Faça-o perseguir-te com estes 10 truques eficazes

Hey there! If you’re reading this you probably reached a stage where you have no idea what to do anymore to gain his attention. No judgment, I can relate!

Let’s just say I’ve been through thick and thin on the dating scene and tried all the tricks out there. It’s been rough sometimes, not gonna lie, but hey, at least I learned a thing or two!

I mean I managed to get a guy who’s a 10 in every aspect possible and he wasn’t even that interested at the beginning. But if you could only see him right now around me, you’d realize I know what I’m talking about. 

So no worries girl, you’re in the right hands! Let me tell you all about the 12 magical tricks I’ve learned. 

1. Deixa que ele te persiga e não o contrário

I was one of those girls who thought we were supposed to chase them. Yeah, I know, I was silly! It’s not only more enjoyable to let him chase you, but it’s also more effective!

Let this also be a little test you can use to see if he’s interested. So, just chill out. When you see him don’t show immediate excitement. Step by step and you’ll see que o fará ficar louco por ti. Especialmente se sempre mostraste mais interesse.

2. Mantê-lo a querer mais

If you reveal everything about yourself at the beginning, he’ll lose interest quickly. Leave something for later! This might not always be easy if you want him badly, but é preciso deixá-lo um pouco pendurado.

Trust me, girl! Not too much, of course, just a tiny bit to keep him on his toes. Let him know what he’ll have if he puts in a little effort. Be easygoing and have fun with it!

3. Don’t sleep with him right away

Let this be your golden rule, for real! Jumping into his bed right away is a recipe for catastrophe in many different ways! It’s much easier for us women to get attached so be careful. 

Há muito mais do que o aspeto físico da relação. Conheçam-se a diferentes níveis! Eu garanto isto também aumentará o suspense e tornar tudo mais interessante mais tarde, quando decidir apimentar as coisas.

4. Seja brincalhão e provoque-o

Esta é a parte divertida, está bem? Por isso, certifica-te de que a aproveitas ao máximo! Men love women who are playful and don’t take things too seriously. 

Por isso, mostre-lhe o seu lado divertido e torne todas as vossas interacções mais interessantes. Brincar, rir e agir de forma pouco séria vai sempre tornar o ambiente mais leve. Esta é uma forma simples e perfeita de manter a chama viva!

5. Ter paciência e desfrutar da viagem

Esta pode ser a parte mais importante do vosso pequeno plano secreto. Demorem todo o tempo que precisarem e dêem espaço suficiente aos dois. 

There’s no need to rush anything, he won’t run away! Try to enjoy every moment spent together and don’t overthink much about what will happen. If it’s meant to be, things will kinda happen on their own without the need to push for anything.

6. Don’t be all over him

Like I said, you gotta give him space. It will allow both of you to breathe and he’ll not feel suffocated. 

Se já saíste, relaxa nos próximos dias e faz o que quiseres. Let him see you’re not obsessed and have your own life even without him. He won’t be able to miss you if you constantly text him and want to be with him. 

7. Concentre-se na sua vida e na sua felicidade

Apercebi-me de que, no momento em que deixei de o perseguir e me concentrei na minha vida, ele veio diretamente para mim. Em parte, isso deveu-se ao facto de no one is really interested in the one who’s breathing down their neck all the time.

I’m convinced people are programmed in a way to always want the things they can’t have. Another thing is, when you’re happy in your own skin and going after your goals, you’ll radiate a special energy that’ll naturally attract people, not only him!

8. Show him you’re confident

There’s something about confidence that can make everyone go a few levels up on the attractiveness scale! People look so much different when they’re confident versus insecure. 

It’s not about your clothes, makeup, or hair; when you’re walking upright and carrying yourself with grace, that’s when you look the most attractive. It’s all about the energy you have within yourself. 

9. Fazê-lo sentir-se como um milhão de dólares

Okay, now that we went over how you should feel, it’s time to make him feel good about himself as well. Os homens gostam mais de ver o seu ego reforçado do que qualquer outra coisa. They won’t admit it though, but it’s so obvious!

A compliment here and there, saying he looks like he’s been working out can get you far away! He wants to feel special in your eyes so let him know he is but don’t go overboard and make him think he’s irreplaceable. 

10. Don’t be impressed easily

Women sometimes fall for the bare minimum especially if he’s the first guy to give them a bit more attention. Don’t be a victim of that!

Tens de fazer com que ele mereça a tua atenção. You’re not just any girl, you’re special and deserve someone who’ll fight for you. Every man loves a good challenge, it’s what allows them to prove themselves and boost their confidence. 

It’s all about keeping it fun and lighthearted and letting things unfold naturally. Once you implement these tricks, you’ll see a huge difference! Remember, faz com que ele te persiga, e não o contrário. You’ve got this!