23 sinais seguros de que um rapaz tímido gosta de ti (e como o ajudar a abrir-se)

Procurando sinais de tímido o rapaz gosta de si mas tem demasiado medo de o admitir? Welcome aboard. Today you’ll learn all you need to know about their unique mindset, how they express their affection, and how to help them abrirPor isso, fique atento!

Enquanto há mulheres que descartam completamente a ideia de sair com um rapaz tímido, há aquelas que vêem algo de único e atrativo no seu silêncio.

Shy guys have that sense of mystery that makes women fall for them. The ‘only’ trouble is:

Como saber se um rapaz tímido gosta de si e quais são esses sinais subtis a tímido o homem gosta de si?

It won’t be easy because as much as you like mystery, you would prefer to know where you stand with him at some point.

Esteja um passo à frente dele e desperte o sedutor que há dentro dele com Scripts de paixão.

He will be sending you mixed signals that will involve you in this guessing game that’s symbolically called ‘ele gosta de mim—he likes me not’.

Isso está destinado a acontecer porque ele colocou-a num pedestal. Para ele, és uma deusa entre as pessoas.

So don’t blame him for lacking the confidence to approach you and ask you out. He will get there. He just needs more time.

Now that you have some quick insight into what being with a shy guy is really about, it’s time to answer the question we started with.

Como saber se um rapaz tímido gosta de si em segredo?

You know a shy guy likes you if his face lights up every time he sees you, if he’s nervous around you and if he tries hard to impress you.

Estes são apenas alguns dos sinais de que um rapaz tímido gosta de siA maneira mais fácil de obter a resposta é passar por TODAS as sinais de que ele gosta de ti mais do que uma amiga but he’s trying not to show it! (You’ll find these signs below.)

After all the signs, you will probably want to know what to do about it and how to act. So, just keep reading and you’ll find all the tips and tricks that will help you to get him to open up to you and admit he indeed is a cair por si.

Recomendo ESTE GUIA to make sure you understand his signals and you don’t waste an opportunity to have this kind of guy by your side.

Sinais claros de que um cara tímido gosta de você, mas está tentando não demonstrar

You can feel his eyes on you when you’re not looking

It’s tough to tell when a shy person is flirting with you (or at least trying to) because they have their own subtle forma de mostrar interesse e afeto.

Em vez de estabelecer contacto visual Tal como a maioria dos homens extrovertidos e confiantes, os homens tímidos preferem ficar numa zona segura onde podem observá-lo sem serem notados.

So, if you notice that every time you look at him, he looks away, it means he doesn’t want to be caught in the act of admiring your presence or checking you out.

He knows his look would give him away and he’s not quite ready for you to know that.

A shy man simply can’t risk letting you know that ele tem um fraquinho por ti but at the same time, he can’t help but look at you and admire you (from a safe distance).

He just needs more time and reassurance to gather the courage to finally talk to you face-to-face instead of hiding his affection by pretending that he’s not noticing you. The truth is, he can neither stop looking at you nor stop thinking about you!

RELACIONADO: 25 Sinais de que ele tem medo do quanto gosta de você (sem perceber)

A cara dele ilumina-se sempre que se entra na sala

If you want to know whether a shy guy likes you, you need to pay attention to his body language and all those little things he does subconsciously – that’s where os sinais mais poderosos da química estão a esconder-se.

He likes you so much that he can’t help but smile every time he sees you. It might be a shy smile but it’s definitely one of the telltale signs a shy guy likes you A LOT!

Ele também começará a agir de forma diferente quando o vir.

He won’t know who he is or where he is headed but his smile will radiate all the happiness he feels from within because he’s so overwhelmed with emotions by simply seeing you.

And if he’s with his good friends, pay close attention to whether they’re teasing him because the chances are that they have also noticed that he’s acting differently in your presence.

