No es complicado, simplemente no le importa lo suficiente

When a guy cares for you, he’ll act that way. He won’t have trouble committing to you or putting a label on your relationship.

He won’t have trouble being claro sobre sus sentimientos and he’ll make sure he shows them to you one way or another.

Cuando un chico te quiere, te trata en consecuencia.

Se asegura de que sepas que siempre puedes contar con él, trabaja duro para ganarse tu confianza y hace todo lo que está en su mano para demostrarte que es un hombre fiable, maduro y digno de estar contigo.

Cuando un chico se preocupa por ti, hace un esfuerzo.

Se esfuerza por demostrar su amor y hace todo lo posible para que vuestra relación funcione.

He fights for it with everything he’s got and he never even thinks of giving up on you.

Cuando un chico te quiere, te pone en primer lugar y te da el lugar que mereces en su vida.

He isn’t too busy to see you or to hear you out, his friends are never more important than you and he never chooses to continue living the life of a bachelor over sharing it with you.

Nunca te hace cuestionar su lealtad o fidelidad y nunca elige la lujuria temporal sobre el amor a largo plazo.

Cuando un chico se preocupa por ti, es coherente about it. He doesn’t change his mind about you every day and he never makes you question his feelings.

He doesn’t make you doubt his intentions and you are always sure that he loves you.

No hay drama, ni significado oculto tras sus palabras, ni señales confusas, ni juegos mentales.

He doesn’t act all mysterious, he doesn’t make you chase him and he isn’t emotionally unavailable.

I know you don’t want to hear any of these things. I know that you want to find an excuse for your boyfriend behaving the way he does and treating you the way he does.

Sin embargo, también sé que, en el fondo, eres muy consciente de la verdad.

That deep down, you know that things between the two of you aren’t complicated—he is just an asshole who leads you on and who doesn’t love you enough.

Deep down, you know that it is not the wrong timing and that he doesn’t need you to be patient for just a little bit longer so he could get his shit together.

You know that he isn’t scared of letting you into his heart because he’s been hurt before and because his emotional baggage is still burdening him.

You know very well that he is lying when he tells you that he isn’t good enough for you and when he says that the only reason he doesn’t want to make things official is because he wants to give you a chance to find someone better.

When he promises that he’ll change and that things will be different in no time.

You know that he calls you only when he needs you, not because of the fact you are the only one he trusts but because of the fact that you are the only one who won’t turn your back on him.

Que sus mensajes de texto borracho y a altas horas de la noche en realidad no son más que una llamada para ligar, aunque te repitas a ti misma que son una señal de su amor oculto por ti.

Lo más importante, sabes que te mereces algo mejor y más.

Usted sabe que este casi relación will never grow to be a real one, you know that this guy is an asshole who’ll never give you what you need and you know that things will go on like this for as long as you let them.

Eres muy consciente de que este hombre te seguirá dejando cuando se canse de ti y volverá cuando se dé cuenta de que nadie le querrá nunca como tú mientras se lo permitas.

That he’ll never come to his senses and that he’ll never be the one to end things.

You know you’ll be trapped in this toxic, never-ending relationship until you pick up your strength, look the truth directly in the eye and turn your back on him.

Que tienes que ser tú quien se aleje si quieres seguir adelante con tu vida.

You know very well that you’ve tried your best and that you’ve done everything possible to make things between the two of you work out.

You know that there is no use in saving his sorry ass and that it’s about time you start saving yourself for a change.