Esqueça-o a menos que ele esteja disposto a fazer estas 7 coisas por si

1. Ele telefona e envia mensagens de texto primeiro sem fazer alarido

Se o seu homem não se dá ao trabalho de lhe enviar uma mensagem de texto de vez em quando ou de lhe telefonar para lhe perguntar como está, então o que é que está a fazer com ele?

Só se deve estar com o tipo de homem que é suficientemente homem para saber que o esforço é sexy!

If he calls you just to see how you are and texts you something sweet that reminded him of you, you’ve hit the jackpot!

Mas se ele não consegue iniciar uma conversa e fazer um esforço, esqueça-o!

Gaste o seu tempo com um homem que realmente se importae riscar todos os outros da sua lista.

2. Ele dedica tempo a planear uma noite de encontro surpreendente e romântica

He doesn’t have to come up with some bomb-ass idea every single day, but it is important that he cares enough to surprise you with a sweet date night and sweeps you off your feet every now and again!

If your man hasn’t done this once, and it doesn’t seem to be on his mind… perhaps it’s time to forget all about him and find somebody who’ll make you feel like the queen that you are!

A man who loves his woman wants to make her happy, it’s as simple as that!

Não são necessários grandes gestos, mas de vez em quando, ele deve fazer um pequeno esforço extra para a fazer sentir adorada.

3. Ele diz-te que sente a tua falta quando estão separados

He’ll send you the cutest text in the middle of the day to let you know you’re missed, or he’ll call you before you go to bed to talk all about your day.

When you’re apart, it’s crucial to keep in touch and make the effort to stay connected however you can.

It’s too easy letting the distance tear you apart, which is why you need to show each other love more than ever.

If you feel like your man thrives when he’s away and doesn’t seem to miss you at all, believe him!

Como és uma parte importante da vida dele, é natural que ele sinta a tua falta.

But if that doesn’t seem to be the case, you’re most definitely with o homem errado.

That’s okay, at least you know not to waste any more of your time.

Only a man who truly misses you when he doesn’t get to see you is a man worthy of your time and effort.

4. He doesn’t shy away from telling you how much he loves you

Um homem que está totalmente em contacto com as suas emoções e não tem medo de as expressar deve ser a coisa mais sexy de sempre.

Basicamente, um homem que usa o seu coração na manga é o tipo de homem que merece todo o amor que lhe possa oferecer.

It’s not often that you get to see a guy openly discuss and express his feelings, so if you’ve found him, keep him at all costs!

But if your guy tends to hide his feelings and you’ve barely ever heard him tell you “Eu amo-te,” that could be a sign of trouble.  

You shouldn’t have to force anyone to tell you those three words.

If he can’t say it, perhaps it’s because he doesn’t really feel that way. Never waste time on a guy who makes you feel unloved. Aim higher!

5. Tem sempre em consideração as suas opiniões e emoções

You don’t have to fight to have your voice heard. You don’t have to beg him to understand how you feel at any given moment. He just gets it and he lets you be who you are!

It’s the best thing ever quando um homem tem consideração pelos seus sentimentos and needs without you having to literally scream it at him, isn’t it?

If you don’t feel heard and you don’t feel your feelings and needs are validated, there’s really no point in staying with that kind of person. Anyone who loves you will make you both see and feel that love!

6. Ele está feliz e orgulhoso de ti e de todos os teus sucessos

This is really easy to spot. People can’t really hide their happiness and excitement.

Se ele pular de alegria quando você for promovida no trabalho ou se mostrar extremamente orgulhoso de um marco importante, isso significa que ele realmente se importa com você.

But if he appears indifferent even though he may say he’s happy for you, it’s easy to see that he’s really not that over the moon simply by observing his linguagem corporal.

Basically, he could care less if you’ve got a good thing going and it doesn’t bother him in the least that you’re happy. Forget about his pathetic ass and move forward without him.

7. Ele adora os teus defeitos e nunca te faz sentir mal por causa deles

Todos nós, enquanto seres humanos, temos defeitos de uma forma ou de outra. Mas encontrar alguém que nos ame apesar dos nossos defeitos é o objetivo final.

If your guy makes you feel loved even when you’re at your worst, he’s a keeper.

Se ele nunca a faz sentir-se mal por causa dos seus defeitos, mantenha-se fiel a ele.

When you can be a raw and vulnerable version of yourself around him and still feel beautiful, that’s all you need in a guy.

Anyone else is a serious waste of your time. You don’t need a guy to make you feel like shit simply for being human!

Forget about anyone who doesn’t let your flaws be a part of you.

Find a guy who lifts you up and doesn’t think less of you due to your imperfections. That is the only guy you will ever need.