Ele voltará quando o esqueceres

Havia um tipo que amava mais do que qualquer outra pessoa neste mundo. E não havia nada que não fizesses por ele.

You were not just his girlfriend—you also tried to be his best friend. You were someone who always pushed him forward, trying to make him a better man.

Conhecia todos os seus defeitos, mas aceitava-o, apesar deles.

Foste a única pessoa que este homem teve sempre ao seu lado, a única que nunca lhe virou as costas. E acima de tudo, amava-o como se ele fosse o único homem no mundo.

But obviously, even that wasn’t enough for him. Obviously, he didn’t know what he had.

He didn’t appreciate everything you had to offer so he walked away from you. He didn’t see the fact that you were one in a million and he thought he’d find someone better than you.

E isso arruinou-te. Partiu o teu coração e partiu-te em pedaços. Ele arruinou a tua autoestima e ele fez com que se culpasse por tudo o que estava mal na vossa relação.

You wondered why you weren’t enough for him and if there was something else you could have done to make him stay. You spent months crying and waiting for him to come back.

Although deep down you knew this guy didn’t deserve you, you were ready to forgive him for all the pain he put you through.

And although you don’t want to admit it to anyone, you still are ready to do so.

People think you’ve forgotten all about him but the harsh truth is completely different. You are still ready to take him back and to forget everything he did to you.

Porque esperas que desta vez seja diferente. E essa esperança é a única coisa que te faz continuar, a única coisa que te mantém vivo.

You hope that there will come a moment when he’ll realize that he loves you, when he’ll realize that he made a huge mistake by leaving you and when he’ll understand what he lost.

E esse momento há-de chegar. Mas quando chegar, será demasiado tarde.

This guy will come back to you and that is something you can be sure about. But it won’t happen now.

E quando isso finalmente acontecer, será demasiado tarde.

The same way he destroyed your confidence, you boosted his ego. You were the wind to his wings and after you, he thought there was nothing he couldn’t do.

Agora, ele tem a certeza de que todas as mulheres o vão amar como tu o amaste. Ele ainda não se apercebeu de todos os sacrifícios que fizeste por ele e de todo o amor que lhe deste.

And most of all, he is not aware that this love was one of a kind and that he won’t find anything similar with any other woman.

And for years, he’ll procuro-te em cada mulher he encounters. But he won’t find you anywhere.

In time, he’ll think he forgot about you. But he will always have this void, this huge o vazio dentro dele, recordando-lhe que perdeu a única pessoa valiosa da sua vida.

And that is when he’ll realize he wants you back. That is when he’ll try to come back to you.

Mas será demasiado tarde.

Because this is when you’ll be happier than you ever were. This is when you’ll finally have forgotten about this man and when you’ll think of him as a distant bad memory.

This is when you’ll finally have moved on with your life, as if he never existed. But be careful—this man will try even the impossible just to win you over.

Ele vai tentar convencer-te de que mudou e que se tornou tudo o que sempre quiseste que ele fosse.

Ele vai tentar dizer-lhe que desta vez vai ser diferente e que nunca mais fará nada para a magoar. Mas nunca deve acreditar nele. Porque ele só está a fazer isto para voltar a ficar na sua pele.

Yes, he is very well aware of what he lost but that doesn’t mean he’s changed. And even if he has, he doesn’t deserve a second chance de si.

O que mereces é uma segunda oportunidade na vida e isso é algo que nunca terás se o aceitares de volta.

Assim quando este homem voltar (and trust me, he will), just keep walking away from him and don’t even think of looking back.