Se ele te trata como se não se importasse, acredita nele
Uma das coisas mais difíceis de lidar na vida é o amor não correspondido. Quando se ama alguém, tudo o que se quer é que essa pessoa nos ame de volta.
You know that you couldn’t be nicer to this guy and you know you are doing everything right, but he simply doesn’t love you the way you should be loved.
The hardest part about this is accepting that someone you love so much simply doesn’t care about you. Deep down, you know the truth, but you keep hoping.
Continua a ter esperança de que ele a ame, mas que tem uma forma estranha de o demonstrar. Continua a esperar que ele acabe por mudar e comece a tratá-la como deve.
You’d do basically everything expect accepting that he doesn’t care about you. But, I am here to tell you it’s time to face the harsh reality.
Se passas a maior parte dos teus dias à espera dele– he doesn’t give a damn about you. O homem que gosta de si terá sempre tempo para si, por muito ocupado que esteja.
He will never make you beg for his attention, because there won’t be anything more important for him than you.
Se fores tu a iniciar todos os encontros e comunicações– he doesn’t care about you. If a man cares about you enough, he will have the desire to see you and talk to you.
On the other hand, if a guy can spend an entire day without even checking up on you, it means that he doesn’t think about you and it is a sign he definitely doesn’t care about you.
Se ele nunca está interessado em si– he doesn’t care. When your boyfriend is apaixonado por ti, he’ll be interested in everything you have to say.
If a guy is never concerned with happenings in your life and is not interested in your opinion, he can’t be interested in you.
If he doesn’t open up to you– he doesn’t care about you. No matter how closed of a person a man is, when he really falls in love with a woman, he’ll open up to her completely.
Se um homem gosta realmente de si, vai apreciar a sua opinião e vai querer ouvir os seus conselhos sobre a maioria das coisas da vida.
If he doesn’t remember things that are important to you– he doesn’t care.
If he doesn’t remember the name of your pet, if he doesn’t know when your birthday is or he does but he doesn’t do anything to surprise you on that date and if he doesn’t even try to find these things out, you are not important to him.
If he is never around when you need him- he doesn’t care about you. When a guy truly loves you, he will be your shoulder to cry on and your biggest support.
Mas, este homem só está perto de si quando tudo está a correr bem. Sempre que estás a passar por momentos difíceis, este homem não está em lado nenhum.
Se ele é egoísta– he doesn’t care. When a guy truly cares about you, he will always put your needs even in front of his own.
But, when he doesn’t care about you enough or at all, he will always be self-centred and this is exactly how this guy behaves. His well-being is the only thing important for him and everything has to be his way.
If he doesn’t put an effort to make you happy– he doesn’t love you enough. Let’s face it—this man does nothing to make you happy.
Nunca faz o mínimo esforço para pôr um sorriso no seu rosto e a sua tristeza nunca o afecta.
É óbvio que he treats you like he doesn’t care about you.
And if he acts like he doesn’t care, please disregard everything he might be telling you and believe him. Because this guy doesn’t love you the way you love him. And he probably never will.
I know you keep making excuses for him and you are trying to justify his behavior, but it’s about time to stop. Remember- onde há vontade, há um caminho.
It’s about time you accept this, no matter how painful it is. And it’s time for you to start respecting yourself enough to walk away.