Ele abre a boca para falar consigo, mas as palavras não conseguem sair

This is the most flattering sign of all. It means that you leave him speechless. He gets so intimidated by your presence that he’s unable to produce a meaningful word, let alone engage in small talk.

Ele pode estar a morrer por dentro para provar isso he’s a nice guy e o quanto ele gosta de si, mas as palavras simplesmente não conseguem sair.

He’s worried that he’ll only mess things up, so his mind subconsciously chooses silence as an alternative to talking. His mind and words freeze in the moment.

And that’s why he treats you differently than he does others. He either manages to stutter a hello and smile charmingly or goes completely mute on you.

Either way, don’t laugh at him for doing that as he’s probably just very, very nervous around you because he likes you that much!

Relacionadas: Como saber se um homem se sente atraído por si?

Quando ele finalmente fala, as suas frases podem não fazer muito sentido

Introverts and shy guys get very self-conscious around someone they like, which is no surprise because they see a goddess in you, and who wouldn’t be intimidated by that?

É por isso que, quando ele finalmente fala, pode gaguejar e produzir frases inarticuladas que soam como simples balbucios. Pode até ficar com a língua presa. De qualquer forma, isto é um bom sinal.

Se ele fizer isso, então sabe he’s totally crazy about you! And don’t worry, it will not stay like this forever.

Lembre-se de ser brando com ele e as coisas melhorarão significativamente quando ele a conhecer melhor e começar a sentir-se mais descontraído ao seu lado.

If you want to make it easier for him, you can pretend that you’re also a little bit shy, just to laugh it off and create a more relaxed atmosphere.

Whatever you decide to do, just don’t be too direct and dominant because this will only make it worse.

He’s clumsy

Um dos maiores sinais de que um rapaz tímido gosta de si é quando ele começa a ser mais desajeitado ao pé de si.

It’s because his mind goes completely blank when he sees you. He is just unable to act like his true self when you are in mere proximity.

Por isso, tropeça e cai. Derrama café, sumo, água ou basicamente qualquer outra coisa que possa ser derramada.

He hurts himself by bumping into things that are in his way. He’s so clumsy that it makes him so damn cute. (I bet he’s even cuter now that you know that you are the main cause of his clumsiness.)

And do you know what’s even cuter?

Quando uma rapariga tímida gosta um tipo tímido, eles Ambos se entregam a sessões desajeitadas e criam aquela atmosfera misteriosa e excitante onde se pode esperar que tudo aconteça.

If that’s the case with you, don’t worry that you’ll look weird because the only possible outcome of the situation is ‘cuteness overload’.

Ele ouve-nos mesmo quando mais ninguém o faz

How to know if a shy guy likes you? If he’s a damn good listener, then you know he’s crazy about you!

Sometimes in larger groups, not everyone’s voice is heard but he will never leave you talking to a wall.

Ele silenciará todas as outras vozes na sala e ouvirá a sua, embora possa nem sequer estar de frente para si ou possa fingir que a sua mente está noutro lugar.

He also might respond instantly so you know he’s paying attention. He will never ignore you, under any circumstances.

Podiam falar da vossa vida amorosa, Signos do zodíacoou os seus romances de liceu, ele vai ouvi-lo com atenção, independentemente do tema em questão.

Os seus pensamentos são relevantes e ele quer conhecê-lo melhor!

Os teus amigos tornar-se-ão amigos dele

Para ele, é muito mais fácil falar com pessoas que são importantes para si do que falar consigo, por isso é provável que queira fazer amizade com os seus amigos.

He will get close to them mainly to be close to you but also because he likes them. He doesn’t like being around people who give him a bad vibe.

He won’t only do it for you. He has a hard enough time dealing with his shy nature to be around people who make it worse.

Ser amigo dos seus amigos é uma óptima forma de passar tempo consigo sem ter de o convidar para um encontro a sério.

Ele também quer que eles gostem dele porque podem dar uma boa palavra. Ele sabe que eles estão perto do seu coração e que as suas opiniões são importantes.

