Se o seu ex seguiu em frente demasiado depressa, isto é o que precisa de saber
It’s just like any other day and you’re walking down the street when BOOM! Encontra o seu ex com a sua nova namorada.
You thought you’d gotten over him when suddenly you get that overwhelming feeling of disappointment.
Começa a contemplar: Porque é que ele seguir em frente tão rapidamente? Será que eu significava tão pouco para ele que ele me esqueceu tão depressa?
Or you’re scrolling the newsfeed and you suddenly stop in disbelief when you see him happy with another woman.
You feel betrayed even though you’re no longer together or you were the one who initiated the break-up in the first place.
Perhaps you think he didn’t love you that much or that she is the reason why the two of you parted.
PARAR!
Before it gets beyond complicated, try to understand that him moving on too quickly, in most cases, has nothing to do with you. If you overthink, you’ll make it even worse than it is.
Respire e concentre-se no presente. Se misturar o passado com o presente, a mistura de sentimentos que obtém acabará por o sufocar.
Moving on too quickly doesn’t mean he’s forgotten you.
There’s a difference between moving on too quickly and esquecimento alguém.
Moving on too quickly could mean that he is able to continue with his life even though he didn’t get over you.
There’s a big chance o teu ex está a fingir que já te esqueceu.
Talvez tenha decidido seguir em frente só para se divertir e deixar de pensar em si.
If you’re sure that your love was strong, then be sure that he didn’t forget you.
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If your love was genuine, moving on too quickly doesn’t mean he’s forgotten you.
It’s just his way of coping with it because some people are afraid of being alone after a break-up.
In a relationship, people create their own routine and now it’s hard for him to continue on his own (especially if you were together for a long time).
Seguir em frente demasiado depressa pode ser um ato de aumento do seu ego.
Todos sabemos que os homens são competitivos e sensíveis no que diz respeito à sua confiança.
They enjoy pursuing you just to feel so much worthier in the end when they ‘get you’.
It’s pretty much the same with break-ups as well. No matter what the reason for your break-up, he will find himself feeling insulted.
To be exact, his ego will find itself insulted. He will feel like he has failed to be a real man because he couldn’t make you happy.
If he cannot make a woman happy, it’s a direct attack on his confidence and a man’s most important thing in possession—his ego.
Now, if he succeeds to seduce another woman, it means he’s still worthy of being a man and his skills still work like a charm.
Por isso, se de repente o encontrar com outra mulher, pode ser um ato de aumento de ego.
There’s nothing you can do about it. You have to accept that it is in their twisted nature.
Avançar demasiado depressa para te fazer ciúmes?
Perhaps you’re the one who moved on too quickly and he’s just telling you that he’s able to do the same.
It can also mean that he’s subtly trying to make you jealous, especially if he’s bragging about her and appearing all over the place with his new girl, you have every right to think that he’s doing it in order to make you jealous.
Agora a questão é: porque é que ele quereria fazer-lhe ciúmes?
Well, perhaps he’s just testing whether or not you’re going to call him and say that you miss him or he’s subconsciously trying to make you feel like shit for no apparent reason. Whatever the reason may be, don’t let him manipulate you.
Se ele realmente quer-te de volta e sente a tua falta, ele vai encontrar uma forma decente de o demonstrar.
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