Não estás demasiado quebrado para uma relação feliz e é por isso

I know you sometimes feel like there’s no man that’s right for you. Especially not after everything you’ve been through. All the circumstances have made your love life complex, to say the least.

Sometimes you even ask yourself how you’ll explain everything that has happened to you to the next person that comes into your life and you feel hopeless.

Com toda a dor que quase o deixou entorpecido e todos os seus sonhos de viver uma vida feliz e realizada arruinados, uma relação feliz parece impossível.

There’s nothing left but disappointment. Disappointment in yourself, others, and love. It feels like everyone’s figured out their life but you.

Everyone seems to know what they’re doing and they look so happy and content. It’s almost like you’re not meant to have anything easy.

Every single thing you do in life becomes a struggle, one way or another. Sometimes you just want to give up under the pressure of all the things you ‘’should’’ and ‘’could’’ do.

I know how you feel and that’s why I need you to read this:

You’re NOT broken. You’re not beyond repair. You’re not behind everyone else and all the tough things that have happened to you are not your fault.

You’re simply a human being who has experienced more than others. There’s a reason all these things have happened to you and you can’t see it right now.

Think about your past and everything you thought was a disaster until it turned out to be a good thing. That’s what’s happening to you right now.

You have to regain your own power again. You have to break the chains of self-illusion that tell you you’re not enough and that you can’t change your life. You can!

Pode mudar a sua vida eliminando toda a pressão inútil sobre as suas costas.

A pressão do que os outros pensam de si, a pressão de ser a melhor em tudo o que faz, a pressão de ser a mulher perfeita e todas as outras pressões que a tornam tão insegura.

Permita-se ouvir as suas próprias necessidades. O que é que tu quer? O que é que tu necessidade?

Seja honesto consigo próprio, estabeleça um objetivo e trabalhe para o atingir.

O que é que o impede de ter a vida que deseja? Um emprego, a sua aparência, os seus defeitos de personalidade?

Everything is manageable if you want it to be. You have the power to change yourself, in fact, that’s the only real power you have.

Don’t let it go to waste. Use it for your own good.

Para atrair o homem dos seus sonhos, tem de ser a mulher dos seus sonhos. Deixe-se levar por tudo o que a torna bonita para tu.

Melhore-se tanto por dentro como por fora. Os dois estão ligados.

It’s not about being superficial, it’s about caring for what’s given to you. It’s about protecting the precious things about yourself.

Como é que se pode esperar que alguém veja a nossa verdadeira beleza se continuamos a escondê-la sob um véu de inseguranças?

As inseguranças são o que mata tudo o que é belo.

Trust me, life’s too short for that. At the end of the day, we’re not here for long. Embrace all the things life gives you and use them as lessons.

You can always choose to see good in other people and most importantly – good in yourself. That’s how you will learn to live authentically.

A coisa mais irresistível numa pessoa é a sua autenticidade.

Porquê? Porque significa que estão em plena sintonia consigo próprios, que se aceitam plenamente e que conseguem ver a beleza em tudo.

Nothing can move you once you’re at peace with yourself. The relationship you want is waiting for you to love yourself so you can truly experience it.

A happy relationship needs a happy woman. And that’s tu.