Como atrair miúdas bonitas e giras como um tipo de aspeto médio
If you’re an average looking guy desiring hot, beautiful women but at the same time thinking that they’re way out of your league and that you’ll never be able to attract one (even if you won the lottery), then it’s time to change that and convince you of the opposite!
Todos nós conhecemos o procedimento. Uma brasa, homem atraente aproxima-se de uma rapariga atraente num bar. Ele fá-la rir muito e ela dá-lhe o seu número de telefone num espaço de tempo de aproximadamente cinco minutos.
From the look on her face, it’s evident that she’s really enjoying this hot guy’s company and that he left a good impression.
Now, as you’re observing this scenery as an average looking guy from a corner, you get convinced that average men could never do the same thing and succeed as that good looking guy just did.
You get convinced that beautiful, attractive girls only fall for handsome men with trending haircuts, Brad Pitt’s facial features, and Ryan Gosling’s charisma.
(Bem, talvez nos filmes, mas isto é a vida real).
Summarized, you get convinced that average looking men’s attempts with hot women are doomed.
Bem, muitos homens como tu partilham a mesma opinião, e não fazes ideia de como estás errado!
It’s true that pessoas atractivas (neste caso, homens atraentes) sempre tiveram maiores probabilidades de se encontrarem com mulheres quentes, but this doesn’t mean that an homem comum like you doesn’t stand a chance.
E sabem porquê?
Because you’ve got it all wrong!
Attractive women don’t fall for handsome men just because of their looks. Of course, looks helps, but what really makes hot women fall for them is their AUTOCONFIANÇA.
Sim, coloquei-a em maiúsculas e a negrito só para ter a certeza de que todos vós a leram e reconheceram a importância desta palavra verdadeiramente poderosa.
É claro que há muitas outras coisas, como o sentido de humor, que também são importantes quando se trata de atrair mulheres bonitas, mas o mais importante é que tudo tem origem na sua auto-confiança!
É a base de todos os engates bem sucedidos a que tem assistido até agora em bares, discotecas, na rua, etc.
Women want to see that a man knows what he wants, that he’s confident in what he’s doing, that he’s passionate about something, that he has interesting things going on in his life, that he has manners and so on.
E, como já deve ter reparado, tudo isto não tem absolutamente nada a ver com a aparência de um homem.
It doesn’t matter if you’re an extrovert, introvertido, handsome guy, average looking guy or what’s considered a normal guy—when in a bar (or somewhere else), you all have an equal chance of winning that gorgeous woman and the only thing you need to do is ACREDITAR que assim seja!
Confident men believe it, and that’s why they always seem to be one step ahead of the game. And today is the day when you will learn the same!
You will learn how to accentuate both your internal and external qualities and present yourself as a guy who knows what he wants and what he’s doing.
Como um homem que está confiante no seu próprio corpo!
Being an average looking guy, you’ve probably been focusing too much on how you can change your appearance or your personality.
But, the trick is not in changing. You don’t need to look flawlessly perfect in order to attract a hot woman out there.
Tudo o que precisa de fazer é aumentar e acentuar as qualidades internas e externas que já possui e aprender a apresentar-se como um cavalheiro que demonstra confiança em cada palavra, ação, linguagem corporal e afins.
Remember that you already have all of this inside you. It’s just that you need to wake up that average looking guy, and tell him it’s time to step up his game!
And this is how you’ll do it!
QUALIDADES INTERNAS: CONSTRUIR O SEU PRÓPRIO CARÁCTER E ACENTUAR A SUA PERSONALIDADE
It’s important to mention that internal qualities are more important than external qualities because you atrair e manter uma mulher com a sua personalidade, sentido de humor e confiança.
Por isso, preste especial atenção a estes aspectos e, em breve, será um íman para todas as mulheres bonitas e atraentes que existem por aí!
