40 formas bonitas y románticas de invitar a salir a una chica (con ejemplos)
A los chicos nos da miedo hacer esto. Todos tememos el rechazo y, admitámoslo, las chicas saben muy bien cómo ser malas y cerrarte el paso a sangre fría.
So, even though I am a girl, I get it—it’s scary to ask a girl out because you never know how she’s going to react.
But what if I said that there is a way, or better said that there are 40 cute and romantic ways to ask a girl out without having to fear she’s going to give you the cold shoulder?
Trust me, there are. So instead, you’re going to barrerla de sus pies con su creatividad y su enfoque.
Un error que todo chico comete, y tú también (probablemente), es esforzarse lo mínimo a la hora de acercarse a una chica.
I’m not sure yet why you do it but my best guess would be that you’re scared to tell her you like her so you go in lame because you’ve already got comfortable with the fact she’s going to turn you down.
What every girl gets out of this approach is that you’re not that interested in her but for some reason, you’re still approaching her.
It’s kind of an ‘if it works, it works’ vibe you’re spreading. Logically, the girl is definitely going to turn you down.
Queridos chicos, las chicas quieren ser barridas de sus pies.
Quieren sentirse especiales y quieren ver a través de tu comportamiento y tus acciones que realmente quieres a esa mujer especial y a nadie más.
That’s why effort matters. That’s why your approach has to be unique, fun and creative.
Put some romance in while you’re at it and there you go—you have a successful recipe on how to ask a girl out.
If you’re by any chance cute, well, that’s an additional bonus, although it’s not the most important thing you need.
El ingrediente secreto del éxito es el esfuerzo y la confianza.
And please, hurry up! Don’t wait, don’t beat around the bush, because if you don’t scoop her up, someone else will!
40 formas bonitas y románticas de invitar a salir a una chica
1. Llámala por teléfono
Chickens text and send messages on social media. I mean, come on, everyone can text and it’s a not a big deal to do it.
With that being said, try doing something not so out of the ordinary but in this era, a bit surprising—call her on the phone.
She’ll hear your voice and you’ll leave a more clear impression through the phone rather than with a text.
And one more important thing—she’ll think you’re really making an effort.
2. Llévala a una cita inolvidable
The key is to be thoughtful. She’s been on God knows how many regular dates in her lifetime.
Lo que tienes que hacer es algo diferente, algo que le haga recordar esa fecha el resto de su vida.
Making a date unforgettable doesn’t mean you have to take her to expensive places or buy her expensive things.
Maybe others did that too and it won’t be anything new to her. So, let’s
tachar eso de la lista de cosas que hacen que una cita sea memorable.
Find out what she likes and take her there but make it the best date ever. It wouldn’t hurt you to throw in a surprise or two.
Although be careful not to go over the top because unfortunately, she’ll think you’re trying too hard.
3. Invítala a salir con música
Make a killer playlist—just choose the approach you want to take first.
If you’re about to sweep her off her feet with romance, then make a killer romance music playlist and I don’t mean downloading already made playlists but really make an effort and do it yourself.
She won’t have the heart to say no to you. Love and good music always go hand in hand!
4. Hazlo en su cumpleaños
Or any special day, in case her birthday already passed. It’s not cheesy, it’s not blah—it’s romantic and creative.
First, you’ll flatter her by letting her know that you remembered when her birthday is and second, you’ll never forget your anniversary.
5. Regálale un peluche
Devise a careful tactic to win her heart. You can’t just approach her holding a teddy bear and ask her out.
It doesn’t work like that and it’s not that simple. First, give her a teddy just because you thought of her.
Dile que querías hacer algo que la hiciera feliz.
Luego, déjala pensar unos días.
By giving her that teddy bear, you’re sneaking into her mind and she won’t be able to get you out of there for some time.
Cuando hayan pasado esos días, acércate a ella e invítala a salir.
Oh and why a teddy bear? Every girl likes a teddy bear. You can’t go wrong with a teddy. Ever.
6. Libera a tu poeta interior
We all have an inner poet. It’s just a matter of whether we want it to come out or not.
Sé a ciencia cierta que cualquiera puede componer unas frases bonitas si habla con el corazón.
With that being said, so can you, so don’t be scared and give it a try.
She won’t laugh at you and she’ll love whatever you write, especially if she has a romantic soul.
