Dimenticatevi di lui a meno che non sia disposto a fare queste 7 cose per voi

1. Chiama e manda sms per primo senza fare storie

Se il vostro uomo non si prende la briga di mandarvi un messaggio ogni tanto o di chiamarvi per chiedervi come state, allora cosa ci fate con lui?

State solo con il tipo di ragazzo che è abbastanza uomo da sapere che lo sforzo è sexy!

If he calls you just to see how you are and texts you something sweet that reminded him of you, you’ve hit the jackpot!

Ma se non è in grado di avviare una conversazione e di impegnarsi, lasciatelo perdere!

Dedica il tuo tempo a un uomo che se ne frega davveroe cancellate tutti gli altri dalla vostra lista.

2. Si prende il tempo per organizzare una serata sorprendente e romantica.

He doesn’t have to come up with some bomb-ass idea every single day, but it is important that he cares enough to surprise you with a sweet date night and sweeps you off your feet every now and again!

If your man hasn’t done this once, and it doesn’t seem to be on his mind… perhaps it’s time to forget all about him and find somebody who’ll make you feel like the queen that you are!

A man who loves his woman wants to make her happy, it’s as simple as that!

Non sono necessari gesti eclatanti, ma ogni tanto dovrebbe fare un piccolo sforzo in più per farvi sentire adorate.

3. Vi fa sapere quanto gli mancate quando siete lontani

He’ll send you the cutest text in the middle of the day to let you know you’re missed, or he’ll call you before you go to bed to talk all about your day.

When you’re apart, it’s crucial to keep in touch and make the effort to stay connected however you can.

It’s too easy letting the distance tear you apart, which is why you need to show each other love more than ever.

If you feel like your man thrives when he’s away and doesn’t seem to miss you at all, believe him!

Siete una parte importante della sua vita, quindi è naturale che gli manchiate.

But if that doesn’t seem to be the case, you’re most definitely with l'uomo sbagliato.

That’s okay, at least you know not to waste any more of your time.

Only a man who truly misses you when he doesn’t get to see you is a man worthy of your time and effort.

4. He doesn’t shy away from telling you how much he loves you

Un uomo che è pienamente in contatto con le proprie emozioni e non ha paura di esprimerle è la cosa più sexy in assoluto.

In sostanza, un uomo che porta il suo cuore sulla manica è il tipo di ragazzo che merita tutto l'amore che potete offrirgli.

It’s not often that you get to see a guy openly discuss and express his feelings, so if you’ve found him, keep him at all costs!

But if your guy tends to hide his feelings and you’ve barely ever heard him tell you “Ti amo,” that could be a sign of trouble.  

You shouldn’t have to force anyone to tell you those three words.

If he can’t say it, perhaps it’s because he doesn’t really feel that way. Never waste time on a guy who makes you feel unloved. Aim higher!

5. Prende sempre in considerazione le vostre opinioni ed emozioni

You don’t have to fight to have your voice heard. You don’t have to beg him to understand how you feel at any given moment. He just gets it and he lets you be who you are!

It’s the best thing ever quando un ragazzo è attento ai tuoi sentimenti and needs without you having to literally scream it at him, isn’t it?

If you don’t feel heard and you don’t feel your feelings and needs are validated, there’s really no point in staying with that kind of person. Anyone who loves you will make you both see and feel that love!

6. È felice e orgoglioso di voi e di ogni vostro successo.

This is really easy to spot. People can’t really hide their happiness and excitement.

Se salta di gioia quando ottenete una promozione al lavoro o si comporta in modo estremamente orgoglioso per un importante traguardo, significa che tiene davvero a voi.

But if he appears indifferent even though he may say he’s happy for you, it’s easy to see that he’s really not that over the moon simply by observing his linguaggio del corpo.

Basically, he could care less if you’ve got a good thing going and it doesn’t bother him in the least that you’re happy. Forget about his pathetic ass and move forward without him.

7. Ama i tuoi difetti e non ti fa mai sentire in colpa per essi.

Come esseri umani, tutti noi abbiamo dei difetti, in un modo o nell'altro. Ma trovare qualcuno che ci ami nonostante i nostri difetti è l'obiettivo finale.

If your guy makes you feel loved even when you’re at your worst, he’s a keeper.

Se non vi fa mai sentire una merda per qualche vostro difetto, tenetevelo stretto.

When you can be a raw and vulnerable version of yourself around him and still feel beautiful, that’s all you need in a guy.

Anyone else is a serious waste of your time. You don’t need a guy to make you feel like shit simply for being human!

Forget about anyone who doesn’t let your flaws be a part of you.

Find a guy who lifts you up and doesn’t think less of you due to your imperfections. That is the only guy you will ever need.