Once he’s comfortable around you, he will start confiding in you

Being open isn’t one of his strong suits. He’s afraid that you might not like what he has to tell you, that you’ll judge his personality, behavior and similar.

That’s exactly why he’ll need more time to tell you everything about him and how he feels about you.

Opening up and trusting you with his secrets will scare him and it will be a ‘mission impossible’ for a longer period of time.

So if he managed to get to this point, make sure he knows you value that. Keep in mind that it’s not easy to be vulnerable to anybody really.

By letting you into his world, he’s showing you how much he cares about you and how much he’s head over heels in love with you.

Ele tem ciúmes de outros homens que conversam consigo

He would prefer if you didn’t talk about any other man, let alone give them your attention. That’s also one of the true signs a shy guy likes you a lot.

It’s not that dangerous kind of jealousy that makes him want to trap you in a dungeon; this type of jealousy is more related to his falta de confiança.

Assim ele fica com ciúmes de outro homem que está cheio de confiança e não tem problemas em falar consigo ou convidá-la para sair.

Ele guarda estes pensamentos e sentimentos dentro de si, mas vai notar como o seu comportamento muda quando fala de outro homem.

He will instinctively change his expression and try to change the topic. He is aware of his poor communication skills but it’s not something that is easy to change.

So, don’t make him jealous on purpose as it will make things worse. If things just happen then that’s OK.

Mas se ele vir que está a provocar os seus ciúmes de propósito, a sua atitude e a impressão geral que tem de si vão mudar.

Ele quer conhecer os seus gostos e aversões

Ele quer saber se têm alguns interesses em comum, para que possam criar laços mais facilmente. É provável que queira ouvir as suas opiniões sobre tudo.

Poderá perguntar-lhe que tipo de filmes gosta em geral, as suas preferências em termos de música, desporto e natureza, os seus passatempos e tudo o que ele gosta e pensa que você também gostaria dessa lista.

Se partilharem a maior parte das coisas da lista, ele ficará contente porque, para ele, isso significa que podem passar bons momentos juntos.

After he’s collected all of the info about your likes and dislikes, he will continue creating your imaginary profile in his head.

He will take it a step further and start imagining that you’re doing all those things together until he finally gathers the courage to ask you out. He’ll apaixonar-se consigo mais cedo do que espera.

(So, instead of waiting for him, it wouldn’t be a bad thing if you casually asked him to see a movie or do some other activity you both like.)

A Internet é a sua zona de comunicação segura

Being behind a screen gives him more confidence so he doesn’t hesitate to reach you from there. The Internet provides him with the sense of safety he requires to be more comfortable.

Ele terá mais facilidade enviar mensagens consigo online do que falar cara a cara em pessoa.

Até se pode prever que isto vai acontecer, porque passar tempo atrás de um ecrã está totalmente dentro do seu carácter.

But don’t get scared. He won’t text 24/7 because he doesn’t want to come off as boring. His main goal is to communicate with you and not suffocate you.

Os amigos dele gozam com o facto de ele gostar de si

Lembra-se daquelas cenas de filmes em que o resto da equipa goza com um tipo tímido por causa da sua esmagamento quem está nas proximidades? Pode acontecer-lhe a mesma coisa.

O seu melhores amigos will purposely tease him so you can hear them. They know he doesn’t have the nerve to do it himself so they consider it like giving him a little push in the right direction.

Mesmo que isso vos deixe desconfortáveis, no final do dia vão perceber que há muita verdade nessas palavras inofensivas.

A intenção é boa, mesmo que isso o faça ficar ainda mais calado ou dizer qualquer coisa parva para se defender. Ele vai ficar corado como um menino bonito.

Ele é muito protetor de si

Um dos principais sinais de que um rapaz tímido gosta de si é o facto de ele se esforçar por a proteger. Ele protege-a e protege-a mesmo que isso signifique sair da sua zona de conforto.

