És demasiado bom para alguém que não tem a certeza sobre ti

When you’re looking at the ceiling now, you can see him in every crack.

You see all the effort you’ve made, you see all the rules you’ve broken to be with him. And still, he isn’t really sure if he wants to be with you.

Querida, alguma vez dependeu de ti?

You can’t make him be with you if everything he wants is fun and everything he’s interested in is keeping you as an option besides all those other women who are standing in line, just like you are, to see which one he’s going to pick.

Será justo?

Is it fair to make him your priority, when he’s just keeping you as an option? É isso que queres de um homem que significa tanto para ti?

Este é o mesmo homem que pensaste ser a tua alma gémea, desde o momento em que ele entrou na tua vida.

Manteve-te na vida dele todo este tempo só para te fazer acreditar que eras a única, quando eras uma de muitas. Tiveste de lutar para chegar ao coração dele, quando ele tomou o teu de assalto.

You didn’t even think twice about making him happy, showing your affection and giving him all of your attention.

Lembras-te de quando te esforçavas por estar lá para ele, sempre que ele precisava de ti, apesar de ele nunca querer estar lá para ti?

Tal como tu queres ser amada, pensavas que era o mesmo que ele queria. Nada te poderia fazer crer o contrário.

But look around yourself, realize that it’s not like that. He made you put so much effort in without giving you anything in return.

He didn’t try to make you feel loved, he made you feel needed. Fazia-nos sentir necessários todos os dias quando nos pedia alguma coisa, quando nos obrigava a fazer o trabalho sujo.

He didn’t ask you to kiss him, he didn’t ask you to love him. He asked you to stand around waiting.

It’s always like this with these homens inseguros.

They want to see women fighting for them, they want to see them suffer in his name. Don’t give him the pleasure of doing so.

Dói, eu sei, acredita que sim.

But when it comes to him, the man who can’t see what you’re doing for him, the man who isn’t able to make you feel loved, the man who can’t keep it in his pants, porque é que estás a chorar?

You are beautiful, and there is nothing you can’t do in this world. You don’t need him to accomplish your dreams and reach your goals. You don’t need him to be happy.

Se ele lhe pedir para voltar, a melhor maneira de lhe resistir é ver a felicidade de estar sozinha.

A vida sem ele é clara e cheia de sol. Então, queres mesmo que ele faça com que os teus dias fiquem nublados como antes?

Vá-se embora! Mereces muito melhor na tua vida, mereces a perfeição.

You deserve love and appreciation and if, for the time being, you’re the only person who can give yourself that, then you don’t need anyone else.

People are selfish and they can’t comprehend if someone is as pure as you are. You don’t deserve to stand in a row of women waiting for your turn.

Don’t bother with these people. Don’t bother with him. You’re too good for someone who isn’t sure about you.