Até provares que és digno, não dormirei contigo
I am sick of this hookup culture; whatever happened to good old dating? I don’t want my relationship finishing before it even had a chance to start. I don’t want to feel broken after someone who just started warming to me disappears.
Enough is enough. I am setting some new rules. Until you prove you are worthy, I won’t sleep with you.
If you are not a player, you will stay by my side even without boyfriend benefits. I don’t want to waste my time on someone who is solely interested in getting to know my body, not my soul.
If you are like that, I will let you leave and I won’t shed a tear. I value myself too much to sell myself short.
Claro que quero dormir contigo, mas não imediatamente.
Há um prazer oculto na espera, no anseio por outra pessoa, em saber que alguém gosta de nós em mais do que um sentido.
Quero saber que és diferente dos outros.
Que está interessado em conhecer-me e em tudo o que isso implica. Quero sentir-me valorizada e respeitada.
I am not a saint and I don’t wear a chastity belt but I need to feel all the right feelings before jumping into bed with someone.
Preciso de intimidade emocional em vez de sexual. Sinto-me tão atraída por ti como tu por mim, se não mais, mas estou disposta a esperar.
I don’t want to be just a checkmark on the list of women you slept with. I want to know that I matter.
I felt like that a few times in the past and I don’t want to feel like that ever again. I don’t want to confuse sexual desire with a genuine emotional connection.
That’s why I need time. Time to get to know you. Time for you to get to know me. And with that time, the tensão sexual between us won’t disappear. The chemistry will turn into an emotional bond if we are the real deal.
If we are not… if we are fleeting… then it’s better we don’t get into bed together.
Só pagarei esses momentos de prazer com lágrimas e desilusão. Terei alegria instantânea e longas noites de solidão depois, sentindo falta dos teus beijos e do teu toque.
Se me queres mesmo, ganha um lugar na minha vida.
I need reciprocity. I need to know that investments go both ways. I need to see efforts, that’s what sexy is all about.
Quero ver nas tuas acções que te preocupas. Eu deixo-te entrar se me mostrares que és de confiança. Quero sentir-me segura e amada, nada mais e nada menos.
I know that you won’t mind the wait if you are the right man for me.
It won’t be easy on either of us but we can hold on until the timing is right. Until we know the sounds of each other’s laughter and what keeps us up at night.
Até sabermos que esta ligação que sentimos é mais do que apenas atração física.
Mais uma boa razão para esperar é o facto de fazer amor é muito melhor do que fazer sexo.
It’s more intense. It’s intimacy at its highest. It’s sharing your body, mind and soul with one person. It’s the closeness you feel after the act.
It’s everything you can’t have when it’s just sex without emotions.
I hope you get where I’m coming from after reading this. I know it might all sound complicated to you but I know I am worth the wait.