He won’t allow anybody to pick on you and he is more tolerant of the things people do to him than he is about the things they do to you.

Just because he’s quiet and keeps his thoughts to himself doesn’t mean that he doesn’t know how to speak up when he has to.

He acts as one of your protective guy friends even though he’s secretly dying to be something more to you.

He does this unconsciously but it shows how much he cares and that he will be there for you no matter what! (Please, don’t zona de amigos ele).

A tua palavra é sagrada

He basically agrees with everything you have to say. The thing with shy guys is that they’re convinced if their preferences resemble other people’s preferences, they will be liked for it in return.

He really wants to show you that he’s on the same page as you are, so he goes a bit overboard in doing so.

For example, if you say you like Grey’s Anatomy, he will say he likes it too and if you say you like Ed Sheeran, he will say he has his songs on repeat.

Se disser que gosta de viajar, ele conta os sítios que já visitou e depois diz-lhe os que ainda quer ver. Já percebeste a ideia: ele gosta de tudo o que tu gostas.

Ele tem dificuldade em fixar o olhar em si

He’s just too shy to look you straight in the eyes, so his gaze always goes downward. Yup, that’s also one of the signs that a shy guy likes you and that ele quer beijar-te.

It almost makes him seem untrustworthy but it’s all because he’s self-conscious around you. A sua linguagem corporal vai denunciá-lo.

He won’t be able to stand still and he will constantly move his feet or fidget his fingers and he will lean toward you and then pull back again.

He will try to calm himself but he probably won’t succeed. It’s normal that he’s this nervous.

For starters, it’s in his nature. And the other thing is he’s feeling uncomfortable because he puts you on a pedestal and he is unsure of himself.

Pode até sentir-se indigno de si (até que lhe prove o contrário).

Ele lembra-se de tudo o que disseste ou fizeste

His infatuation with you can make him look like he’s obsessing over you but in reality, he’s just paying close attention because he likes you more than words can say.

It would probably surprise you to know that he knows something you said a long time ago even though you yourself don’t remember saying it.

There’s no doubt that he will remember your favorite book, kind of chocolate, restaurants or TV shows even if you don’t recall ever telling him.

It’s clear that he’s interested in you and he has an eye for detail. It’s one of the most obvious signs that he likes you!

Despite all the affection, he’s reluctant to make a move

This is the most frustrating of all the signs. Wouldn’t it be easier if he just got up the courage to convidar-te para sair?

It would be easier for a regular everyday guy but for him, it’s an issue, so bear with him. Have patience because he doesn’t just look mysterious, he is indeed mysterious and full of surprises.

I promise you that he’ll sweep you off your feet if he is given a chance! His behavior also leaves you reluctant because you don’t know if you’re misreading the signs.

Ele gosta de si ou não? Ele só está a tentar ser amigável ou há mais do que isso?

It’s really getting on your nerves but at the same time, at least you’re sure you like him. You see in him something nobody else does, something that he doesn’t even see himself.

Maybe the best approach here would be for you to ask him out anyway, so you would at least know where you stand. It doesn’t have to be anything major, it could just be a casual coffee for starters.

Além disso, não se esqueça de verificar as dicas e os truques que irão ajudá-lo a abrir-se para si! (You’ll find them below.)

Como é que os tímidos namoriscam?

The truth is, shy guys don’t flirt that much but when they do, they do it in a subtle way like showering you with likes, being at your service and trying hard to impress you.

Aqui estão alguns exemplos de como os tímidos namoriscam:

He’s there to be at your service

It’s not that you want him to be or that you ever asked him for anything but he always goes out of his way to please you.

Ele distingue-te sempre dos outros. Nunca se excede por mais ninguém a não ser por ti.

He brings you coffee. He remembers your favorite cupcakes, so he secretly leaves them at your work desk or in front of your front door. If you say you need help with something, he’s already on it.

A sua imaginação é louca, por isso faz todo o tipo de pequenas coisas e presta atenção aos pequenos pormenores para demonstrar o seu afeto.

