Pára de desperdiçar a tua vida com homens que só te querem fazer perder tempo

Olhando para as coisas deste ponto de vista, pensamos que temos todo o tempo do mundo.

You can fool around as much as you want because you’ll always have a chance to make things right in the future. No matter what happens, an opportunity for a fresh start will arise.

This is not something I’m trying to argue against. Despite all of your mistakes, tomorrow is always a new day and a chance to turn over a new page of your life.

After all, you’re young. You have your entire life ahead of yourself.

However, that doesn’t mean that you should spend it chasing the wrong people and especially the homens errados.

It doesn’t mean that you won’t regret all the years you wasted on the ones who didn’t deserve your attention or energy.

Nevertheless, once you realize this, it might be too late because you won’t be able to return to the past and correct your wrong choices.

Remember—the time you waste is the only thing you can’t get back, as much as you try and want to!

Before you know it, decades will have passed. You’ll turn around and you’ll see that you’ve spent most of your life focused on the ones who brought you nothing good.

Por teres perdido tanto tempo com homens que já te esqueceram há muito tempo. Que passaste a maior parte dos teus dias a dar voltas à cabeça e a chorar por alguém que nunca quis saber de ti.

Por isso, por favor, pára de fazer isto a ti próprio. Pára de deixar que os dias passem por ti, assume o controlo e faz a diferença.

Pára de desperdiçar a tua vida com os homens que só estão lá para perder o seu tempo.

Sobre aqueles com quem sabemos que não temos futuro, sobre aqueles que só nos estão a enganar e sobre aqueles que nos estão a roubar a juventude.

Stop giving attention to the guys who are putting you down and to the ones who don’t let you progress.

To the relationships which aren’t headed anywhere and which will only leave you with heartbreaks you’ll need years to recover from.

Don’t give any more of your mental energy to your ex. Ele faz parte da vossa história e devem deixá-lo no passado, onde ele pertence.

After all, you’ve given this man so much. Now that he’s gone, he really doesn’t deserve you giving him another thought, let alone anything else.

Accept that he isn’t coming back and finally, get the strength to move on. Living in the past won’t get you anywhere.

Don’t waste a precious minute of your time on that guy who can’t make up his mind about you.

Por um lado, quer que espere que ele a escolha e que lhe dê o lugar que merece na sua vida.

Deixar de se esforçar numa relação que é claramente  condenado ao fracasso. Stop trying so hard around a guy you’re not compatible with and who isn’t ready to move an inch for your sake.

Don’t waste any more energy trying to save others. It’s not your duty to fix broken men and you’ll never succeed in doing so.

Don’t give any more time to that immature boy who doesn’t know what he wants and who has no ambitions.

Ao gajo que vive a sua vida de dia para dia, sem se preocupar com o seu futuro.

Pára de desperdiçar anos da tua vida à espera que um tipo mude. That won’t happen and it’s better for you to accept the harsh truth in time.

Stop allowing them to drain you. You won’t get anything in return and you’ll just end up exhausted without any strength left for the only person who matters—you.

Mesmo que encontre um homem que mereça toda a sua atenção, nunca lhe dê tudo o que tem.

Em vez disso, dê sempre prioridade ao seu próprio bem-estar. Redirect all of this energy you’ve been giving away to the wrong men and invest it in yourself.

Concentre-se em tornar-se a melhor pessoa que pode ser. Concentre-se em melhorar a si próprio e em fazer algo da sua vida, sem permitir que a sua felicidade dependa da sua vida amorosa.

You see, you’re the only person who deserves your own full attention. The time you invest in yourself is never wasted.

The effort you put into building yourself will be rewarded. You’ll get the fruits of your labor sooner or later, which is not the case with all of these guys we’re talking about.