Non è complicato, solo che non gli interessa abbastanza

When a guy cares for you, he’ll act that way. He won’t have trouble committing to you or putting a label on your relationship.

He won’t have trouble being chiaro sui suoi sentimenti and he’ll make sure he shows them to you one way or another.

Quando un uomo ti ama, ti tratta di conseguenza.

Si assicura che tu sappia che puoi sempre contare su di lui, si impegna a fondo per guadagnarsi la tua fiducia e fa di tutto per dimostrarti che è un uomo affidabile e maturo, degno di stare con te.

Quando un ragazzo ci tiene a te, si sforza.

Si sforza di dimostrare il suo amore e fa del suo meglio per far funzionare la vostra relazione.

He fights for it with everything he’s got and he never even thinks of giving up on you.

Quando un uomo ti ama, ti mette al primo posto e ti dà il posto che meriti nella sua vita.

He isn’t too busy to see you or to hear you out, his friends are never more important than you and he never chooses to continue living the life of a bachelor over sharing it with you.

Non ti fa mai mettere in dubbio la sua lealtà o fedeltà e non sceglie mai la lussuria temporanea al posto dell'amore a lungo termine.

Quando un ragazzo si preoccupa per te, è coerente about it. He doesn’t change his mind about you every day and he never makes you question his feelings.

He doesn’t make you doubt his intentions and you are always sure that he loves you.

Non ci sono drammi, né significati nascosti dietro le sue parole, né segnali contrastanti, né giochi mentali.

He doesn’t act all mysterious, he doesn’t make you chase him and he isn’t emotionally unavailable.

I know you don’t want to hear any of these things. I know that you want to find an excuse for your boyfriend behaving the way he does and treating you the way he does.

Tuttavia, so anche che, nel profondo, siete ben consapevoli della verità.

That deep down, you know that things between the two of you aren’t complicated—he is just an asshole who leads you on and who doesn’t love you enough.

Deep down, you know that it is not the wrong timing and that he doesn’t need you to be patient for just a little bit longer so he could get his shit together.

You know that he isn’t scared of letting you into his heart because he’s been hurt before and because his emotional baggage is still burdening him.

You know very well that he is lying when he tells you that he isn’t good enough for you and when he says that the only reason he doesn’t want to make things official is because he wants to give you a chance to find someone better.

When he promises that he’ll change and that things will be different in no time.

You know that he calls you only when he needs you, not because of the fact you are the only one he trusts but because of the fact that you are the only one who won’t turn your back on him.

Che i suoi sms da ubriaco a tarda notte in realtà non sono altro che una telefonata di piacere, anche se continuate a ripetervi che sono un segno del suo amore nascosto per voi.

Ma soprattutto, sapete di meritare di più e di meglio.

Sapete che questo quasi relazione will never grow to be a real one, you know that this guy is an asshole who’ll never give you what you need and you know that things will go on like this for as long as you let them.

Siete ben consapevoli che quest'uomo continuerà a lasciarvi quando si stancherà di voi e tornerà quando si renderà conto che nessuno lo amerà mai come voi finché glielo permetterete.

That he’ll never come to his senses and that he’ll never be the one to end things.

You know you’ll be trapped in this toxic, never-ending relationship until you pick up your strength, look the truth directly in the eye and turn your back on him.

Che dovete essere voi ad andarvene se volete andare avanti con la vostra vita.

You know very well that you’ve tried your best and that you’ve done everything possible to make things between the two of you work out.

You know that there is no use in saving his sorry ass and that it’s about time you start saving yourself for a change.