Para todas as mulheres que pensavam que já estariam casadas

Do you feel disappointed that your life isn’t going the way you planned? Did you always imagine that you’d be a happy wife at this point in your life?

Do you constantly feel like you’re missing something because you’re still single? You’re probably losing faith in true love, but at the same time, you’re afraid to grow old alone, right?

Believe me, I’m not trying to indulge you right now, but I feel obligated to point out how wrong you truly are.

You’re only wasting the precious time of being single. Because, trust me, one day, you’ll have regrets and long for these days of your single life.

I know that you’ve dreamed about your wedding ever since you were a little girl, just like we all did.

You dreamed about saying ‘yes’ to your alma gémea com um lindo vestido branco.

Don’t worry. You won’t disappoint that little girl because there’s still time to do that. One day, you’ll have the wedding of your dreams, and you’ll be the happiest bride alive. But, until then…

Desfruta da tua vida ao máximo

Este é um belo período da sua vida e deve aproveitar cada segundo. Desfrute ao máximo da sua solteirice.

Utilize este tempo para fazer a maior parte das coisas da sua lista de desejos. Trabalhe para atingir os seus objectivos e realizar os seus sonhos. Construa uma vida para si.

Visitar novos lugares, descobrir novas culturas e conhecer novas pessoas. Como a minha avó costumava dizer, “use this time of your life wisely because you’ll never be younger than you are now.”

Lembrem-se, as coisas boas vêm para aqueles que esperam

Don’t think that God has forgotten you. He’s with you always, and He has something planned for you that is far better than what you dreamed of.

You just need to be patient. Don’t lose faith in love, or even worse, don’t lose faith in Him. He knows all of your wishes and your soul’s desires, and He’ll make all of them come true.

Being single doesn’t mean you’re alone

You’re single, but you aren’t sozinho. Muitas pessoas amam-no e preocupam-se consigo. Essas pessoas são as que mais contam.

Sei que por vezes se sente só, mas o facto é que todos nós nos sentimos. Sim, até as pessoas que são casadas se sentem sozinhas às vezes.

But you still have people who truly care for you and who’ll never allow you to feel like you’re all alone in this not so perfect world.

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There is no such thing as a perfect man. He doesn’t exist. There is the right man for you, but the truth is, he won’t be perfect.

If you’re waiting for the perfect man, you’re only wasting your precious time. Even worse, you might be missing out on some great opportunities and some really good and valuable men.

Don’t compare yourself to others

There is no point in comparing yourself to other people. You’re a unique human being, and your life could never be the same as someone else’s.

Just because most of your friends are married now doesn’t mean you should be too. It was simply their destiny, and yours is different from theirs.

Don’t think that their life is somehow better than yours just because they aren’t único anymore. Trust me, just because they’re married, it doesn’t mean they’re happy.

Tenha sempre isto em mente: um bom casamento, em que duas pessoas namoraram durante algum tempo e tiveram tempo para se conhecerem e estabelecerem confiança entre si, é muito melhor do que um casamento apressado.

Don’t wallow in self-pity

Why should you have regrets for something that hasn’t happened YET? It doesn’t mean it won’t ever happen.

Don’t feel sorry for yourself because your life isn’t going the way you planned. It’s going in some other direction, a direction that God thought was better for you.

É preciso confiar em Deus, aceitar a sua situação, depositar as suas esperanças n'Ele e esperar que o destino final seja ainda melhor do que aquele que imaginou.

O amor está em todo o lado à tua volta

Just because you haven’t found love up to now doesn’t mean you should stop believing in true love. True, real love exists and it’s everywhere around you.

O amor está nas pessoas que gostam de nós, nas pessoas que querem fazer parte da nossa vida. O seu animal de estimação, que por vezes também é o seu melhor amigo, também é amor.

Love is in fulfilling our dreams and goals. The relationship you have with yourself is also love, and it’s probably the most important kind of love in your life.

O resultado final é que love is everywhere you look… True love is within you.

A tua alma gémea está algures por aí

The person who is meant for you is out there somewhere, and he is also waiting for you. One day, God will find a way for you to cross paths, and you’ll meet the one you’ll marry.

That day, you’ll feel sorry for ever doubting God’s timing and true love. All this waiting will pay off because that person will be everything you ever hoped and prayed for.

In the end, to all of you fabulous single girls out there… Be patient. Don’t lose hope.

Your soulmate is coming, and he’ll make you so happy that you’ll forget that you were ever even worried about this. Just wait and believe in the most powerful force called L O V E.