Só a sua alma gémea não terá medo destas 7 coisas sobre si
How many times have you heard that men don’t like mulheres fortes?
Well, let me tell you something: it’s not that men don’t like strong women – weak men are actually scared of them.
They’re intimidated by the fact that this woman will see their flaws – that sooner or later, she’ll realize they’re not good for her.
Nevertheless, all of this changes when you meet the man who is meant to be yours, because he won’t have any of these fears.
Instead, he will be proud of your inner power and strength, and he’ll be aware that he’s hit the jackpot when you entered his life.
1. Os seus problemas
Uma das primeiras coisas que afugentará os homens que não merecem a sua atenção são os seus elevados padrões.
Assim que vêem que é uma mulher que sabe o que quer, declaram-na demasiado exigente no que diz respeito aos homens.
However, the right guy will never see things this way. He won’t be scared off by the fact that you have strong deal breakers on which you refuse to compromise.
In fact, he will be more than happy he’s found a woman with character who refuses to settle for less than she deserves.
Instead of running away from you, he’ll do everything it takes to meet your standards and will make an effort to impress you.
2. A sua opinião
Outra coisa a sua alma gémea won’t ever be scared of is you having your own opinion and attitudes.
Once this man enters your life, he’ll never try to win every argument with you, just out of fear that you might outsmart him.
Ele ficará encantado por ter alguém com quem possa ter conversas significativas e alguém que ponha à prova as suas visões do mundo.
Your intelligence won’t make him feel like he’s less of a man, it will challenge him and make him work on himself even more.
3. O seu passado
Um homem maduro sabe que teve uma vida antes dele. Ele sabe que provavelmente amou alguém antes de ele aparecer e que têm uma história romântica.
However, this is not something he is afraid of. He won’t compare himself with your exes and he won’t be jealous of everything you had with them. He knows that is all a part of the past, while he is your present.
Once you meet your soulmate, he won’t drag your emotional baggage into your relationship, trying to force you to tell him all the details about your ex or making you swear you love him more than you’ve loved any man before him.
4. A sua independência
Homens emocionalmente instáveis fear women they can’t control and manipulate.
Eles têm medo de saber que a namorada escolheu estar com eles, mas que ela pode safar-se sozinha, mesmo que eles se afastem.
They are threatened by women who make it clear that they don’t need them and their life won’t end if they abandon them.
Women who don’t depend on them emotionally, financially, or in any other way possible.
Nevertheless, when you meet your soulmate, he’ll be proud that you’re uma rapariga autossuficiente who doesn’t need anyone guiding her through life.
He’ll be happy that he found an equal partner and not some immature brat who will look at him as a father figure.
5. O seu sucesso
Your soulmate will never try to bring you down. He will never try to undermine your successes, and he’ll never even think of sabotaging you on your way up.
Em vez disso, ele encorajará e apoiará os seus objectivos e empurrá-lo-á para a frente com toda a força que tem.
Ele será o vento para as vossas asas e orgulhar-se-á de cada marco passas.
6. Os teus amigos
I’m sure you’ve already dealt with guys who are jealous of your friends (and I’m talking about your amigos homens aqui em particular).
With guys who can’t stand having to share you with someone else and who want to become your everything as soon as you meet them.
If you have, you probably know how toxic this is. You’re aware that this is not a sign of a cute jealousy, it is them wanting to control you as much as possible and try to make you lose everyone who might open your eyes about their behavior.
Pelo contrário, a sua alma gémea nunca terá medo dos seus amigos.
He’ll know that you love him and them in completely different ways and he’ll never try to take their place.
7. As suas emoções
How many times have you heard a guy telling you that you’re too much for him to handle?
That your love burdens him and that you’re suffocating him with your emotions?
Quantas vezes um rapaz fugiu de ti assim que percebeu que estavas a sentir algo por ele?
Bem, podes esquecer tudo isso quando conheceres a pessoa certa.
Instead of being scared of the amount of love you’re showering him with, he’ll see how lucky he is for having such a girl who cares for him with all of her heart.