What you write is not that important, what you think is what counts. The fact alone that you’re opening up to her is a big deal.
She’ll see you’re being honest and letting her see you in your most vulnerable state.
Nota: A las chicas les gusta cuando los hombres se vuelven vulnerables.
7. Hornéale algo
Man, ask help anywhere you can. Ask your mom to teach you how to bake or go to your grandma’s for rescue, just learn how to bake something.
There is nothing cuter or more creative than a baked cookie saying ‘Will you go out with me?’
And just a hint for you—if it’s perfect, she’ll know you bought it somewhere but if it really looks like a something a guy who never before baked anything in his life, then she’ll definitely know you did it yourself, which means you put in the effort.
In other words, you’ll win her over instantly.
8. Write it down somewhere she doesn’t expect
Use sand, snow, windows, mirrors, whatever you can get your hands on. It’s a super sweet and romantic way to ask a girl out.
Sería aún mejor si pudieras hacerlo mientras ella no está contigo, para que se sorprenda cuando lo vea.
Of course, if you don’t get the chance to surprise her, do it in front of her. The effect will definitely be the same and the answer will be yes!
9. Hazlo a la antigua: llévale flores
Every girl falls for flowers. She may even say she doesn’t like them but deep down all of them are honored and kind of melt when they get flowers.
It’s a genuine gesture made when someone likes someone. Who can stay indifferent at that moment?
Flowers cannot mean anything else, other then ‘I like you’.
10. O prueba algo nuevo: ¿pizza?
Si hábitos de noviazgo de la vieja escuela fail, try being creative. Truth be told, it may be a bit cheesy but it’s funny, trust me.
Order an extra cheese pizza and slip a note in it saying ‘I know this is cheesy but I’d love to take you out for dinner next week’.
Note: If she’s lactose intolerant, maybe it would be wiser to try something else.
11. Organizar una búsqueda del tesoro
Girls love playing games. Therefore, I’m suggesting a treasure hunt and yes, I’m implying you are the treasure at the end of the game.
Dale acertijos y pistas para que ese momento sea memorable.
She’ll have a ton of fun and I promise she will never have had a more original idea for being asked out in her life.
This will excite her and you’ll leave a great impression since you’ve organized all of that just to ask her out.
Of course, don’t forget to let your last clue lead directly to you, when you have to ask her out face-to-face.
12. Hazlo con tu voz
Vale, los dos estamos de acuerdo en que una persona tiene que tener talento para poder cantar.
If you do, then it’s a huge plus and it can turn your performance into a highly romantic one, leading you to a definite yes from the lady.
On the other hand, talent is desirable but not necessary. Furthermore, if you can’t sing, it would be even better.
In that way, she’ll see that you’re willing to make a fool out of yourself to get her to go out with you.
She’ll think you’re funny and you’ll win her over by showing how much effort you’ve put into asking her out.
13. ¿Galleta de la fortuna?
Si lo consigues, entonces eres realmente el hombre.
Somehow, I don’t know how, try slipping a note saying ‘Will you go out with me?’ in her fortune cookie.
She’ll be speechless for everything other than ‘yes’.
14. Comprar entradas con antelación
Don’t give her any hints and don’t say anything.
Compra entradas para el grupo que os guste a los dos o para el partido que os guste a los dos y preséntate ante ella con las entradas en la mano y pídele que te acompañe.
She won’t be able to say no. It will come as a pleasant shock and a surprise for her.
15. Encender velas
Wait for the chance to get her alone. Plan this during the evening, otherwise it won’t make any sense.
Enciende unas velas, crea un ambiente romántico y haz la pregunta.
Nothing says effort and romance like a couple of lit candles and she won’t be able to not melt because of your boldness, creativity and the fact that you genuinely care about her.
16. Intenta escribir un mensaje en un globo
No todos os mostráis especialmente habladores con las chicas.
Truth be told, more of you get so nervous that more than once you say something completely wrong, something you shouldn’t have said that ruins everything.
Bueno, si perteneces al grupo de hombres a los que no se les dan bien las palabras con las mujeres, prueba con algo como un mensaje en un globo.
Haz que este globo sea especial, que sea sólo para ella. Escribe tu mensaje y déjalo atado a su ventana o a la puerta de su coche.
17. Escríbele una carta
Don’t use your computer, don’t use your phone. Write her a handwritten letter.
