Lembre-se disto se foi traído por quem jurou que nunca o faria

Alguma vez esteve traído por alguém que amava de todo o coração? Alguma vez foi magoado por uma pessoa que prometeu e jurou nunca o trair?

Eu sei, é uma treta ser traído by the only person you were completely sure would never hurt you. I think it’s the worst feeling ever.

It bruises your soul, wounds your heart… In a way, it leaves some marks that change you completely and forever.

Deixa-nos com medo de que a mesma coisa possa voltar a acontecer, que outras pessoas nos magoem da mesma forma.

Abala a nossa fé nas pessoas e faz-nos pensar em como nunca mais devemos permitir que alguém se aproxime demasiado de nós.

However, if a person you love the most betrays you, you must be stronger than that and rise above it. The only way you’ll succeed is if you remember these following things.

It’s never your fault

That person will probably try to manipulate you into thinking how it was all your mistake, but you must remember that it’s not. It can’t be your mistake.

Confiaste em alguém que amavas de todo o coração e que te fez pensar que nunca faria nada que te pudesse magoar.

That person broke their own words and that’s their mistake for which they’ll repent of later, trust me.

Accept that some people aren’t who they seem to be…

There are so many great, Oscar-worthy actors amongst us. Many people aren’t what they seem and we have to be careful all the time.

No matter how much you trust someone, don’t forget that there is always a risk of being hurt by that person. Sometimes, you can even spend years with a person and find out that they aren’t what they seem like at all.

… Fortunately, those kinds of people aren’t meant to stay in your life

No entanto, é também um sinal de Deus de que o tipo de pessoas que nos magoam dessa forma nunca foi feito para ficar na nossa vida para sempre.

Essa pessoa estava lá como um transeunte aleatório que estava destinado a entrar na sua vida, dar-lhe uma lição e deixá-la para sempre.

Stop seeking revenge, that won’t help you

Neste momento, pode estar a conspirar um ato de vingança. Pensamos em como isso nos fará sentir melhor e seguimos em frente mais depressa.

I hate to break it down for you, but seeking vengeance won’t help you. It’ll only deepen your pain and you’ll probably regret doing it later.

You aren’t like that person who hurt you. You have a pure heart unlike them and that is preventing you from hurting them.

Transforme-o numa lição valiosa e aprenda algo com ele

Look at it all as a huge lesson. Try to see that person as God’s way of making you learn that you mustn’t trust people easily.

É a maneira de Ele te mostrar que, apesar de nunca seres capaz de magoar alguém intencionalmente, há outras pessoas que o fariam.

It’s just His way of saying that person isn’t good for you and making you realize that you need to remove that person from your life once and for all.

Don’t lose faith in good people

This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t trust anyone else ever again. That would be a huge mistake because there are still so many good and honorable people.

There are still people who deserve to be trusted completely, people with good and kind hearts who could never hurt another human being. People like you…

Believe in yourself; you’re strong, you’ll heal

You might be thinking right now how you’ll never be able to overcome this. I know it’s so difficult to understand.

Sei como é difícil fazer com que o nosso coração compreenda que a pessoa que o partiu era, na verdade, aquela por quem ele batia.

But, with time and with faith in yourself, you’ll be able to move on. You’ll never be able to fully heal, but that’s okay because it’ll serve you as a great reminder for the future.

Despeja o teu coração ao teu melhor amigo

You shouldn’t go through it alone. Find a shoulder to cry on because there will be a lot of tears for sure. And, there should be because I know how much it hurts.

Fale com o seu melhor amigo or a person you trust the most. That will be the best healing therapy. There are still so many people who deserve to be in your life, and they’ll show you that you aren’t alone in all of this.

Eles nunca permitirão que passe por isso sozinho.

Perdoar para esquecer

This may not seem as simple as it sounds, but in fact, it is. You’ll never be able to forget and leave it all behind until you perdoar essa pessoa.

Remember, you aren’t doing it because of them, you’re doing it to get the closure you long for. You’re doing it to close that chapter and to finally move on with a new, so much better chapter of your life.