Se gioca a questi 7 giochi di relazione immaturi, sta sprecando il vostro tempo

L'amore non è un gioco, punto.

Chiunque la tratti come tale è un individuo immaturo che semplicemente non è pronto per l'impegno che una vera relazione adulta comporta.

And that’s okay. Because recognizing when people are merely giochi nella vostra relazione vi rende molto più facile uscirne prima di essere troppo coinvolti e andarvene alle vostre condizioni.

Gli uomini che entrano in una relazione solo per non rimanere soli, finché non arriva qualcuno di meglio, non sono altro che mocciosi viziati e immaturi che non hanno il diritto di giocare con il vostro cuore in questo modo!

You would devote every fiber of your being to this guy and keep your relationship sacred and close to your heart, while he’s out there low-key exploring the field and contemplating his options!

Don’t let him. React in time.

Ammettete a voi stesse quando il vostro uomo si sta comportando in modo losco e non è pienamente coinvolto, e risparmiatevi l'imbarazzo di essere trascinate da un coglione immaturo!

Trust me, losing that kind of guy won’t be a loss at all.

Ultimately, you’ll be the one who wins, because losing someone who added nothing to your life is only going to better your chances of finding qualcuno che se ne frega davvero!

Questi sono i 7 segnali più comuni che indicano che il vostro uomo sta facendo degli stupidi giochi di coppia e che vi sta facendo perdere tempo (ma non per molto!).

He wants to keep the relationship on the down-low and doesn’t let you talk about it to your friends much

You don’t go out to places where many people could see you and he doesn’t hold your hand in public (only during rare moments when there are no people around).

You feel like he really goes to extreme lengths to keep your relationship a secret and it’s all under false pretenses that it’s better if it’s just between you two, like it’s somehow more meaningful.

You don’t like this at all but you go along with it, hoping it would change with time.

But things haven’t improved one bit; he’s still mantenere un segreto su di te, you’re not really sure why and you’re totally annoyed by it.

Non mostra alcuna coerenza nella relazione

Relationships require effort and consistency in order to thrive but so far, he hasn’t demonstrated either of the two.

When it suits him, he’s being all nice and considerate toward you but he can switch it off just like that and become a total prick.

You can’t really rely on him to be a certain way for a long period of time, because he’s so flaky. And he doesn’t seem to want to change that at all.

He is simply not consistent with showing you any type of affection and you oftentimes consider breaking it off but those rare moments when he does behave nicely reassure you (even though they shouldn’t).

Finge di interessarsi alle cose che vi piacciono per i suoi scopi.

When you talk about something you’re passionate about and really hold dear to your heart, you feel like he only agrees with you for the sake of agreeing.

There isn’t any genuine curiosity on his part in any aspect of your life or your passions, only feigned interest when he wants to gain something from you (sesso, la vostra attenzione o ha bisogno di aiuto con qualcosa di).

He is being fake and dishonest and deep down you know those aren’t the qualities of a boyfriend who truly cares about you.

Se ti ha amato davvero, sarebbe interessato a tutte le parti di voi.

Si fa in quattro per farti sentire gelosa

It makes him feel good about himself when you act out in jealousy and he doesn’t really seem to mind. It boosts his ego and feeds his immature soul.

He constantly puts you in a position to question his loyalty, even with the littlest things, and you’re getting malato e stanco of it but you simply don’t want to admit that he’s doing it on purpose.

Il punto è che un uomo che vi ama non vi farebbe mai dubitare delle sue intenzioni.

Only immature boys play games like that and that’s because they still have a lot of growing up to do.

Ti fa aspettare ore per un semplice messaggio di risposta, non importa quanto sia importante.

He doesn’t want to seem too eager, so he takes his time getting back to you.

He rarely texts back within a reasonable amount of time and even when it’s just a simple question, he’s going to make you wait for it.

È completamente sconsiderato e non apprezza il vostro tempo e i vostri sentimenti e lo fa solo per sentirsi importante, come una sorta di macho, quando in realtà non è altro che un moccioso egoista.

Ci sono ancora app di incontri sul suo telefono (la più grande bandiera rossa!)

When a guy you’re supposed to be in a relationship with still keeps dating apps on his phone, there really isn’t much to say to back it up, other than he’s clearly still browsing his options!

Don’t waste your time, because if he can’t even bother to hide it and leaves it right there for you to see, he is clearly not interested in anything serious with you and he doesn’t even care how this makes you feel.

One word—run!

He refuses to put a label on your relationship and you don’t even know where you stand

He doesn’t want to have the conversation to discuss where you two are and what exactly you are in the first place and when you suggest defining your relationship, he is against it.

He doesn’t like putting labels on things, it makes him feel pressured, so he just keeps things up in the air, giving you zero reassurance he’s in it one hundred percent.

Lascia che le cose scorrano e al solo sentir parlare di impegno si tira indietro.

È chiaro che questo ragazzo non ha alcun interesse ad avere una relazione adulta e ti consiglio vivamente di lasciare il suo culo immaturo e di andare a cercare qualcuno che sappia davvero comportarsi alla sua età.

He is only wasting your precious time and those types of guys don’t really change.

Do yourself a favor and leave. It’s the only right decision in this situation and it’s going to make you feel liberated AF!