Se ti amasse davvero, si assicurerebbe che tu lo sappia.

L'amore non è complicato. Quando si ama davvero qualcuno, viene spontaneo mostrare i propri sentimenti e lottare per lui a prescindere da tutto.

It comes to you naturally to make them your priority because you can’t imagine your life without them.

But, when you don’t love someone, you do the exact opposite. You treat them however you want because you don’t care how they’ll feel.

You let them wait because you don’t care about their time.

So, let’s get one thing straight: Se ti amasse davvero, si assicurerebbe che tu lo sappia!

Yup. It’s that simple. If he really loved you, he would never make you question his intentions in the first place or make you overthink even the smallest of things.

If he really loved you, he would not just say it – he would prove it to you.

And that’s the biggest difference between real and fake love.

When you love someone, you don’t wait a second to tell them how much you appreciate their existence and everything they do for you.

When you love someone, you don’t wait a second to show it to them with your gestures and not only words.

Se ti amasse davvero, lotterebbe con tutte le sue forze per non perderti.

Quando si crede in qualcosa, si lotta con tutto il cuore e l'anima per ottenerla.

Se ti amasse davvero, troverebbe un modo per farti sentire speciale e conquistarti. E troverebbe il modo di tenerti con sé.

So, don’t you dare imagine things or finding excuses for his behavior, thinking that you’re the one to blame! You were there for him, but he didn’t want to see it or appreciate it. He wasn’t ready for love because he was incapable of loving. He never loved you.

E non eri nemmeno innamorata di lui. Era innamorata dell'idea di lui.

You hoped that he will change, and he will start noticing your efforts, but he didn’t.

You hoped that one day you’ll wake up, and he will be there next to you, holding a flower in his hand, waiting to put it in your hair.

Ma non l'ha mai fatto! E sai perché? Perché non ti ha mai amato.

I know it’s hard to accept, but it’s the only way to liberarsi from the limbo you’re in.

Avete aspettato che vi mostrasse cos'è il vero amore, ma invece è stato capace solo di mostrarvi cosa non è l'amore.

And it’s not your fault for believing that something will change. You did the right thing. You waited, but he never came to his senses. You were there, but he never bothered reciprocating. He was feasting on your pure love while giving you crumbs of his toxic one.

And now it’s time to let go of it! It’s time to let go of the idea that he ever loved you or that he would ever be capable of it because he isn’t, and he’ll never be.

E sapete perché?

Because he doesn’t understand how it feels to love someone and watch them spit in your face.

He doesn’t understand how it feels to treat someone as your priority when you know that to them, you’re just an option.

Se ti amasse davvero, capirebbe tutto questo e anche di più. Se davvero ti ha amatoNon vi farà mai piangere o maledire il giorno in cui l'avete conosciuto.

If he really loved you, he would make damn sure to knock on your door and wait hours if needed, only to say that he’s sorry for everything he’s done and express his utter love for you.

But, he didn’t do it. He didn’t do it because he didn’t care whether you’re feeling loved or not. He was only thinking about himself and his wishes. And now it is time for you to think about yourself!

It’s time for you to start focusing on your own happiness and not only on the happiness of those who didn’t deserve your attention.

It’s time for you to accept the fact that he was never meant to stay because he was simply incapable of loving you, and all of this was just a test for you, preparing you for something bigger, greater.

Your bad choices don’t make you who you are! They enrich your life and teach you valuable lessons, but they never make you who you are.

Lei è una donna bella e forte, che ne ha passate tante e che merita un trattamento di gran lunga migliore di quello che si è accontentata.

Vi siete accontentati di poco, anche se meritate la luna e le stelle.

Stavate accettando bugie anche se meritavate la pura verità.

Gli hai dato il tuo cuore anche se sapevi che alla fine l'avrebbe spezzato.

And now it’s time to do everything in reverse. It’s time to stop dwelling upon your past because nothing will ever change.

La vostra vita cambierà solo quando lo deciderete voi.

Cambierà quando inizierete ad accettare solo le cose più belle della vita.

Cambierà quando inizierete ad accettare l'amore che vi ispira invece di quello mediocre. Iniziate a cambiarlo. Siate il cambiamento!