1. Concentre-se na(s) sua(s) paixão(ões)
It’s universally acknowledged that women are crazy about guys who are driven by their passion (or passions), regardless of whether you belong to the category of beautiful people or average-looking people.
So, finding something you’re passionate about and devoting your time to it will make you ten times more attractive and appealing to every damn girl out there (trust me because I’m a girl, so I’m speaking on behalf of other girls).
Passion is the essence of human beings, and there’s something truly special about a guy who is artistically inclined or crazy about that one hobby he can’t imagine his life without.
Just think of Ed Sheeran and his famous, heart-melting song, “Perfect”. You have no idea how many women have imagined that he wrote it for them because they wanted to feel special.
E, acredita em mim, se fosses tu a escrever essa canção para uma gaja boa que curtes, ela apaixonar-se-ia muito por ti, tal como se fosses o próprio Sheeran.
Now, don’t get me wrong and think that you need to start guitar lessons ASAP if you want to improve your love life.
No, you just need to find something that you’re good at, something that you really enjoy doing, and present it to her in some way.
You need to let her know that you have something you’re passionate about and this could be gaming, programming, singing, playing an instrument—you name it.
You can post some “passionate pictures” on your social media. You can write her a song, or help her if she needs your assistance when it comes to fixing her laptop or similar.
She will be mesmerized with how thoughtful and inspiring you are, and this is exactly how you win any beautiful, hot girl out there, regardless of whether you’re a 20 or 40 year-old average looking guy or 20 or 40 year old attractive guy!
2. O humor é o teu melhor amigo
There’s a reason why so many men—and people in general—pay attention to a person’s sense of humor and accentuate the need to nourish this appealing quality of being amusing or comic.
E a razão são as vibrações positivas, não levar a vida demasiado a sério, ser descontraído, ser inteligente. Significa saber encontrar o lado positivo em tudo o que se faz.
Pensem nisto da seguinte forma: Imagine que alguém lhe está a dar uma palestra de uma forma aborrecida e desinteressante, deixando-o meio adormecido e aborrecido até à morte.
Agora, imagine alguém que é excessivamente otimista, que sabe contar algumas piadas aqui e ali e que sabe como chamar a sua atenção.
I don’t even have to ask whom would you choose between the two, right?
Bem, o mesmo se passa com as raparigas e com o resto da população. Todos nós queremos absorver a informação de uma forma divertida.
Todos nós queremos estar na companhia de pessoas positivas, bem-humoradas e que sabem tirar o melhor partido da situação. E as raparigas bonitas e giras também querem isso!
Now, I don’t mean that you need to learn thousands of jokes on the Internet by heart.
No, you don’t because this would only make you look like you have no idea what you’re doing or why you’re doing it.
Pode sempre brincar com a sua conta ou contar algo engraçado sobre a situação atual. Pode sempre contar os seus acontecimentos passados de uma forma engraçada que a fará chorar de tanto rir.
And while she’s laughing her ass off, her brain will subconsciously memorize that she enjoys your company A LOT, and she will want more of it.
And that’s why, my friend, humor is your best friend!
Ver também: 200 frases de engate engraçadas e pirosas que a vão fazer sorrir
3. Ser atencioso e prestar atenção aos pormenores
Por mais independentes e poderosas que pareçam, todas as mulheres gostam de ser cuidadas. Elas querem sentir-se especiais e querem um homem que seja atencioso e de confiança.
It’s in their nature, and they can’t fight it no matter how hard they try.
As mulheres querem um homem que seja capaz de reconhecer as suas necessidades e de agir em conformidade. Querem um homem que preste sempre atenção aos pormenores, porque os pormenores significam o mundo para elas.
All hot guys know that, and it’s time you learn that, too!
So, if you notice that she’s changed her hairstyle or her hair color, complement her and tell her how beautiful she looks and that this hair color accentuates her eyes perfectly.
If you notice that she’s feeling down, ask her what’s wrong, listen to her, and comfort her. And remember that you don’t need to solve her problems!
