Se ele realmente te amasse, faria questão de que você soubesse disso

O amor não é complicado. Quando amamos realmente alguém, é natural que mostremos os nossos sentimentos e lutemos por essa pessoa, aconteça o que acontecer.

It comes to you naturally to make them your priority because you can’t imagine your life without them.

But, when you don’t love someone, you do the exact opposite. You treat them however you want because you don’t care how they’ll feel.

You let them wait because you don’t care about their time.

So, let’s get one thing straight: Se ele realmente te amasse, certificar-se-ia de que tu o saberias!

Yup. It’s that simple. If he really loved you, he would never make you question his intentions in the first place or make you overthink even the smallest of things.

If he really loved you, he would not just say it – he would prove it to you.

And that’s the biggest difference between real and fake love.

When you love someone, you don’t wait a second to tell them how much you appreciate their existence and everything they do for you.

When you love someone, you don’t wait a second to show it to them with your gestures and not only words.

Se ele realmente te amasse, lutaria muito para não te perder.

Quando acreditamos em algo, lutamos com todo o nosso coração e alma para o conseguir.

Se ele realmente te amasse, encontraria uma forma de te fazer sentir especial e de te conquistar. E encontraria uma forma de a manter.

So, don’t you dare imagine things or finding excuses for his behavior, thinking that you’re the one to blame! You were there for him, but he didn’t want to see it or appreciate it. He wasn’t ready for love because he was incapable of loving. He never loved you.

E também não estava apaixonada por ele. Estava apaixonada pela ideia dele.

You hoped that he will change, and he will start noticing your efforts, but he didn’t.

You hoped that one day you’ll wake up, and he will be there next to you, holding a flower in his hand, waiting to put it in your hair.

Mas, ele nunca fez isso! E sabes porquê? Porque ele nunca te amou.

I know it’s hard to accept, but it’s the only way to libertar-se from the limbo you’re in.

Esperaste que ele te mostrasse o que é o verdadeiro amor, mas em vez disso, ele só foi capaz de te mostrar o que o amor não é.

And it’s not your fault for believing that something will change. You did the right thing. You waited, but he never came to his senses. You were there, but he never bothered reciprocating. He was feasting on your pure love while giving you crumbs of his toxic one.

And now it’s time to let go of it! It’s time to let go of the idea that he ever loved you or that he would ever be capable of it because he isn’t, and he’ll never be.

E sabem porquê?

Because he doesn’t understand how it feels to love someone and watch them spit in your face.

He doesn’t understand how it feels to treat someone as your priority when you know that to them, you’re just an option.

Se ele realmente te amasse, compreenderia tudo isso e muito mais. Se ele realmente amava-te, nunca te faria chorar ou amaldiçoar no dia em que o conhecesses.

If he really loved you, he would make damn sure to knock on your door and wait hours if needed, only to say that he’s sorry for everything he’s done and express his utter love for you.

But, he didn’t do it. He didn’t do it because he didn’t care whether you’re feeling loved or not. He was only thinking about himself and his wishes. And now it is time for you to think about yourself!

It’s time for you to start focusing on your own happiness and not only on the happiness of those who didn’t deserve your attention.

It’s time for you to accept the fact that he was never meant to stay because he was simply incapable of loving you, and all of this was just a test for you, preparing you for something bigger, greater.

Your bad choices don’t make you who you are! They enrich your life and teach you valuable lessons, but they never make you who you are.

É uma mulher bonita e forte que passou por muito e que merece um tratamento muito melhor do que aquele com que se estava a contentar.

Estava a contentar-se com menos, apesar de merecer a lua e as estrelas.

Estavam a aceitar mentiras, apesar de merecerem a pura verdade.

Entregaste-lhe o teu coração mesmo sabendo que ele acabaria por o partir.

And now it’s time to do everything in reverse. It’s time to stop dwelling upon your past because nothing will ever change.

A sua vida só mudará quando você decidir que vai mudar.

Isso mudará quando começares a aceitar apenas as coisas mais belas da vida.

Mudará quando começares a aceitar o amor que te inspira em vez do amor medíocre. Comece a mudá-lo. Seja a mudança!