Ela não está emocionalmente indisponível, está apenas a proteger o seu coração

Quer aproximar-se dela, mas ela rejeita-o. Queres mostrar-lhe afeto, mas ela assusta-se e foge.

And the first thing that comes to your mind is that she is emotionally unavailable. But I’m sorry to tell you that she’s anything but that!

É uma rapariga que já passou por muito e é por isso que tem dificuldade em confiar facilmente nas outras pessoas.

Ela provou o sabor amargo das suas lágrimas, provou o amor não correspondido e a sensação de estar desamparada.

And that is why she is no longer able to give all of herself to someone if she’s not ensured that she’s doing the right thing.

She’s not afraid of falling in love, she’s just cautious to whom she’s giving her heart.

She’s not afraid to fight with every atom of her being for the things she believes in. No, she is not afraid to fight for love.

As a matter of fact, she fought many battles before and now she’s just cautious about choosing them.

Ela não tem medo de se apaixonar por outro coração, apenas quer ter a certeza de que o seu amor será correspondido.

She has learned many lessons the hard way and that is why she’s eager to protect her heart above everything else.

She’s not emotionally unavailable, she’s just protecting her heart from potential narcissists and toxic manipulators, their selfishness and lies.

She’s protecting herself from always being the one who cares more.

When she loves, she loves with all of her body and heart or she doesn’t love at all and she has paid a high price for that.

She realized that she needs to protect herself from any potential harm because if she doesn’t do so, no one will do so for her.

Apercebeu-se de que, se quer ser verdadeiramente feliz, tem de começar a cuidar de si própria e não apenas dos outros.

So, don’t you dare call her emotionally unavailable or blame her for playing hard to get!

She’s not the same girl who used to wear her heart on her sleeve.

If you want to win her, you will have to fight hard to prove that you’re worthy of her.

Terá de lutar muito para fazer um esforço em vez de se limitar a arranjar desculpas.

If there’s one thing she got tired of, that is excuses. She can no longer afford to tolerate other people’s bullshit because she owes that much to her heart.

Ela já não se pode dar ao luxo de estar em dívida para consigo própria porque merece ser tratada com apreço e respeito.

And if you’re willing to be a part of her life, the only way to her heart is by fighting hard to prove to her that you’re not like the rest of them.

That you won’t make her sad, treat her for granted or make her feel less worthy.

Se se esforçar para a fazer sentir especial, ela vai reparar nisso.

If you make sure that you’ll always be there when she needs you, she will notice it.

Se tratar o seu coração com carinho, ela vai reparar nisso.

E só então ela acreditará que as suas intenções são puras.

Ela acreditará em si quando lhe mostrar amor com os seus actos e não apenas com palavras.

She will decide to be fully someone’s only when her heart tells her that it feels loved and safe in their arms.

E até isso acontecer, ela continuará a protegê-lo, porque o seu coração é a coisa mais valiosa que possui.

As lágrimas podem ser enxugadas, as noites agitadas podem ser substituídas por noites felizes, mas o seu coração nunca conseguirá recuperar totalmente de toda a dor do seu passado.

No, she’s not emocionalmente indisponível, she’s just protecting the last pieces of her broken heart so that she can be able to love again.

She’s just waiting for someone who will make her feel comfortable being vulnerable again.

Someone who will protect her heart the same way she’s protecting it now. Someone special.