Nothing says ‘I like you’ more than putting that amount of effort into asking someone out.
You could just as easily write it down in an email and send it with just one click but you decided otherwise—she’ll appreciate you taking the time and putting that much effort with nice handwriting to write down your thoughts and let her know you like her.
18. Pide consejo a tus amigos
If you really like her, then you’ll ask your friends to help you, either with coming up with ideas or with the execution of an already made-up plan to ask her out.
If you don’t have any ideas, write down ‘Will you go out with me?’ on some card and ask your friends to hold the pieces of card along the road you know she passes by every day or somewhere you know she’ll see them.
19. Envíe a su perro a entregar un mensaje
If you see each other in a dog park, then it’s an excellent idea to tie a note around your dog’s neck and accidentally let him run away to her or you can just walk by, so she can see the note.
Debo admitir que este momento podría convertirse fácilmente en una escena de película.
20. Llévala a hacer algo que sepas que le gusta
If you know she likes music, then take her to a concert. If she’s a bit of an art freak, then take her to a new gallery opening or to the gallery she always wanted to visit. Whatever the destination is, make sure it’s something she likes.
You’ll definitely get some extra points for making that move and you’ll get her to go out with you, especially if she didn’t know whether to go or not.
21. Esforzarse por crear un ambiente perfecto
A veces, las velas románticas y las frases más cursis para ligar no bastan para hacer que salga contigo.
En esos momentos, lo que necesitas es un buen ambiente. Tienes que crear el entorno perfecto para que tanto tú como ella os relajéis.
Cuando lo consigas, tendrás más posibilidades de conquistarla.
22. Hackear su teléfono
Esto es tan fácil de hacer, pero tan inteligente.
Use an excuse to take her phone, which shouldn’t be a hard thing to pull, and while she’s not looking, change your name to ‘Will you go out with me? :)’.
Espera a que se vaya y llámala.
Ella caerá en esa jugada imaginativa, no hay duda.
23. Cómprale un billete de lotería
If you don’t want to complicate things, try this tactic.
Buy her a lottery ticket and tell her if she wins, she’s taking you out for a dinner and if she doesn’t, you’re taking her out instead.
It’s a win-win situation.
24. Chocolate = romance
Who doesn’t like chocolate? It’s basically equal to romance and dates. Now, you have two choices.
Either buy her some chocolate you know she likes and slip a note inside asking her out, or write ‘Will you go out with me?’ with chocolate.
Honestly, I don’t know which option she’ll like better. Either way, you can’t go wrong.
25. But for a passionate coffee lover, it’s coffee
Con este planteamiento se pide que se practique un par de veces antes de invitarla a salir.
You’ll have to buy her a couple of morning lattes before you build up the courage to ask her out.
Anyhow, this is how you’re going to do it. Write it down on the bottom of her cup and wait to see her reaction.
Si por alguna razón esto falla, escríbalo al lado.
26. Escríbelo al lado de la carretera
Haz que parezca divertido y creativo.
Use colored chalks and write down ‘Will you go out with me?’ in big and colorful letters somewhere you’re positive she’ll walk by.
Nothing says fun and creative like colored chalks and it’s cute, too.
27. Hazle un regalo artesanal
You don’t even have to be skilled at it but if you are, then it’s a plus. It won’t take you long to create something for her.
Pero como ya he dicho, si no eres habilidoso, hay montones de ideas en Internet y tutoriales que te llevarán paso a paso a hacerle un regalo perfecto.
You won’t be able to screw anything up. Even if you do, start all over again.
I guarantee you that any gift she receives won’t be as dear to her as the one you’ve made with your own two hands.
28. Snapchat ella
Preferiblemente hazlo delante de todos tus amigos mientras te fastidian por gustarles una chica.
Tell her that you don’t care if anyone is making fun of you because you like her and you want her to go out with you.
There is no way she’ll be able to resist such a direct message.
29. Invitarla a salir en un lugar público
Este es un tema delicado, porque tienes que estar seguro de que ella va a decir que sí antes de poner tu corazón en juego.
As there are girls who don’t like public displays of affection, there are girls who love it.
If your girl is one of those who loves it, then choosing the jumbotron on a game, zooming on on you while you’re holding a piece of paper saying ‘Will you go out with me?’ is a brilliant idea.
