Não é complicado, ele só não se importa o suficiente

When a guy cares for you, he’ll act that way. He won’t have trouble committing to you or putting a label on your relationship.

He won’t have trouble being ser claro sobre os seus sentimentos and he’ll make sure he shows them to you one way or another.

Quando um homem nos ama, trata-nos como tal.

Ele faz questão de que saibas que podes contar sempre com ele, trabalha arduamente para ganhar a tua confiança e faz tudo o que está ao seu alcance para te mostrar que é um homem fiável e maduro, digno de estar contigo.

Quando um homem gosta de ti, faz um esforço.

Ele esforça-se por provar o seu amor e faz tudo o que pode para que a vossa relação funcione.

He fights for it with everything he’s got and he never even thinks of giving up on you.

Quando um homem te ama, põe-te em primeiro lugar e dá-te o lugar que mereces na sua vida.

He isn’t too busy to see you or to hear you out, his friends are never more important than you and he never chooses to continue living the life of a bachelor over sharing it with you.

Ele nunca nos faz questionar a sua lealdade ou fidelidade e nunca escolhe a luxúria temporária em vez do amor a longo prazo.

Quando um homem gosta de ti, ele é coerente about it. He doesn’t change his mind about you every day and he never makes you question his feelings.

He doesn’t make you doubt his intentions and you are always sure that he loves you.

Não há drama, não há um significado oculto por detrás das suas palavras, não há sinais contraditórios nem jogos mentais.

He doesn’t act all mysterious, he doesn’t make you chase him and he isn’t emotionally unavailable.

I know you don’t want to hear any of these things. I know that you want to find an excuse for your boyfriend behaving the way he does and treating you the way he does.

No entanto, também sei que, lá no fundo, sabeis muito bem a verdade.

That deep down, you know that things between the two of you aren’t complicated—he is just an asshole who leads you on and who doesn’t love you enough.

Deep down, you know that it is not the wrong timing and that he doesn’t need you to be patient for just a little bit longer so he could get his shit together.

You know that he isn’t scared of letting you into his heart because he’s been hurt before and because his emotional baggage is still burdening him.

You know very well that he is lying when he tells you that he isn’t good enough for you and when he says that the only reason he doesn’t want to make things official is because he wants to give you a chance to find someone better.

When he promises that he’ll change and that things will be different in no time.

You know that he calls you only when he needs you, not because of the fact you are the only one he trusts but because of the fact that you are the only one who won’t turn your back on him.

Que as suas mensagens de texto bêbadas e tardias não passam, na verdade, de um booty call, apesar de continuares a dizer a ti própria que são um sinal do seu amor escondido por ti.

Mais importante ainda, sabes que mereces mais e melhor.

Sabe que este quase relação will never grow to be a real one, you know that this guy is an asshole who’ll never give you what you need and you know that things will go on like this for as long as you let them.

Sabe muito bem que este homem continuará a deixá-la quando se cansar de si e a voltar quando perceber que ninguém o amará como você o ama, enquanto o deixar.

That he’ll never come to his senses and that he’ll never be the one to end things.

You know you’ll be trapped in this toxic, never-ending relationship until you pick up your strength, look the truth directly in the eye and turn your back on him.

Que tens de ser tu a afastar-te se quiseres seguir em frente com a tua vida.

You know very well that you’ve tried your best and that you’ve done everything possible to make things between the two of you work out.

You know that there is no use in saving his sorry ass and that it’s about time you start saving yourself for a change.