And that is when you start asking yourself: Does he like you? You’re not sure whether he’s just being helpful and friendly or if there’s more to it.

Bem, saiba que ele gosta MUITO de si e que prefere mostrá-lo do que dizê-lo.

It comes easier to him and there’s a certain amount of charm in that. And remember, actions speak louder than words ever will!

He’s interested in your mind

A forma como pensa impressiona-o. Ele está sempre a fazer-lhe muitas perguntas sobre isto e aquilo.

Your conversations go from simple chatting to brain-picking topics in a matter of moments. He’s interested to hear your opinions about things relevant to his life and your opinion means the world to him.

Ele quer crescer e expandir os seus horizontes consigo. He values different perspectives and he’s genuinely interested in what other people have to say.

He’s in a constant search of improvement even though he never makes it obvious. He also wants to know where you stand on certain topics, like if you share similar core values and interests.

Asking questions is his way of making sure that you are compatible. Also, it’s his way of impressing you with his intelligence by asking you lots of perguntas estimulantes.

So if you notice that he’s all of a sudden asking you tons of questions and trying hard to manter uma conversa, you know that he’s totally into you!

Esforçar-se-á por fazer actividades sociais

Being a shy guy, socializing isn’t really his thing but if it means seeing you, he will do it anyways. He has a tight circle of close friends and he’s making an effort para espalhar esse círculo por vossa causa.

You know that a shy guy is crazy about you when he’s ready to do all these social things that have become the norm: sair para beber um copo, ir ao cinema, sair com os amigos, ou algo semelhante.

You have to keep in mind that socializing is the last thing he wants to do with anyone, let alone with someone he’s really crazy about. (It’s more awkward and there’s more pressure when it comes to impressing you).

E se ele, apesar de tudo isso, decidir passar algum tempo consigo fora da sua zona de conforto (atrás de um ecrã ou em casa dele), sabe que ele gosta mesmo de si. Ele faria qualquer coisa por si se isso significasse estar na sua presença!

Ele vai encher-te de gostos

Provavelmente, ele passou a pente fino as suas contas nas redes sociais do princípio ao fim. Por isso, é provável que, acidentalmente ou de propósito, goste de uma fotografia que publicou há três anos ou algo ainda mais antigo.

Isto significa que he’s totally interested in youO seu passado e tudo sobre si e as redes sociais ajudam-no a explorar coisas sobre si.

Ele também vai gostar de tudo o que publicar no Facebook, no Instagram, no Twitter ou em qualquer outra rede social, porque gosta de tudo sobre si.

It’s also his way of showing support by liking posts that could even be solely female-oriented. It can be a bit weird or even a bit over the top but pressing the like button is all he can do to show you his intentions, at least for now.

After all, for a shy guy, it’s ten times easier to press the like button than to tell you that he likes you in person, or God forbid flirt with you in person.

Ele vai esforçar-se demasiado para a impressionar

If a guy likes you, he’ll give his best to impressionar-vos. Um rapaz tímido fá-lo-á mesmo que isso signifique que provavelmente fará figura de parvo ao fazê-lo. Um rapaz tímido sabe que qualquer tipo de comunicação é melhor do que nenhuma.

His monologues will sound rehearsed and that’s because they probably are but who can blame him for that, right? The poor guy is trying and doing his best to get it out in his own way.

Utilizará piadas pirosas, exagerará ao contar uma história ou algo semelhante apenas para captar e manter o seu interesse.

Vê-se exatamente o que ele está a fazer; ele faz tudo o que está ao seu alcance para a impressionar porque gosta mesmo de si. Gosta muito de si!

Ele pode até mudar a sua aparência

Um rapaz tímido faria qualquer coisa para que reparasse nele, por isso pode começar a vestir-se de forma diferente ou mudar o penteado.

