8 frases que as mulheres fortes e duronas nunca devem dizer

I’m sure we have all met at least one fearless, badass woman. Aquela que atrai a atenção de todos os homens e a admiração das outras mulheres. Também tenho a certeza de que todos nós gostaríamos de nos tornar um.

It’s not difficult. All you have to do is mudar a sua atitude e algumas pequenas coisas na sua vida. Encontre o seu objetivo de vida, determinar os seus sonhos e objectivos.

Find something you’re passionate about and fight for it until you reach your goal.

Comece por trabalhar em si própria. O amor-próprio e a auto-consciência são os primeiros passos para se tornar uma mulher independente, destemida e durona. Seja uma daquelas mulheres que toda a gente admira e de quem se fala.

I’m going to help you. Here are some sentences that badass alpha-woman should never say.

I’m not like most women

Uma mulher forte nunca gastaria o seu fôlego a explicar quem é, nem se compararia com outras mulheres.

She always lets other people get to know her and come to their own conclusions. She is who she is and she doesn’t see other women as a threat.

It’s what confidence is all about. This kind of attitude makes her mysterious and thus more interesting.

I can’t do it

Claro que podes. Podes fazer tudo aquilo em que te empenhares. Haverá alguns obstáculos no seu caminho, mas terá de encontrar uma forma de os ultrapassar e atingir o seu objetivo.

If you say that you can’t do something, it means that you’ve already given up. Always remember, Desistir e desistir não fazem parte do vocabulário de uma mulher destemida.

I’m done trying

Whenever you feel like you’re tired, that you should stop trying to achieve something, that’s when you have to try even harder.

It means that you’re close to your goal and if you give up then, you will regret it for the rest of your life for sure.

Odeio o meu corpo

É necessário criar um autoimagem positiva. Of course, you have some imperfections, we all do. But you shouldn’t be ashamed or try to hide them, you have to embrace them.

If you’re really not pleased with the way you look, there is always a way to change it. We should all work on ourselves and our physical appearance every day.

We aren’t aware of how much it affects our confidence.

I’m not good enough

Why not? Tell me one good reason you think you aren’t good enough? You aren’t pretty enough or intelligent enough, or what?

We all have our qualities and they make us good enough. There is never a good reason for someone to feel they aren’t good enough. That is our biggest delusion.

Actually, no, you aren’t good enough. You are even more than that. You are better than that.

Toda a gente merece perdão

Yes, everyone deserves a second chance. We all make mistakes and do some things we aren’t proud of and we all deserve to be forgiven.

No entanto, o utilizador shouldn’t forgive someone who isn’t sorry for what they’ve done. You shouldn’t give someone chances when it’s obvious that they don’t deserve them.

It would only mean that you don’t have any self-respect. Others will see how easy it is for you to forgive someone and they’ll use it.

It’s not fair

He swore he loved you, but he hurt you and then he moved on as if nothing happened? He found some new girl and she makes him happy, while you’re still struggling with the breakup?

Well, my dear, sometimes life isn’t fair e temos de lidar com isso. O facto é que algumas pessoas vão magoar-nos, outras vão trair-nos.

However, it’s your life and for your own sake, you have to get over it. Don’t be frustrated or hold grudges. It won’t do you any good.

Odeio a minha vida

You say that you hate your life and that you aren’t pleased with it? Well, wait a minute. Who is to blame for that?

You’re the only person who controls your life. You’re the only one responsible for it. If you aren’t pleased with it, only you can change it and make it better.