Uma carta para o homem que deixou a rapariga certa ir embora
Não está a perceber, pois não?
Ainda não se apercebeu do facto de que deixaste ir a rapariga que era a certa. Aquela que podias apresentar aos teus pais e aquela que não tinhas vergonha de mostrar em público. É que ela era uma mulher para amar.
Mas foste tão cego para ver o que tinhas mesmo ao teu lado. E agora, devias pagar pelos teus pecados. Devias pagar por toda a dor que causaste à pessoa certa.
You were selfish enough to forbid her to smile when you were sad, as you didn’t want to see that she was having a good time without you.
Só pensavas em ti e nas tuas necessidades.
And her? Like any woman in love, she blindly listened to all that you had to say. She respected all your decisions, even if she didn’t like them. She suffered to prove to you how big her love was.
But you didn’t even want to fight for her. Instead of that, you were fighting with her.
Every single day was a battle without an end. And every time it broke her heart to pieces. She couldn’t understand that a man who she loved so much could hurt her so tremendously. She couldn’t understand that you had the power to ruin her day by saying only a sentence.
As tuas palavras más partiram-lhe o coração, mas ela continuava de pé, fingindo que estava tudo bem, enquanto ela se estava a desmoronar por dentro.
When I stop and think now, I don’t get how a man can be so stupid and blind.
Doesn’t he see that the woman next to him accepted all his imperfections and that she is still there?
Why doesn’t he respect a woman like that? That is the least he can do. But no! His fucking ego doesn’t let him do it. That’s why he hurt her, pushed her to the boundary of losing her mind, just like you did to her. Did you think it would change something if you hurt her? Did you think she would finally be a puppet in your hands while you were the master puppet, making her do everything that you wanted?
I don’t have a clue what you were thinking but one thing is for sure – you shouldn’t have let the right one go.
Sei que te sentes mal com isso agora. Sei que há pensamentos que não param de surgir quando te deitas sozinho na tua cama. E perguntas a ti próprio se poderia ter havido outra forma de acabar tudo.
Poderia ter sido diferente?
You see, it could have been way different if you’d had the guts to love her sincerely. But since you are fucked up, you can’t love anyone without hurting them.
E tu devias ter-lhe dito isso. Devias ter dito que não estavas pronto para uma rapariga perfeita, como ela estava. E era muito claro que ela o amava com todo o seu coração.
She showed you that so many times while you just neglected her, because you took her for granted, thinking that she would stay no matter what you did. You see, you were wrong. A good woman is always aware of her worth and she won’t settle for less than she deserves.
Agora, depois de tantos anos sem ela, ainda está a sofrer, tentando encontrar o amor em lugares escuros.
Está à procura de mulheres para encontros de uma noite, mas deve saber que elas nunca o vão amar como ela o fez. Agora, há outro homem na vida dela, aquele que não a está a tomar por garantida. Aquele que é o homem certo para ela.
Aquele que é o seu amante, amigo e alma gémea ao mesmo tempo. And no, she doesn’t think about you anymore. She decided to leave the past where it belongs.YoPode ter saudades dela, mas ela nunca voltará para quem a abandonou.
You can call but she will never pick up. You can fall apart but she won’t see it, because she finally realized that you were never enough for her. She realized that you couldn’t give her all that love and affection that she desperately needed.
Agora, sê um homem a sério e lida com a dor. Só por um segundo, sente o mesmo que ela sentiu quando a deixaste sozinha e destroçada. E chora como ela chorou. Ninguém verá as tuas lágrimas, mas pelo menos aprenderás como não tratar uma mulher que te ama. E um dia, quando finalmente seguires em frente, espero que sejas capaz de te perdoar por toda a merda que lhe fizeste.
Because, darling, you can bet that she won’t!