In 99% of cases, women just need someone to listen to them (speaking from experience), so there’s no need to go out of your way and instantly start organizing an attack on the root of her problem like her colega de trabalho ou outra pessoa.
Just listen to her, and you’ll be just fine!
Pay special attention to her body language as well. If her arms are crossed, it means she’s a little bit reserved because she doesn’t feel that comfortable.
In that case, try to relax her with a little bit of your unique humor. If she’s avoiding eye contact, it might mean that she’s bored, and you need to change the topic.
Details, details, details…
Just as humor, details are your best friends as well. You need to always be on track with her wishes, needs, desires, and you’ll know how to act accordingly.
That way you’ll always be one step ahead of the game.
Think of it like chess. In order to win, you need to know your opponent’s moves in advance, and you need to do everything in your power to fill the gaps and convince them that your moves are more confident, more powerful, and more dominant.
So, imagine that you’re playing chess, and she’s watching you. Imagine that you need to convince her that you’re exactly what she needs!
4. Believe that you’re special
You’re probably familiar with the fact that all the girls today want someone special.
Querem sentir-se especiais, querem alguém especial e querem tudo o que tenha algo a ver com especial. Porquê?
Porque ninguém gosta do normal. O vulgar é aborrecido. O vulgar não é interessante. E ponto final.
And that’s why, my friend, you need to believe that you’re special (even if you don’t feel that way).
Because if you believe that you’re one of a kind and that you’re unique, then you will truly become special in everyone’s eyes around you (and not just hers).
Agora, exibir o seu lado especial não tem nada a ver com jogar duro para conseguir, ostentação ou similar.
Tudo isto é um grande não-não. Em vez disso, tem de o fazer de uma forma subtil! Tem de ser suficientemente confiante para falar sobre os passatempos mais estranhos do planeta ou qualquer outra coisa que chame a atenção dela.
Tens de ser tu!
Tens de te orgulhar de todas as tuas conquistas e de todos os teus fracassos até agora. Tens de lhe mostrar o teu lado gentil.
You need to convince her that you’re a perfect combination of strong and sensitive. because macho bullshit is not special but being who you are is totally special!
You need to believe that you’re irreplaceable because you are. Lord knows that there’s not another person like you in the world.
You’re one of a kind, so make sure to exhibit all of your unique traits and make sure to show her how special you truly are!
E ela ficará mais do que feliz por fazer parte do seu mundo, porque o seu mundo não é monótono ou vulgar. O seu mundo é um lugar divertido para se estar!
Ver também: 30 maneiras de fazer uma rapariga sentir-se especial (e apaixonar-se por si)
QUALIDADES EXTERIORES: DESENVOLVER O SEU PRÓPRIO ESTILO E ACENTUAR A SUA APARÊNCIA
As qualidades externas são algo em que uma mulher repara primeiro em si, mas assim que abre a boca e se aproxima dela, todas elas passam para segundo plano e as suas qualidades internas começam a prevalecer.
But, when combined, external and internal qualities become a killer combination, and that’s why it’s important to pay attention to developing your own style and accentuating your appearance as well.
You want that woman to see how special you are inside out, and this is how you’ll do it!
1. Vestir-se de forma agradável à vista
O tipo de roupa, o facto de ser roupa limpa e até a escolha das cores são factores muito importantes para causar uma primeira impressão.
It’s true that you can’t judge a book by its color, but wanted or not, our clothes and hygiene indeed tell a lot about our character.
Isto é especialmente verdade quando se trata de mulheres, porque elas reparam em tudo.
Women pay more attention to details than men, and that’s why they’re literally able to tell everything about you by only observing you. And that’s where you come into the story!
Se quiser deixar um boa impressão sobre essa beleza, mulher quente, é preciso vestir-se para impressionar!
But, don’t worry, this doesn’t mean that you need to take out a loan in order to be able to buy the most expensive clothes.
