6 GRANDES diferenças entre luxúria e amor
Is it lust or love? How can you tell the difference when it’s so similar at the beginning of the relationship?
You feel loved and appreciated all the time with the amount of attention he’s giving you and you don’t question his intentions, even though you should.
Estes tipos de relações are very dangerous because you might be falling in love with him but you can’t figure out if he really loves you for whom you are or if he loves the way you two work together under the sheets.
Eis algumas diferenças entre amor e luxúria que podem ajudá-la a perceber o que ele realmente quer de si.
1. Ele elogia o teu corpo, não a tua mente
Ele está sempre a dizer como ficas sensual com esse vestido e ele olha constantemente para o seu corpo. This is a huge sign of lust, because he can’t keep his eyes off of your body and he’s just thinking about how you might look naked.
If he loves you, he will look you in the eyes while you tell him how your day was or when you’re telling him about something interesting you read the other day. If it’s love, he’ll want to get to know your mind rather than your body.
2. Sempre que tentas falar com ele, ele transforma a conversa numa conversa sobre sexo
Tenta falar com ele sobre a vossa relação e as vossas emoções, mas tudo o que ele faz é transformar a conversa numa oportunidade para lhe dizer como você é boa e o que lhe quer fazer esta noite (ou algo do género).
He can’t keep the conversation serious even though you would like to talk about your emotions with him. You know what happens when he’s in love?
He is very upfront about his emotions and he knows that you deserve to be treated with the utmost respect, so he doesn’t interrupt while you’re talking and he listens to what you’re saying.
3. Evita falar sobre o futuro
When it’s lust, your relationship is clearly just on a fantasy level for him; you both have fun and there are no serious situations involved.
But when you’re in love with each other, if he truly does love you, you will make planos para o futuro em conjunto.
Envolver-se-ão um ao outro em todos os vossos objectivos. Esta é a maior diferença entre o amor e a luxúria.
A luxúria é apenas por alguns dias e o amor é para sempre.
4. He doesn’t care about meeting your friends or family
Ele só te quer a ti. Nua. Porque é que ele quereria conhecer os teus amigos?
Eles não têm nada a ver com a vossa relação ou com qualquer coisa dentro do quarto. Por isso, ele não sente necessidade de conhecer os vossos amigos ou a vossa família. Isso seria demasiado estranho.
Mas se ele a ama, provavelmente esperará um pouco para os conhecer, só para ter a certeza de que você quer mesmo isso e irá de bom grado consigo para um jantar de família. Ele fará o melhor que puder para causar uma boa impressão.
5. Não são amigos um do outro
You don’t play around, laugh or have a fun time together. He doesn’t even know how to sit by your side without touching you and showing you that he wants you.
Friends don’t do these things because what they want are conversas de qualidade, a lot of laughter and so on. If he only sees you two as lovers, it’s very obvious that it’s only lust.
6. He doesn’t stay to cuddle
Isn’t it the purest feeling ever when you wake up in the morning by his side and you cuddle for hours on end? In a lustful relationship, he’ll be gone before you even wake up.
But a relationship filled with love shows that being together isn’t a burden, but an enjoyment. Even the morning silence feels beautiful, without a hint of awkwardness.
