Se ele faz estas 7 coisas, ele tem medo de te perder

Every relationship is perfect in the beginning. You feel like you’re on top of the world and you’re crazy in love. Even the things you wouldn’t normally tolerate you let slide because you’re head over heels in love.

Actually, that is not even love, it’s that initial infatuation, the craziness when you’re completely blinded and obsessed with your new boyfriend.

Mas, mais cedo ou mais tarde, essa chama inicial começa a desvanecer-se e a vida real entra em ação. Só então é que se percebe se está verdadeiramente apaixonada por ele ou se estava apenas demasiado entusiasmada com a ideia do amor.

In this period, all the things you overlooked earlier become a burden. His quirks and his flaws become too real and it’s up to you whether you would learn to love them or grow to resent them.

You may even struggle with this new side of him and you don’t know how to react. You don’t know how to make him realize that he’s losing you. It can go that way, or sadly (though this happens more rarely), he will realize that you’re slipping away, that something is distancing you from him.

That’s why he’ll bring out the big guns if he truly loves you and do these things to keep you:

1. Ele vai namoriscar contigo

He knows that he has won you already but he won’t stop trying. If he senses that you might leave, he will flirt with you again. He will try to win you back. He will take you to a nice dinner, he won’t be late for your dates, and he will answer your texts as soon as he gets them. Basically, he will try to seduce you all over again.

2. Ele deixará tudo para estar contigo

No other plans are important as you are. If you watch his behavior closely, you’ll notice that ele está mesmo, verdadeiramente, loucamente, profundamente apaixonado por ti. He cares for you and he doesn’t want to gamble away this chance of being with you.

Ele preocupa-se e lutará por si. Se precisares dele, ele cancela tudo o que tinha combinado só para estar ao teu lado e, claro, nunca te dirá isso nem tu descobrirás, a não ser por acidente.

3. Ele dar-vos-á presentes

It doesn’t even have to be a special occasion. He will buy you something to prove that he loves you or he will walk in the park and pick a flower or two and bring them to you.

Ele mostrará o seu apego emocional e o quanto você significa para ele fazendo essas pequenas coisas que significam muito no final do dia.

4. Ele vai tratar-te como a sua prioridade

Nada é mais importante do que tu. Ele colocá-la-á sempre em primeiro lugar porque, neste momento, você é a coisa mais importante da vida dele e ele quer que você saiba disso.

He wants to make sure that you won’t leave him ever by treating you the way you deserve, the way every woman deserves to be treated. He is smart enough to see it.

5. Ele vai elogiar-te

Ele quer que te sintas especial e desejável. Ele quer que te sintas bonita porque tu és. Não se trata de uma tentativa desesperada de a manter, dizendo palavras vazias para a fazer feliz; não, ele está a falar a sério e prova-o com acções.

Ele elogia-a pela sua aparência porque é louco de amor with you and to him you are the most beautiful girl on the face of the earth. He compliments things you’re doing and how you’re doing them because he truly admires you and your competence.

6. Ele preocupa-se com a sua família e amigos

He knows they are important to you, that’s why they are important to him, too. He will try so hard to make them like him, like he is trying to win you over.

Even if he doesn’t like them, he will never show you that and he will keep it to himself because he loves you and doesn’t want to hurt you.

7. Ele estará lá para ti quando precisares dele

Usually, people who are together for a while start taking each other for granted. Even when one person in the relationship needs help, the other one doesn’t take it that seriously because they believe they can handle it.

He won’t act that way. He will see when you’re stressed out and he’ll come to help you. He will either just be there for you and listen or he will give you advice, whatever works for you the best at that moment.