Ele vai ouvir atentamente quando falar, mesmo com as suas amigas, por isso pode ter mencionado que algo lhe parece bom ou ter reparado nos seus gostos nas redes sociais.

Seja o que for, certifique-se de que fazer-lhe um elogio, as it will boost his self-esteem. You have to appreciate his efforts to look his best. (After all, it’s for your eyes only.)

Como ajudá-lo a abrir-se para si

If the majority of the signs above are telling you that your special, shy guy likes you, then it’s time to do something about it, right?

We’ve already established that it’s really difficult to read the signs and all the mixed signals he’s sending. It’s even more difficult to be patient and know the right ways to deal with him.

Mas nem toda a esperança está perdida! As dicas e os truques seguintes vão ajudá-la a conseguir que ele se abra consigo num instante!

Arme-se de paciência

I already said it but I can’t stress it enough. It’s not about who gets the girl first, it’s about who treats the woman right.

A shy guy has more potential to be a better boyfriend because he is more attentive and he’s willing to invest in you.

The loudest guy in the room will get your attention more easily but it’s a risky business giving him your heart.

Como disse no início, ele está mais preocupado com o que pode fazer por ele do que com a igualdade ou com a a mútua esforços colocados na relação.

Para tornar o processo de espera mais fácil para si, mantenha os olhos no prémio, porque tem consciência de quão precioso é o seu rapaz tímido. Ele valerá a pena esperar!

Prestar atenção aos sinais

You have carefully studied all the signs in these words that a shy guy likes you and if you’re able to find your situation in them, then you’re on the right track. I bet those mixed signals have started to make a lot more sense.

Maybe you discovered some more signs that are not mentioned here or maybe you’ll discover them in the near future as time progresses.

All in all, whenever you feel confused and like you’re going crazy from all that mystery and those confusing emotions, try to focus just on the signs.

If it will help, create a list of all the signs that you’ve noticed him displaying.

Por isso, sempre que precisar de se tranquilizar quanto à sua situação, basta lembrar-se de todos esses sinais que lhe facilitarão a respiração.

Isto recordar-lhe-á sempre a razão pela qual ele faz as coisas que faz e evitar-lhe-á pensar demais.

Um sorriso significa muito

If you want to make your special shy guy’s day, the only thing you need to do is smile. A smile is a universal sign of vibrações positivas, amor e boas intenções.

Um simples sorriso tem a força de fazer uma pessoa sentir-se dez vezes melhor num segundo e esquecer tudo o que a incomoda.

So, gift him with a smile from time to time. It won’t take much from you but it will mean everything to him.

Ele também pode estar à procura de sinais seus e um sorriso irá certamente aumentar a sua autoestima. Seja grato porque tem alguém cujo dia pode melhorar com um simples sorriso.

Let him know you’re listening

Given that shy guys have difficulties opening up and talking about anything, it’s our holy duty to encourage them a little bit.

Por isso, preste sempre atenção às palavras dele quando ele fala! Ele pode não dizer muito, mas se tiver toda a sua atenção, pode ser encorajado a falar mais.

He doesn’t want to come off as annoying or someone you don’t like talking to, which is why he thinks about every single word before he says it aloud.

Infelizmente, os seus nervos e pensamentos ansiosos pode até fazer com que essas palavras saiam erradas, mas saiba que as suas intenções não são mais do que puras.

Se continuar a ouvi-lo e lhe der tempo e espaço para falar consigo, a verdadeira conversa surgirá naturalmente mais cedo do que esperava!

Evitar fazer-se de difícil

Quando nos sentimos frustradas com um homem e os seus sinais contraditórios, é natural que comecemos a jogar duro para conseguir e ignorá-lo.

We’re convinced that it is the only way to make him want us more and to fazê-lo perseguir-nos. Embora isto possa funcionar com outros tipos normais, com um tipo tímido só vai criar um efeito contrário.

Se ignorar um rapaz tímido, isso fará com que ele se afaste ainda mais. Lembre-se, ele não é um jogador.

