Damn Girl - 7 sinais de que precisas de sair dessa relação
You meet a guy, you’re wary. He sem esforço tells you what you want to hear, you know, that he’s, “Never met anyone like you before”, “You’re amazing”, “You’re beautiful,”… Blah, blah, blah.
It just rolls off his tongue like it’s been rehearsed… You can bet your ass baby girl, that that shit has been replayed over and over again to each and every girl who sets her sights on him. Agora está a ver, mesmo a tempo.
Começa a baixar a guarda, you start to let him in and feel real emotions, emotions you haven’t felt for a long while—because you believe this man is perfect for you.
You think, ‘Wow, he’s too good to be true.’ Yep, you guessed what I am going to say next—that’s because they usually are. They are all very well-behaved in the beginning, they are trying to impress you, reel you in. Then BOOM… WTAF?!
Not all relationships start off like this and end in disaster but the ones not worth staying for are the ones that start off oh so magical but then turn out like a scene from Titanic… Tragic.
Corre enquanto podes.
The thing is, there are very few genuinely good eggs left out there. Not all of them are big, fat, phony fakers but you need to know when you are just ‘too good’ for that good for nothing guy.
É uma rapariga enérgica, cheia de vida e alegre.
You light up the room when you’re in it, people flock to you, you are positive and give off good energies. You live life to the full and have a wicked sense of humor.
He is the complete opposite of you—he’s quiet, never interested in anything other than himself, and overthinks to the point of creating an uneasy atmosphere. He makes you feel like you are attention-seeking, so you pull back to become the person you are not.
NUNCA mudar para estar com outra pessoa. They don’t like who you are? They can take a hike. Adios.
És muito atencioso.
Como és uma pessoa atenciosa, estás a fazer o teu dia normal, mas vês constantemente coisas de que ele pode gostar, por isso compras-lhe porque queres fazê-lo feliz.
When the tables are turned—you receive nothing but empty promises. You leave cute little notes for him to find when you’re not with him. He can barely text you back, let alone make such an effort to lift a pen. Are you mad?! Ha. It’s the little things in life that count, so if he isn’t thoughtful with doing the little things, imagine your wedding day…“Do you take…”, “Wait, where is he?!”—need I say more.
Tu és o único que mostra emoções de qualquer tipo.
So you’re missing your guy, you freaking love the man in your life, you tell him so but wait… What is this I hear? I thought so, the sound of tumbleweed drifting past. Is it even reciprocated?
Como é que sabes, ele mal te diz, a não ser que o chateies e, mesmo assim, acreditas nele? Acabamos por ficar com tantas perguntas sem resposta na cabeça que ficamos doidos.
If your guy won’t open up to you or won’t tell you how he really feels about you, do you really want to waste your time on a guy who may or may not like you as much as you like him?
There are plenty of awesome guys out there who won’t leave you guessing’ ELE VAI DAR A CONHECER!!
És tu que fazes a relação avançar.
Every day seems to be a struggle, too much like freakin’ hard work. You are having to repeat to him how to not treat you, how to treat you, remind him that you are his girlfriend and not one of his guy mates.
Existe SEM ESFORÇO de qualquer tipo de the guy who’s supposed to love you. You’re tired but will keep fighting for the both of you.
He thinks everything is fine, you know it’s not. You talk to him about it, he tells you he’s listening but his actions prove otherwise.
Quando somos nós que temos o rácio 80/20 na relação, sabemos que os dias dele estão contados, mas por quanto tempo mais podemos fazer isso antes de finalmente nos separarmos? Antes que ele a quebre, ele precisa de se equipar ou sair. Adeusinho!!!
Toda a gente vê o que ele tem para além dele.
He’s taking you for granted, he knows everyone thinks you’re beautiful, that you’re a catch, that you have this freakin’ personalidade fantástica e está com ele.
He thinks now that he has you, he doesn’t have to do anything to keep you. ERRADO. That dude couldn’t be further from the truth. He barely compliments you anymore, you try to get his attention and short of flashing him your boobs, you’re fighting a losing battle.
Girl, if he cannot see what he has and let’s face it, most guys are batting above their average, then his unnoticed becomes another man’s noticed and we all know who the real winner is here. YOU. Deixar o rabo dele if he doesn’t love and respect or even NOTICE what he has. Someone else will.
If he struggles to even text you once throughout the day now, when before he would hit you with those bad boys 24/7, there’s something wrong… Not with you. No, my love, there’s something wrong with him.
Never let a guy make you feel like you don’t deserve his time. You do deserve it, he’s just making excuses— “I am really busy”, “I forgot to reply.” Bullcrap.
He goes to take a leak right, a cigarette break maybe? He has time, he has just become lazy in the way he is treating you. If his communication starts seriously slacking, more so than his attempts to woo you, then I would drop him like a sack of shit because nobody got time for chasing. Let him do the chasing. If he doesn’t chase, you have your answer. You did the right thing.
Confie sempre no seu instinto.
Your gut is a lifesaver—if something isn’t feeling right, you start to feel overly anxious about the relationship and if he’s the right guy for you. O seu instinto está a dizer-lhe alguma coisa.
When something is right it should be easy, you should love freely, it should just feel right. If your gut is telling you to get out then you need to listen to that bitch because that could stop you from being in a world of pain in the future, more so than what you’re feeling now.
Alguns homens podem e vão mudar se realmente quiserem but if he continues to ignore it after you have told him once about how you’re feeling, then he isn’t good for you.
You never know, he may just pull the rabbit out of the hat and surprise you but if the above keeps happening, then you need to get out of that relationship— the one-sided relationship that’s only working for him.