All you need to do is make sure that what you’re wearing is clean, that the colors match (at least to a certain degree), and that there are no bad odors or any kind of weird smells (because women are allergic to that).
You want her to see that you know how to take care of yourself and that you’re paying attention to details every time you’re about to go to town or somewhere else.
You want her to see that you’re neatly dressed because that’s one of the number one signs of every true gentleman!
2. Criar a sua própria imagem
Remember that part about believing that you’re special? Well, you need to incorporate that idea into dressing as well.
One of the easiest ways to show her that you don’t care about following the crowd and you have your own beliefs and principles is by developing your own, unique style.
You can find ideas in the latest magazines, but don’t ever try to look exactly like a model on a runaway.
The easiest thing a man can do is to spend a large amount of money on something that’s considered popular or trending, but this doesn’t necessarily mean that it will fit him.
Every man needs to find his own niche, his own style that will tell the girl: “This is who I am! I am a gamer; I am a businessman; I am an artist; I love rock’n’roll; I love metal; I love pop…”
Basta pensar na personagem Elliot Alderson dessa popular série, Mr. Robot. Tudo o que ele usa é o mesmo capuz preto, as mesmas calças pretas e os mesmos ténis Converse pretos.
And still he manages to look mysteriously unique in the eyes of every girl out there. He still manages to gain respect from the masses of people because he’s built up his own style.
And you can do the same. You don’t need a lot of money to succeed in creating your own image. All you need is creativity and thinking about how you can match your personality with clothes.
Ver também: Como impressionar uma rapariga: as 15 melhores formas de a conquistar
3. Acentue as suas melhores características e esconda-as imperfeições
O maior erro de que muitos homens e mulheres são culpados é não saberem como acentuar as suas melhores características ou esconder as suas imperfeições.
Quando aprenderes a fazer isso, serás o mestre do guarda-roupa!
So, if you have at least one part of your body that is muscular (that’s usually arms and torso), you want that hot chick to notice it!
Queres dizer-lhe: Hey, I’m sweating my ass off at the gym lately! I’m determined, disciplined, and confident.
Well-fitting pants will help your legs seem longer which is good for those suffering from “short legs syndrome”, and darker shades of clothes will make you look more fit— aka less obese.
There are numerous pieces of advice on the Internet about this, so feel free to check them out if there’s something you’re interested in specifically.
4. Seja simples mas notável
E outro grande erro de que muitos homens e mulheres são culpados é tentar demasiado.
When we really like someone, I mean when we’re really crazy about that one person, it comes natural to us to spend a whole week or a month in front of a mirror trying to find the perfect combo that will impress them.
Esse desejo de ser notado e apreciado por aqueles que admiramos é tão forte que, por vezes, nos obriga a exagerar na parte do vestir.
So, always keep in mind that less is more! Don’t mix tons of different patterns, colors, or materials.
Choose two to three colors max per outfit. Subtle patterns are preferred, and don’t wear screaming or fluorescent colors EVER (no matter how much you were desperate for her to notice you).
Se o fizer, ela irá certamente reparar em si, mas não causará de certeza uma boa impressão.
Pretende manter-se simples mas notável. Quer dizer muito dizendo menos. Quer ser ousado mas casual.
Quer ser um cavalheiro atencioso e com carácter!
You want her to notice that you know how to take care of yourself, that you pay attention to details, that you have passions and hobbies, that you enjoy life, and that you’re feeling confident in your own skin!
Quer ser visto como um cavalheiro atencioso e com carácter e não apenas como um homem de aparência normal, porque é muito mais do que isso!
Tens um grande potencial, independentemente da tua aparência, e quanto mais cedo perceberes isso, melhor.
Pode ter qualquer rapariga bonita e boa que quiser. Tudo o que precisas de fazer é ACREDITAR.
Ver também: 15 coisas que um verdadeiro cavalheiro faz de forma diferente
