Quando perceberes o teu valor, estas 5 coisas vão deixar de te incomodar

We all long for the day when we can look in the mirror and like what we see. And I don’t mean the kind of love where we have to convince ourself that it’s there and that we are doing okay.

I’m talking about genuinely feeling happy and content when we look at ourself in the mirror.

A maioria de nós está tão habituada a ser dura connosco que sentirmo-nos bem na nossa própria pele parece um sonho distante. Mas tudo o que precisa para se sentir feliz é algo que já tem.

You don’t need material stuff, wealth or other people. You have to be happy with yourself in order to be happy with someone else.

Quando perceberes o teu valor, deixarás de te preocupar com estas coisas:

Ser perfeito

It sounds like a cliché but we are all perfect and unique in our own way! People who know their worth just don’t care about always being perfect.

They know it is important to have goals and dreams in life and to always work toward achieving them because that is precisely what gives our life meaning and fulfillment. It’s o que faz com que cada dia conte.

They know how to see things from a more positive and different perspective and are not bothered with every little thing being flawless. It’s the small things and moments that make life worth living.

Conseguir sempre o que se quer

If you want to be happy, first you have to be grateful for what you have. There are a lot of things in life that we think will make us happy and we want them desperately but when we finally do have them, we’re still not happy!

What’s the deal with that? It’s the fact that happiness is not in other things or people, it’s within us. And people who are aware of this lead a happier life and are more relaxed and unbothered in general.

These people are aware that we can’t always get what we want but it doesn’t even matter, because most of the time, we will realize that it’s not the key to happiness.

We need to be thankful for every day and every moment we have, because we never know when it’s going to be our last. Those who appreciate the little things in life will be happier and will not need other people to make them feel worthy.

Compararmo-nos com os outros

The grass is always greener on the other side. Or is it really? As perfect as someone’s life might seem on the outside, you can never know how somebody feels in their own skin.

E quem está em paz consigo próprio e conhece o seu valor sabe que não se deve comparar com ninguém. Cada um tem o seu próprio percurso na vida e é o único que sabe como as coisas são verdadeiramente para si.

So it’s important to worry about ourself and let others be. The sooner you realize this, the better your life will become.

Precisar de alguém que o faça feliz

It’s amazing to have someone by your side and when it’s real, love is a truly beautiful thing. Nevertheless, if you still haven’t found your soulmate, who’s to say you cannot be happy and content with yourself?

Don’t think that you need a man to feel fulfilled and satisfied with yourself. If you can’t love yourself, you won’t be able to love someone else.

Só quem sabe o seu valor se valoriza o suficiente para não se contentar com qualquer um e esperar que a pessoa certa apareça.

O que os outros pensam de si

It’s totally normal that you want to feel beautiful and attractive. But it’s also important to know that these are not the things that make us who we are.

Physical appearance doesn’t define you as a person and those who know that are much happier with themselves.

If there is someone in your life who can’t see past your appearance, that is their problem, and not something you should be concerned about, ever.

Desde que cuide de si e faça bem aos outros, não tem nada com que se preocupar. As pessoas vão sempre falar.

Isso diz mais sobre eles do que sobre si. Por isso, mantenha a cabeça erguida e faça o que tem a fazer.