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This Is How Modern-Vintage Gentlemen Win Their Women’s Hearts

This Is How Modern-Vintage Gentlemen Win Their Women’s Hearts

Women are brave soldiers 365 days a year. Women are both sensitive and strong. Women are powerful.

So how do you win the heart of a woman? Do you tell her those three words and keep repeating them for the rest of your life? Do you keep using corny pickup lines in the hope that they will make her laugh?

Maybe, and maybe not. Winning a woman’s heart is a complex thing. So many artists, writers, and other creative brains have struggled to describe the essence of a woman and the beauty of her love.

If you’re a man reading this, winning the heart of a woman shouldn’t happen only on special occasions. It should become your way of life because it is not something you achieve once and then stop doing.

Every new day gives you an opportunity to show your loved one how much you care about her. Time is the most valuable thing. So, how are you going to use it?

It’s time to bring back that vintage kind of love!

man playing guitar to a smiling woman while sitting together on the couch

I’m not sure if it’s just me or if some of you also get goosebumps when you think about a vintage kind of love. Writing letters, old-fashioned courting, serenades, red lipstick being an essential thing in a woman’s purse…

All these things have been replaced with instant messaging overnight. Times have changed drastically.

I have a feeling that the only time a man is interested in courting a woman is if she plays hard to get. It’s like his brain is telling him: Hey, you should step up your game because this modern courting obviously is not working!

And then a man decides that it’s time to be more romantic, more thoughtful, and more gentlemanly. His main goal becomes to catch that woman’s attention and win her heart.

Now, the question is: Would you do the same thing if she didn’t play hard to get?

Maybe, and maybe not. Every man is different, and some have these inborn gentlemanlike manners while others are more casual.

But I’m sure every single one of you, fellow men, will agree with me that it’s high time we bring back that vintage kind of love (at least in some segments).

Unfortunately, we can’t ignore that we’re living in modern times where social media prevails and sets the pace for everything else, including romances.

We can’t just throw our smartphones away, start writing letters to each other and taking pictures with a Polaroid camera (even though that would be really awesome).

Also, I still have a Polaroid camera that serves as a reminder of good old times when romance had a completely different meaning and wasn’t measured by how many selfies you have together.

But what we can do is incorporate some modern-vintage romance elements and make these modern times a little bit warmer. We can still send each other romantic love poems, love quotes, love letters, etc.

It’s time to master the art of being a modern-vintage gentleman because there’s no shortcut to winning a woman’s heart!

man and woman hugging in the park while woman holding bouquet of white roses

Dear men, when you act like gentlemen, we find it irresistibly attractive. And no, being a gentleman doesn’t only mean being a nice guy because it’s so much more than that.

It means being confident, showing respect to all people regardless of their social status, and treating a woman in the way she deserves to be treated.

Here are some things that are characteristic of every modern-vintage gentleman:

He remembers the little things.

If I say to a man that I’m fond of certain things, I usually expect him to remember them. Lately, I have lowered my expectations because men seldom remember the little things.

Guess what? It’s time to change that.

If she has a special way of doing certain things, make sure to memorize them. If she told you what her favorite chocolate or flower is, remember that because gentlemen remember the little things.

They know how much these things mean to a woman, so they don’t choose a shortcut to winning a woman’s heart.

He doesn’t expect things to be done

A true gentleman never expects a woman to make him dinner, wash his clothes, or do other things that his mother used to do for him. A modern gentleman has no problems with doing these things himself now and then.

Also, he never forgets to show gratitude and appreciation for everything a woman does for him on a daily basis, from small to big things.

He surprises her all the time and not only on special occasions

A gentleman doesn’t send a bouquet of flowers once or twice a year and then make a check mark on his list of his romantic endeavors for the year. Instead, he makes sure to surprise his woman all the time.

He kisses a woman’s forehead, holds her hand, hugs her when she least expects it, makes her coffee, and does all the other little things that contribute to making her feel special.

He doesn’t wait for his woman to do everything or be the only one who initiates things. Instead, he rolls up his sleeves and makes sure to win the heart of that woman every single day.

He is in constant pursuit of finding new ways to court a woman

Some men think that they have become dating professionals after reading a few articles on how to win a woman’s heart. Being a gentleman is not something that you master once and never bother updating again.

A true gentleman is constantly pursuing new ways to make his woman feel appreciated, loved, and cared for. He’s open to improving his courting skills every single day.

A modern-vintage gentleman never underestimates the power of love poems

man reading poetry to his girlfriend on a picnic

Gentlemen know that women are emotional and sensitive beings. They know that winning a woman’s heart is a process and combination of caring words and actions.

If you want to be one of the legit modern gentlemen, then stop doing what contemporary media suggests. If you’re married, don’t forget to surprise your significant other with some of the most romantic love poems for your wife.

You can also write her a love letter where you’ll explain how her love makes you feel and where you’ll let her know how grateful you are to have her in your life.

It’s true that words are sometimes not enough, but if you choose the right ones, you’ll be one step closer to winning her heart

Converting your feelings and thoughts into words is not an easy task. It takes time, devotion, and effort to say what’s on your mind and in your heart. Fortunately, being a modern gentleman has its advantages.

All those inspiring love quotes and poems are only one click away. Once you dive into the sea of romantic love poems, you’ll realize how powerful words actually are.

Saying ‘I love you’ are only three words, but they have the power to make your loved one’s heart ten times warmer.

A love poem may consist of only a few verses, but it has the power to brighten your loved one’s day within seconds.

Never underestimate the power of love poems.

Never underestimate the power of vintage romantic gestures.

The most valuable things in life can only be felt with your heart. One of the most beautiful poems for her by Luis Brillantes proves all that:

Someone Inside Me

There is a person right inside of me
who’s deeply in love with you
a person who would sail any sea
all of that he would do, just for you

He’s not afraid of anything
completely nothing at all
because for you, he will conquer all his fears
to save you from all those tears

This person I wish to bring out someday
so I can finally say
these three words I keep deep inside me
which have been trying to break free

I know the time will come
when I can finally tell you
these three wonderful words, which are
I Love You.

 

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