É assim que os cavalheiros modernos e vintage conquistam os corações das suas mulheres
As mulheres são soldados corajosos 365 dias por ano. As mulheres são simultaneamente sensíveis e fortes. As mulheres são poderosas.
Então, como é que se conquista o coração de uma mulher? Diz-lhe essas três palavras e repete-as para o resto da sua vida? Continua a usar frases de engate pirosas na esperança de que a façam rir?
Talvez sim, talvez não. Winning a woman’s heart is a complex thing. So many artists, writers, and other creative brains have struggled to describe the essence of a woman and the beauty of her love.
If you’re a man reading this, winning the heart of a woman shouldn’t happen only on special occasions. It should become your way of life because it is not something you achieve once and then stop doing.
Cada novo dia dá-lhe uma oportunidade de mostrar à sua cara-metade o quanto gosta dela. O tempo é a coisa mais valiosa. Então, como é que o vai usar?
It’s time to bring back that vintage kind of love!
I’m not sure if it’s just me or if some of you also get goosebumps when you think about a vintage kind of love. Writing letters, old-fashioned courting, serenades, red lipstick being an essential thing in a woman’s purse…
Todas estas coisas foram substituídas por mensagens instantâneas de um dia para o outro. Os tempos mudaram drasticamente.
I have a feeling that the only time a man is interested in courting a woman is if she plays hard to get. It’s like his brain is telling him: Ei, devias melhorar o teu jogo porque este namoro moderno obviamente não está a funcionar!
And then a man decides that it’s time to be more romantic, more thoughtful, and more gentlemanly. His main goal becomes to catch that woman’s attention and win her heart.
Agora, a questão é: Would you do the same thing if she didn’t play hard to get?
Talvez sim, talvez não. Todos os homens são diferentes, e alguns têm estes modos de cavalheiro inatos, enquanto outros são mais casuais.
But I’m sure every single one of you, fellow men, will agree with me that it’s high time we bring back that vintage kind of love (at least in some segments).
Unfortunately, we can’t ignore that we’re living in modern times where social media prevails and sets the pace for everything else, including romances.
We can’t just throw our smartphones away, start writing letters to each other and taking pictures with a Polaroid camera (even though that would be really awesome).
Also, I still have a Polaroid camera that serves as a reminder of good old times when romance had a completely different meaning and wasn’t measured by how many selfies you have together.
Mas o que podemos fazer é incorporar alguns elementos de romance vintage moderno e tornar estes tempos modernos um pouco mais quentes. Ainda podemos enviar-nos uns aos outros poemas de amor romântico, citações de amor, cartas de amor, etc.
It’s time to master the art of being a modern-vintage gentleman because there’s no shortcut to winning a woman’s heart!
Dear men, when you act like gentlemen, we find it irresistibly attractive. And no, being a gentleman doesn’t only mean being a nice guy because it’s so much more than that.
Significa ter confiança, mostrar respeito por todas as pessoas, independentemente do seu estatuto social, e tratar uma mulher da forma que ela merece ser tratada.
Eis algumas características de todos os cavalheiros modernos e vintage:
Ele lembra-se das pequenas coisas.
If I say to a man that I’m fond of certain things, I usually expect him to remember them. Lately, I have lowered my expectations because men seldom remember the little things.
Guess what? It’s time to change that.
Se ela tem uma maneira especial de fazer certas coisas, certifique-se de que as memoriza. Se ela lhe disser qual é o seu chocolate ou flor preferidos, lembre-se disso, porque os cavalheiros lembram-se das pequenas coisas.
They know how much these things mean to a woman, so they don’t choose a shortcut to winning a woman’s heart.
He doesn’t expect things to be done
Um verdadeiro cavalheiro nunca espera que uma mulher lhe faça o jantar, lave a sua roupa ou faça outras coisas que a sua mãe costumava fazer por ele. Um cavalheiro moderno não tem problemas em fazer estas coisas ele próprio de vez em quando.
Além disso, nunca se esquece de mostrar gratidão e apreço por tudo o que uma mulher faz por ele no dia a dia, desde as pequenas às grandes coisas.
Ele surpreende-a a toda a hora e não apenas em ocasiões especiais
A gentleman doesn’t send a bouquet of flowers once or twice a year and then make a check mark on his list of his romantic endeavors for the year. Instead, he makes sure to surprise his woman all the time.
He kisses a woman’s forehead, holds her hand, hugs her when she least expects it, makes her coffee, and does all the other little things that contribute to making her feel special.
He doesn’t wait for his woman to do everything or be the only one who initiates things. Instead, he rolls up his sleeves and makes sure to win the heart of that woman every single day.
Ele está constantemente a tentar encontrar novas formas de cortejar uma mulher
Some men think that they have become dating professionals after reading a few articles on how to win a woman’s heart. Being a gentleman is not something that you master once and never bother updating again.
A true gentleman is constantly pursuing new ways to make his woman feel appreciated, loved, and cared for. He’s open to improving his courting skills every single day.
Um cavalheiro moderno e vintage nunca subestima o poder dos poemas de amor
Gentlemen know that women are emotional and sensitive beings. They know that winning a woman’s heart is a process and combination of caring words and actions.
If you want to be one of the legit modern gentlemen, then stop doing what contemporary media suggests. If you’re married, don’t forget to surprise your significant other with some of the most poemas de amor românticos para a sua mulher.
You can also write her a love letter where you’ll explain how her love makes you feel and where you’ll let her know how grateful you are to have her in your life.
It’s true that words are sometimes not enough, but if you choose the right ones, you’ll be one step closer to winning her heart
Converting your feelings and thoughts into words is not an easy task. It takes time, devotion, and effort to say what’s on your mind and in your heart. Fortunately, being a modern gentleman has its advantages.
All those inspiring love quotes and poems are only one click away. Once you dive into the sea of romantic love poems, you’ll realize how powerful words actually are.
Saying ‘I love you’ are only three words, but they have the power to make your loved one’s heart ten times warmer.
A love poem may consist of only a few verses, but it has the power to brighten your loved one’s day within seconds.
Nunca subestime o poder dos poemas de amor.
Nunca subestime o poder dos gestos românticos vintage.
As coisas mais valiosas da vida só podem ser sentidas com o coração. Uma das coisas mais poemas bonitos para ela de Luis Brillantes prova tudo isso:
Alguém dentro de mim
Há uma pessoa dentro de mim
who’s deeply in love with you
uma pessoa que navegaria em qualquer mar
tudo isso ele faria, só por ti
He’s not afraid of anything
completamente nada
porque por ti, ele vencerá todos os seus medos
para vos salvar de todas essas lágrimas
Essa pessoa que eu quero trazer à tona um dia
para que eu possa finalmente dizer
estas três palavras que guardo dentro de mim
que têm estado a tentar libertar-se
Sei que há-de chegar o momento
quando finalmente vos puder dizer
estas três palavras maravilhosas, que são
Eu amo-te.
