Fatevi inseguire da lui con questi 10 trucchi efficaci

Hey there! If you’re reading this you probably reached a stage where you have no idea what to do anymore to gain his attention. No judgment, I can relate!

Let’s just say I’ve been through thick and thin on the dating scene and tried all the tricks out there. It’s been rough sometimes, not gonna lie, but hey, at least I learned a thing or two!

I mean I managed to get a guy who’s a 10 in every aspect possible and he wasn’t even that interested at the beginning. But if you could only see him right now around me, you’d realize I know what I’m talking about. 

So no worries girl, you’re in the right hands! Let me tell you all about the 12 magical tricks I’ve learned. 

1. Lasciate che sia lui a inseguirvi, non il contrario.

I was one of those girls who thought we were supposed to chase them. Yeah, I know, I was silly! It’s not only more enjoyable to let him chase you, but it’s also more effective!

Let this also be a little test you can use to see if he’s interested. So, just chill out. When you see him don’t show immediate excitement. Step by step and you’ll see che lo faranno impazzire per te. Soprattutto se hai sempre mostrato maggiore interesse.

2. Mantenere la voglia di saperne di più

If you reveal everything about yourself at the beginning, he’ll lose interest quickly. Leave something for later! This might not always be easy if you want him badly, but bisogna lasciarlo un po' in sospeso.

Trust me, girl! Not too much, of course, just a tiny bit to keep him on his toes. Let him know what he’ll have if he puts in a little effort. Be easygoing and have fun with it!

3. Don’t sleep with him right away

Let this be your golden rule, for real! Jumping into his bed right away is a recipe for catastrophe in many different ways! It’s much easier for us women to get attached so be careful. 

C'è molto di più dell'aspetto fisico della relazione. Imparate a conoscervi a diversi livelli! Garantisco questo farà crescere anche la suspense e rendere tutto più interessante in seguito, quando si deciderà di dare un po' di pepe alle cose.

4. Siate giocosi e stuzzicatelo

Questa è la parte più divertente, ok? Quindi assicuratevi di godervela al massimo! Men love women who are playful and don’t take things too seriously. 

Pertanto, mostrategli il vostro lato divertente e rendete più interessante ogni vostra interazione. Scherzare, ridere e comportarsi in modo poco serio renderà sempre l'atmosfera più leggera. Questo è un modo semplice e perfetto per mantenere viva la scintilla!

5. Abbracciare la pazienza e godersi il viaggio

Questa potrebbe essere la parte più importante del vostro piccolo piano segreto. Prendetevi tutto il tempo che vi serve e lasciate a entrambi lo spazio necessario. 

There’s no need to rush anything, he won’t run away! Try to enjoy every moment spent together and don’t overthink much about what will happen. If it’s meant to be, things will kinda happen on their own without the need to push for anything.

6. Don’t be all over him

Like I said, you gotta give him space. It will allow both of you to breathe and he’ll not feel suffocated. 

Se siete già usciti, rilassatevi per i prossimi giorni e fate le vostre cose. Let him see you’re not obsessed and have your own life even without him. He won’t be able to miss you if you constantly text him and want to be with him. 

7. Concentrarsi sulla propria vita e sulla propria felicità

Mi sono resa conto che nel momento in cui ho smesso di inseguirlo e mi sono concentrata sulla mia vita, lui è venuto subito da me. In parte è stato perché no one is really interested in the one who’s breathing down their neck all the time.

I’m convinced people are programmed in a way to always want the things they can’t have. Another thing is, when you’re happy in your own skin and going after your goals, you’ll radiate a special energy that’ll naturally attract people, not only him!

8. Show him you’re confident

There’s something about confidence that can make everyone go a few levels up on the attractiveness scale! People look so much different when they’re confident versus insecure. 

It’s not about your clothes, makeup, or hair; when you’re walking upright and carrying yourself with grace, that’s when you look the most attractive. It’s all about the energy you have within yourself. 

9. Farlo sentire un milione di dollari

Okay, now that we went over how you should feel, it’s time to make him feel good about himself as well. Gli uomini amano più di ogni altra cosa veder accresciuto il proprio ego. They won’t admit it though, but it’s so obvious!

A compliment here and there, saying he looks like he’s been working out can get you far away! He wants to feel special in your eyes so let him know he is but don’t go overboard and make him think he’s irreplaceable. 

10. Don’t be impressed easily

Women sometimes fall for the bare minimum especially if he’s the first guy to give them a bit more attention. Don’t be a victim of that!

Dovete fargli guadagnare la vostra attenzione. You’re not just any girl, you’re special and deserve someone who’ll fight for you. Every man loves a good challenge, it’s what allows them to prove themselves and boost their confidence. 

It’s all about keeping it fun and lighthearted and letting things unfold naturally. Once you implement these tricks, you’ll see a huge difference! Remember, Fate in modo che sia lui a inseguirvi, non il contrario. You’ve got this!