30. Recrear una escena de su película o programa de televisión favorito
I know, this can’t be as perfect as in the movie or TV show but it can be close enough.
Coge cualquier serie o película que sepas que le gusta y elige una escena importante o súper romántica de ella.
Recrea todo lo que ha pasado, haz que juegue contigo.
Consigue ropa parecida y busca un lugar similar donde transcurra la acción. Se quedará alucinada con tu creatividad, sobre todo si lo haces todo bien.
31. Utilizar frases cursis para ligar
Despite what you’re thinking, frases cursis para ligar funcionan a las mil maravillas. Si lo piensas bien, no tienes nada que perder.
Either she will laugh her head off at one of the cheesy things you say to her and like you for it or she’ll melt and still like you for it.
Le sugiero que se lance, porque nunca se sabe lo que puede pasar. Honestamente, este enfoque parece una situación en la que todos ganan.
32. Aprovechar que es una empollona
If she sits in front of you in class and you know she is a nerd who always pays attention in class, write down your message in a book, in the section you know she’ll open to read.
This tactic is right up her street and she won’t be able to say no to you.
33. Hacer una propuesta de camiseta
Esta es una forma genial de pedirle a alguien que se case contigo, pero también puede funcionar perfectamente para pedirle a alguien que salga contigo.
If you’re not that good with art stuff, hire a professional to do it, so you’ll be sure nothing will be messed up.
El planteamiento es muy claro y sencillo. Pinta tu pregunta y pon un signo de interrogación al final.
Cúbrete la camisa con una chaqueta y cuando la lleves a un sitio bonito, espera el momento adecuado y quítate la chaqueta.
Dirá que sí en un abrir y cerrar de ojos.
34. O simplemente pregúntale
Sin tácticas ni planes secretos, simplemente acércate a ella y, lleno de confianza, pregúntale si quiere salir contigo.
Tell her that you like her and you can’t stop thinking about her. Sometimes, the simplest things do the trick.
35. Utilizar un marcador
Find out which book she’s currently reading, taken into account, of course, that she is a bookworm, and stick a clever note inside of it.
Marca una página con tu nota y así te asegurarás de dibujar una sonrisa en su cara cuando llegue a la nota que escribiste.
36. Cómprale joyas
It doesn’t have to be anything expensive. You can make a piece of jewelry on your own but you can buy it just the same.
You don’t have to buy her a gold necklace or bracelet to get her attention. Silver jewelry is just as good and it doesn’t cost that much.
O, como ya he dicho, puedes hacerlo tú mismo.
Personaliza esa joya con las iniciales de los dos y regálasela. La dejarás boquiabierta.
37. Excitarla
Empieza una conversación con algo que seguro que le entusiasma. Anímala y deja que sea ella la que hable.
Haz algunas preguntas sobre la marcha, pero presta atención a lo que dice.
Girls can tell when you’re pretending to listen and when you’re actually listening to them.
When she gets excited, throw in a ‘Will you go out with me?’ Her positive mood will influence her answer—you’re guessing which one!
38. Utilizar emojis
It’s a bit challenging but if you really like this girl, I’m sure you’ll find a way to use emojis to show what’s on your mind.
Selecciónalas con cuidado, intenta ser divertido y creativo y, lo que es más importante, intenta ser claro para que ella entienda lo que quieres decirle.
39. Subir a su balcón
Si conoces a esa chica de antes, si ya sois amigos pero sientes algo por ella, haz el truco de las películas de los 90 subiéndote a su balcón.
It’s risky, because it may be too cheesy or too much, it depends on what the girl likes.
La razón por la que tienes que conocerla ya antes de subir a su habitación es bastante obvia.
¿Qué haría si viera a un extraño en su habitación, verdad?
Cuando subas, acércate a su cama y acaríciale suavemente la cabeza. Susúrrale cosas bonitas al oído y despiértala suavemente.
Ahí mismo, en ese momento, admite tus sentimientos por ella y pídele que salga contigo.
40. Ser gracioso
It’s a fact that girls like men who make them laugh.
Si puedes hacerlo por teléfono, si siempre te responde con un emoji de cara graciosa a través de un mensaje de texto, lo más probable es que te diga inmediatamente que sí si la invitas a salir.
Whatever tactic you use, remember you have to be confident about what you’re doing. Otherwise, everything will fall to pieces.
