Ela não quer nada a não ser que a faças sentir-se desejada

Are you afraid to start a relationship with the girl you like because you don’t know if you will be able to fulfill her expectations?

Do you sometimes feel like you just can’t understand what she wants from you or your relationship?

Most men say that it’s so difficult to understand what a woman really wants. They say women are indecisive, too complicated and way too mysterious.

To be honest, and I’m going to say this in a very simple way, all those theories are crap. All a woman really wants is to feel wanted… to feel loved and respected.

There is nothing complicated about a woman’s needs. You don’t need a manual to guide you through understanding what a woman needs and wants from a man.

You don’t have to search for a key to get to her heart. If you prove to her that your intentions are honest and show her she can trust you, that’s it.

That’s the only key you’ll need to win her heart over forever.

Só precisa de ouvir

If you have been struggling with understanding your girl’s needs, you can relax now and stop worrying so much about it because it’s not that complicated indeed.

All you have to do is listen. Listen to what she has to say and listen actively because, you see, women aren’t mysterious at all.

For women, communication is everything in a relationship. If she wants something, she’ll tell you or at least give you a signal.

That’s why you really have to listen when she talks. Don’t be just physically there, be emotionally present, too.

A primeira coisa é a ligação

Ela quer criar uma forte ligação emocional entre vocês os dois.

She wants you to put in an equal amount of effort as she’s putting in your relationship to create such a strong bond that nothing and no one would ever be able to break.

Para uma mulher, um ligação emocional é muito mais importante do que um físico.

She wants to connect with you on a deeper soul-level before everything else… to connect in a way that goes beyond anything physical.

She needs to know she’s your first and your only choice

This is another part that men misunderstand about women. A woman will never ask you to make her your only priority in life, but she’ll want to be on the very top of your priority list and she has every right to be put in that place.

She’ll never accept being an option or your segunda opção. She wants to feel wanted, she wants to be your first, you last… Well, the hell with it, she wants to be your ONLY choice.

Ser amigo dela

A woman knows that the most beautiful and the most powerful relationships are the ones when two people aren’t lovers only, but also best friends.

You’ll build trust this way, and your friendship will be the strongest foundation of your romantic relationship.

She needs to know that she’s seguro with you and that she can tell you everything without being afraid you’ll judge or betray her.

Ela precisa que sejas primeiro o seu melhor amigo, depois o seu par romântico.

And, trust me, that goes both ways. She’ll also become your buddy, she’ll become the best friend you ever had and she will never ever betray you or your trust no matter what.

Ela precisa de se sentir à vontade para se abrir consigo

Uma mulher quer ter a certeza de que pode confiar em si para tudo. Ela precisa de saber que pode ir ter consigo sempre que tiver um problema ou simplesmente quiser partilhar algo consigo.

She needs a shoulder to cry on when she’s going through some difficult periods.

Ela precisa de um confidente; uma pessoa que seja capaz de contar até os seus segredos mais obscuros e ter a certeza de que os seus segredos estarão seguros com essa pessoa para sempre.

Ela quer que sejas o seu porto numa tempestade

She needs to know that she’s safe with you. Your arms will become her safe place and you should never make her think differently.

Be there for her always. She must be aware that you’re always behind her watching her from her back and not allowing anything or anyone to hurt her.

É claro que ela precisa de se sentir amada acima de tudo

Above all of this, all a woman really wants from a guy is to reciprocate her feelings. She wants to feel the same love she’s giving to you.

Ela quer que a ames da maneira certa e pelas razões certas. Ela quer sentir-se aceite em todas as suas condições e amada apesar de todos os seus defeitos.

Veja, understanding a woman’s needs isn’t complicated at all. Show her real love and respect and treat her the way she deserves. Choose her always, despite everything and everyone.