored chalks and write down ‘Will you go out with me?’ in big and colorful letters somewhere you’re positive she’ll walk by.
Nothing says fun and creative like colored chalks and it’s cute, too.
27. Fazer-lhe um presente artesanal
You don’t even have to be skilled at it but if you are, then it’s a plus. It won’t take you long to create something for her.
Mas, como já referi, se não tiveres jeito, há imensas ideias na Internet e tutoriais que te levarão passo a passo a fazer um presente perfeito para ela.
You won’t be able to screw anything up. Even if you do, start all over again.
I guarantee you that any gift she receives won’t be as dear to her as the one you’ve made with your own two hands.
28. Snapchat dela
De preferência, faça-o à frente de todos os seus amigos enquanto eles estão a gozar consigo por gostar de uma rapariga.
Tell her that you don’t care if anyone is making fun of you because you like her and you want her to go out with you.
There is no way she’ll be able to resist such a direct message.
29. Convidá-la para sair num local público
Esta é uma questão complicada porque precisa de ter a certeza de que ela vai dizer sim antes de pôr o seu coração em jogo.
As there are girls who don’t like public displays of affection, there are girls who love it.
If your girl is one of those who loves it, then choosing the jumbotron on a game, zooming on on you while you’re holding a piece of paper saying ‘Will you go out with me?’ is a brilliant idea.
30. Recriar uma cena do seu filme ou programa de televisão preferido
I know, this can’t be as perfect as in the movie or TV show but it can be close enough.
Pegue em qualquer série ou filme que saiba que ela gosta e escolha uma cena importante ou super romântica.
Recrie tudo o que aconteceu, faça com que ela interprete um papel consigo.
Arranje roupas semelhantes e encontre um local semelhante onde a ação se desenrole. Ela vai ficar maravilhada com a sua criatividade, especialmente se fizer tudo bem feito.
31. Usar frases de engate foleiras
Despite what you’re thinking, frases de engate foleiras funcionam como um encanto. Se pensarmos bem, não temos nada a perder.
Either she will laugh her head off at one of the cheesy things you say to her and like you for it or she’ll melt and still like you for it.
Sugiro que o faça, porque nunca se sabe o que pode acontecer. Sinceramente, esta abordagem parece ser uma situação em que todos ganham.
32. Tirar partido do facto de ela ser uma nerd
If she sits in front of you in class and you know she is a nerd who always pays attention in class, write down your message in a book, in the section you know she’ll open to read.
This tactic is right up her street and she won’t be able to say no to you.
33. Fazer uma proposta de t-shirt
Esta é uma forma interessante de pedir alguém em casamento, mas também pode funcionar perfeitamente para pedir a alguém para sair consigo.
If you’re not that good with art stuff, hire a professional to do it, so you’ll be sure nothing will be messed up.
A abordagem é muito clara e simples. Pinte a sua pergunta e coloque um ponto de interrogação no final.
Cubra a sua camisa com um casaco e quando a levar a um sítio agradável, espere pelo momento certo e tire o casaco.
Ela dirá que sim num piscar de olhos.
34. Ou simplesmente perguntar-lhe
Sem tácticas, sem planos secretos, basta ir ter com ela e, cheio de confiança, perguntar-lhe se quer sair consigo.
Tell her that you like her and you can’t stop thinking about her. Sometimes, the simplest things do the trick.
35. Utilizar um marcador de livros
Find out which book she’s currently reading, taken into account, of course, that she is a bookworm, and stick a clever note inside of it.
Marque uma página com o seu bilhete e isso fará com que ela fique com um sorriso no rosto quando chegar ao bilhete que escreveu.
36. Comprar-lhe jóias
It doesn’t have to be anything expensive. You can make a piece of jewelry on your own but you can buy it just the same.
You don’t have to buy her a gold necklace or bracelet to get her attention. Silver jewelry is just as good and it doesn’t cost that much.
Ou, como já referi, pode fazê-la você mesmo.
Personalize essa peça de joalharia com as iniciais de vocês os dois e ofereça-lha. Vais arrebatá-la.
37. Excita-a
Inicie uma conversa com algo que certamente a entusiasmará. Trabalhe-a e deixe-a falar.
Faça algumas perguntas ao longo do processo, mas preste atenção ao que ela está a dizer.
Girls can tell when you’re pretending to listen and when you’re actually listening to them.
When she gets excited, throw in a ‘Will you go out with me?’ Her positive mood will influence her answer—you’re guessing which one!
38. Utilizar emojis
It’s a bit challenging but if you really like this girl, I’m sure you’ll find a way to use emojis to show what’s on your mind.
Seleccione-as cuidadosamente, tente ser engraçado e criativo e, mais importante, tente ser claro para que ela compreenda o que quer dizer.
39. Subir à varanda dela
Se já conhece esta rapariga, se já são amigos mas sente algo por ela, faça o truque dos filmes dos anos 90 subindo para a varanda dela.
It’s risky, because it may be too cheesy or too much, it depends on what the girl likes.
A razão pela qual é preciso conhecê-la antes de subir ao seu quarto é bastante óbvia.
O que é que ela faria se visse um estranho no seu quarto, certo?
Quando subir, aproxime-se da cama dela e acaricie-lhe suavemente a cabeça. Sussurra-lhe coisas bonitas ao ouvido e acorda-a suavemente.
Nesse momento, admita o que sente por ela e convide-a para sair consigo.
40. Ser engraçado
It’s a fact that girls like men who make them laugh.
Se o puderem fazer por telefone, se ela responder sempre com um emoji de cara engraçada numa mensagem de texto, é provável que diga imediatamente que sim se a convidar para sair.
Whatever tactic you use, remember you have to be confident about what you’re doing. Otherwise, everything will fall to pieces.
