Haz que te persiga con estos 10 trucos eficaces

Hey there! If you’re reading this you probably reached a stage where you have no idea what to do anymore to gain his attention. No judgment, I can relate!

Let’s just say I’ve been through thick and thin on the dating scene and tried all the tricks out there. It’s been rough sometimes, not gonna lie, but hey, at least I learned a thing or two!

I mean I managed to get a guy who’s a 10 in every aspect possible and he wasn’t even that interested at the beginning. But if you could only see him right now around me, you’d realize I know what I’m talking about. 

So no worries girl, you’re in the right hands! Let me tell you all about the 12 magical tricks I’ve learned. 

1. Deja que te persiga, no al revés

I was one of those girls who thought we were supposed to chase them. Yeah, I know, I was silly! It’s not only more enjoyable to let him chase you, but it’s also more effective!

Let this also be a little test you can use to see if he’s interested. So, just chill out. When you see him don’t show immediate excitement. Step by step and you’ll see que le volverá loco por ti. Sobre todo si siempre mostrabas más interés.

2. Mantenerle con ganas de más

If you reveal everything about yourself at the beginning, he’ll lose interest quickly. Leave something for later! This might not always be easy if you want him badly, but hay que dejarlo un poco colgado.

Trust me, girl! Not too much, of course, just a tiny bit to keep him on his toes. Let him know what he’ll have if he puts in a little effort. Be easygoing and have fun with it!

3. Don’t sleep with him right away

Let this be your golden rule, for real! Jumping into his bed right away is a recipe for catastrophe in many different ways! It’s much easier for us women to get attached so be careful. 

Hay mucho más que el aspecto físico de la relación. Conózcanse a distintos niveles. Te garantizo esto también aumentará el suspense y hará que todo sea más interesante más adelante, cuando decidas darle un toque picante a las cosas.

4. Sé juguetón y búrlate de él

Esta es la parte divertida, ¿vale? ¡Así que asegúrate de disfrutarla al máximo! Men love women who are playful and don’t take things too seriously. 

Por eso, muéstrale tu lado divertido y haz que cada interacción sea más interesante. Bromear, reír y actuar de forma poco seria siempre animará el ambiente. Es una forma sencilla y perfecta de mantener viva la chispa.

5. Abraza la paciencia y disfruta del camino

Esta puede ser la parte más importante de tu pequeño plan secreto. Tómate todo el tiempo que necesites y deja espacio suficiente para los dos. 

There’s no need to rush anything, he won’t run away! Try to enjoy every moment spent together and don’t overthink much about what will happen. If it’s meant to be, things will kinda happen on their own without the need to push for anything.

6. Don’t be all over him

Like I said, you gotta give him space. It will allow both of you to breathe and he’ll not feel suffocated. 

Si ya has salido, relájate durante los próximos días y dedícate a lo tuyo. Let him see you’re not obsessed and have your own life even without him. He won’t be able to miss you if you constantly text him and want to be with him. 

7. Céntrate en tu vida y en tu felicidad

Me di cuenta de que en el momento en que dejé de perseguirle y me centré en mi vida, él vino directamente a mí. En parte fue porque no one is really interested in the one who’s breathing down their neck all the time.

I’m convinced people are programmed in a way to always want the things they can’t have. Another thing is, when you’re happy in your own skin and going after your goals, you’ll radiate a special energy that’ll naturally attract people, not only him!

8. Show him you’re confident

There’s something about confidence that can make everyone go a few levels up on the attractiveness scale! People look so much different when they’re confident versus insecure. 

It’s not about your clothes, makeup, or hair; when you’re walking upright and carrying yourself with grace, that’s when you look the most attractive. It’s all about the energy you have within yourself. 

9. Haz que se sienta como un millón de dólares

Okay, now that we went over how you should feel, it’s time to make him feel good about himself as well. A los hombres les encanta que les suban el ego más que cualquier otra cosa. They won’t admit it though, but it’s so obvious!

A compliment here and there, saying he looks like he’s been working out can get you far away! He wants to feel special in your eyes so let him know he is but don’t go overboard and make him think he’s irreplaceable. 

10. Don’t be impressed easily

Women sometimes fall for the bare minimum especially if he’s the first guy to give them a bit more attention. Don’t be a victim of that!

Tienes que hacer que se gane tu atención. You’re not just any girl, you’re special and deserve someone who’ll fight for you. Every man loves a good challenge, it’s what allows them to prove themselves and boost their confidence. 

It’s all about keeping it fun and lighthearted and letting things unfold naturally. Once you implement these tricks, you’ll see a huge difference! Remember, haz que te persiga, no al revés. You’ve got this!