As mulheres fortes não procuram vingança, deixam que o karma faça o seu trabalho sujo

Quando se parte o coração de uma mulher forte, espera-se que o inferno se solte.

Sabe que esta rapariga é capaz de tudo e provavelmente pensa que deve temer pela sua vida.

Quando ferir uma mulher forte, espera-se o pior.

You didn’t just crush her heart – you crushed her ego as well and that is something she won’t easily forgive you for.

You know very well that this girl is fearless and you assume that she’ll do everything in her power to get back at you.

To put it simply – you expect revenge. After all, this is not the type of woman who will stand idly by and watch you destroy her life.

Ela não é uma pessoa que vai deixar que a prejudique sem fazer nada.

Instead, you assume that she’ll do her best to make you feel exactly how she felt when you did her harm.

That she’ll make you regret every tear she cried and that make even deeper scars on your heart.

Well, let me reveal to you one thing – you can’t be more wrong because a strong woman never seeks revenge.

She won’t stoop to your level and she won’t allow everything you did to her to change her and make her become the person she doesn’t want to be.

She won’t allow her pain to make her become the same as you.

Yes, the truth is that you’ve hurt both this woman’s feelings and her ego.

No entanto, por maior que seja a sua dor emocional, ela vai apanhar os pedaços do seu coração e colar-se a si própria em silêncio e com dignidade.

She won’t desperdiçar mais energia a tentar vingar-se de si.

She won’t pretend that she’s forgiven you to make you come back into her life, just so she could kick you out of it later on.

She won’t fool around with one of your friends or use whatever she knows about you against you.

She won’t go around stalking the girl you cheated on with or someone you are about to date to tell her what an asshole you are.

Mais importante ainda, this girl won’t waste any more of her time and energy on you because that is the last thing you deserve from her.

She realized what a jerk you are and she doesn’t plan on giving you any more space in her life.

She doesn’t want to put any more effort into you, even if that effort is aimed toward your destruction.

Por isso, em vez de planear a vingança contra si, uma mulher forte segue em frente com a sua vida e deixa o karma fazer a sua magia.

She will cut you off for good and she’ll start living her life as if you were never a part of it.

This girl knows that things always find a way of sorting themselves out and she firmly believes that one of these days, life will pay you back for everything you’ve done to her.

She doesn’t want to get dirt on her hands and that is exactly what she would have to do if she continued to deal with you.

Para além disso, ela sabe que, com o tempo, só se tornaria prisioneira do seu desejo de vingança.

Ela sabe que isso a iria consumir e dominar completamente e que a impediria de o deixar no passado, onde é o seu lugar.

Então, em vez de deixar que tudo o que lhe fez a sobrecarregue e se torne a sua bagagem emocional, ela libertar-se-á de todos os ressentimentos e rancores da mesma forma que o deixou ir.

Em vez de procurar vingança, ela será a pessoa mais importante e desejar-lhe-á tudo de bom.

Em vez de permitir que o desejo de vingança to weigh her down, she will find the strength to forgive you for all of your misdeeds, even if it’s the last thing she wants to do.

No, she won’t take you back, she won’t listen to your reasoning, and she definitely won’t forget what you did, but she’ll forgive you because it is the first step in her journey toward healing and moving on.