Voltar ao que te estragou não te vai consertar

Por favor, tem algum respeito por ti. Não voltes para a pessoa que fugiu do teu amor.

Don’t go back to the person who turned his back on you, leaving you all alone and vulnerable, while you were begging him to stay. Don’t go back to the one who broke all of his promises.

Mereces alguém que nunca pensaria sequer em deixar-te sozinha e confusa. Mereces um amor em que te sintas segura.

Amor que pode proteger-te do desgosto e da dor.

Tu mereces alguém que nunca te fará chorar. Alguém que nunca suportaria ver-te derramar lágrimas por algo que ele te fez.

I get it. It’s easy to take him back when he’s telling you everything you want to hear. When he’s promising you that this time, it WILL be different.

This time, he has changed. And it’s easy to believe what you want him to tell you. It’s way too easy loving someone you shouldn’t love anymore.

But hear me out. When he’s on his knees begging you to take him back, and saying that things are really going to be different this time, he will be telling you that because he knows that’s what you need to hear from him.

He knows that you need reassurance if you’re going to go back into the hole that he had dug for you, so please, don’t believe him.

Ele já mostrou as suas verdadeiras cores a primeira vez que ele te deixou. Ele já te mostrou o pouco que gosta de ti quando te deixou tão facilmente, sem voltar atrás.

Don’t be crazy to think he actually changed.

I know that you desperately want to feel loved, just like the rest of us. I know that you want to feel adored and be without a care in the world when you’re with him.

Mas a pessoa que o deixou uma vez, fá-lo-á de novo. A pessoa que te deixou nunca vai ser a pessoa que te vai consertar.

Então, don’t go running back the minute he realizes what he has lost and wants you back. Don’t be the one to fill the emptiness he now feels.

Ele sabe que o amas. Ele sabe que estás pacientemente à espera da sua chamada e que voltarás no momento em que ele te quiser de volta.

Don’t give him the satisfaction. Don’t do this to yourself. He broke you once, and he will do it again.

The only reason he wants you to come back is because he can’t be alone. Don’t run back to him simply because it is convenient for him.

He will find a reason to break you again. And then, it’s going to be twice as hard to heal from it.

Ama-te primeiro. Coloca-te em primeiro lugar por uma vez. Corra na outra direção se ele bater à sua porta.

Tal como ele fez quando precisaste que ele ficasse. Lembra-te sempre disso.

Estás apaixonada. Isso é completamente natural, eu compreendo.

But don’t you want someone who will appreciate you, value you and ultimately adore you, the way you feel for him now?

O tipo de amor que ele está disposto a oferecer não é o tipo de amor que mereces. Se voltares para ele, nunca deixarás de te interrogar. Saberás sempre o que ele é capaz de fazer.

Afinal de contas, foi a sua própria experiência. Só isso nunca lhe dará paz de espírito. É isso que queres para ti?

Don’t do it. Protect you heart and say, ‘No.’ Remember that he broke you once already and still has the guts to appear at your door again.

Please, don’t go back to false hope again. Don’t go back to fake promises, lies and tears.

Don’t go back to his games and tricks. You deserve so much more than him.

I know it’s scary to hear this now because you feel like you are at a crossroads. I know you are afraid of being alone if you don’t take him back.

You might even believe him when he tells you he’s a changed man and that leaving you the first time was the biggest mistake of his life.

Mas, por favor, sejam corajosos e tenham em conta os vossos próprios sentimentos e felicidade.

After some time, you will realize that saying, ‘No’ to him was the best decision of your life.