Se ele joga estes 7 jogos imaturos de relacionamento, está a desperdiçar o seu tempo

O amor não é um jogo, ponto final.

Qualquer pessoa que o trate como tal é um indivíduo imaturo que simplesmente não está preparado para um compromisso que uma relação real e adulta implica.

And that’s okay. Because recognizing when people are merely jogar jogos na sua relação torna muito mais fácil para si sair de lá antes de se envolver demasiado e sair nos seus próprios termos.

Os homens que se relacionam apenas com o objetivo de não ficarem sozinhos, até que apareça alguém melhor, não passam de fedelhos mimados e imaturos que não têm nada que brincar assim com o seu coração!

You would devote every fiber of your being to this guy and keep your relationship sacred and close to your heart, while he’s out there low-key exploring the field and contemplating his options!

Don’t let him. React in time.

Admita a si própria quando o seu homem está a ser duvidoso e não está totalmente envolvido e poupe-se ao embaraço de ser enganada por um imbecil imaturo!

Trust me, losing that kind of guy won’t be a loss at all.

Ultimately, you’ll be the one who wins, because losing someone who added nothing to your life is only going to better your chances of finding alguém que realmente se importa!

Estes são os 7 sinais mais comuns de que o seu homem está a fazer jogos de relacionamento estúpidos e a desperdiçar completamente o seu tempo (mas não por muito tempo!).

He wants to keep the relationship on the down-low and doesn’t let you talk about it to your friends much

You don’t go out to places where many people could see you and he doesn’t hold your hand in public (only during rare moments when there are no people around).

You feel like he really goes to extreme lengths to keep your relationship a secret and it’s all under false pretenses that it’s better if it’s just between you two, like it’s somehow more meaningful.

You don’t like this at all but you go along with it, hoping it would change with time.

But things haven’t improved one bit; he’s still manter-te em segredo, you’re not really sure why and you’re totally annoyed by it.

Ele não mostra qualquer consistência na relação

Relationships require effort and consistency in order to thrive but so far, he hasn’t demonstrated either of the two.

When it suits him, he’s being all nice and considerate toward you but he can switch it off just like that and become a total prick.

You can’t really rely on him to be a certain way for a long period of time, because he’s so flaky. And he doesn’t seem to want to change that at all.

He is simply not consistent with showing you any type of affection and you oftentimes consider breaking it off but those rare moments when he does behave nicely reassure you (even though they shouldn’t).

Ele finge interessar-se pelas coisas de que tu gostas para os seus próprios interesses

When you talk about something you’re passionate about and really hold dear to your heart, you feel like he only agrees with you for the sake of agreeing.

There isn’t any genuine curiosity on his part in any aspect of your life or your passions, only feigned interest when he wants to gain something from you (sexo, a sua atenção ou ele precisa de ajuda com alguma coisa).

He is being fake and dishonest and deep down you know those aren’t the qualities of a boyfriend who truly cares about you.

Se ele realmente te amasseEle estaria interessado em todas as partes de si.

Ele faz de tudo para te fazer sentir ciúmes

It makes him feel good about himself when you act out in jealousy and he doesn’t really seem to mind. It boosts his ego and feeds his immature soul.

He constantly puts you in a position to question his loyalty, even with the littlest things, and you’re getting doente e cansado of it but you simply don’t want to admit that he’s doing it on purpose.

O que importa é que um homem que a ama nunca a faria duvidar das suas intenções.

Only immature boys play games like that and that’s because they still have a lot of growing up to do.

Ele faz-te esperar horas por uma simples mensagem de texto, independentemente da sua importância

He doesn’t want to seem too eager, so he takes his time getting back to you.

He rarely texts back within a reasonable amount of time and even when it’s just a simple question, he’s going to make you wait for it.

Ele não tem consideração e não aprecia o seu tempo e os seus sentimentos e só faz isso para se sentir importante, como um macho, quando na verdade não passa de um pirralho egoísta.

Ainda há aplicações de encontros no telemóvel dele (a maior bandeira vermelha!)

When a guy you’re supposed to be in a relationship with still keeps dating apps on his phone, there really isn’t much to say to back it up, other than he’s clearly still browsing his options!

Don’t waste your time, because if he can’t even bother to hide it and leaves it right there for you to see, he is clearly not interested in anything serious with you and he doesn’t even care how this makes you feel.

One word—run!

He refuses to put a label on your relationship and you don’t even know where you stand

He doesn’t want to have the conversation to discuss where you two are and what exactly you are in the first place and when you suggest defining your relationship, he is against it.

He doesn’t like putting labels on things, it makes him feel pressured, so he just keeps things up in the air, giving you zero reassurance he’s in it one hundred percent.

Ele deixa as coisas fluírem e, à simples menção de compromisso, hesita.

Este tipo não tem qualquer interesse em ter uma relação adulta e sugiro vivamente que deixes este imaturo e procures alguém que tenha a idade que ele tem.

He is only wasting your precious time and those types of guys don’t really change.

Do yourself a favor and leave. It’s the only right decision in this situation and it’s going to make you feel liberated AF!