Ignoring him won’t make him chase you, it will do the opposite. He’s completely different from anybody you have ever met.

Go easy on him and don’t be scared to show subtle signs that you are into him. It will make him move quicker!

Formar uma amizade

Peça-lhe a sua opinião sobre isto e aquilo ou convide-o para sair casualmente com os amigos.

Nas primeiras vezes, pode levar alguém consigo, um amigo seu ou um amigo comum, para tornar as coisas um pouco menos tensas ou desconfortáveis.

Crie um ambiente seguro onde ele se sinta em casa, pois isso fá-lo-á sentir-se mais relaxado e poderá vislumbrar o homem que ele realmente é por detrás de toda a timidez.

No momento em que ele começar a sentir-se confortável e descontraído na sua companhia, começará a mostrar as suas verdadeiras cores e verá que valeu a pena todo o esforço e espera!

Convide-o você mesmo para sair

You have nothing to lose. The worst-case scenario is him telling you, “No.”

He will make up some excuse because he wasn’t ready for such a question and then you will both go on with your lives until he gathers up the courage and asks you out in a week or two, with an explanation as to why he couldn’t go earlier.

And even if he doesn’t do that, you will sleep better knowing that you tried and that his shyness got the better of him.

Now, the best-case scenario is that you will fall into the romance of your life and that’s definitely worth the risk!

Don’t try to change him

He’s perfect the way he is. Your mission is not to fix him, he just needs a bit of support and encouragement from your side to fazer um movimento (if you don’t do it for him).

He’s aware that him being so self-conscious and not the best communicator are his greatest flaws. He has to work on them himself.

Se ele já começou a dar algum dos sinais acima, saiba que ele tem potencial para atingir o objetivo de ser mais confiante e conseguir a rapariga de que gosta.

Tudo o que ele precisa é de algum espaço e tempo, por isso certifique-se de que lhe dá sempre isso.

Com o tempo, ele começará a sentir-se mais confiante e descobrirá uma verdadeira joia que esteve escondida na sua timidez durante todo este tempo.

Mostrar afeto

Se quer criar o vento sob as asas dele que o fará voar para os seus braços, certifique-se de que lhe mostra afeto e demonstra, de forma subtil, que gosta dele.

Isto ajudá-lo-á a dar o primeiro passo.

Surprise him by giving him something he was talking about or something he’s so passionate about. Elogiá-lo sempre que tiver a oportunidade de o fazer.

Touch him subtly while talking to him and laugh at his jokes. All of these gestures will show him that you’re listening to him and that you’re genuinely interested in him.

Fará com que ele se sinta apreciado, desejado e respeitado, que é exatamente o que um rapaz tímido precisa para iniciar o processo de se transformar numa borboleta única.

Manter a sua confiança

Este é provavelmente um dos melhores conselhos para encontros quando se trata de rapazes tímidos:

Se um rapaz tímido lhe disser algo em confidência, nunca traia a sua confiança contando tudo aos seus amigos ou a outras pessoas!

Todos os especialistas em relações lhe dirão o mesmo. Tenha em mente que ele valoriza a honestidade acima de tudo e ficará feliz por saber que os seus segredos estão seguros consigo.

So if he has told you something in confidence, don’t spread it around and avoid mentioning it to anybody. He needs to know that he can rely on you.

Se traíres a sua confiança, he will never be ready to open up again to you out of the fear that you’ll share his thoughts with the rest of the world just like you did the last time.

Always keep his trust no matter what and he’ll appreciate you and like you even more!

Ver também: 15 sinais de que um autista gosta de si (+dicas para sair com ele)

Considerações finais

I sincerely hope you got your answer to ‘How to tell if a shy guy likes you?’ and that you understand better all those sinais de que um rapaz tímido gosta de si.

If you read it carefully, you must’ve caught the fact that he has more good things to bring to the table.

His flaws don’t define him. He’s aware of them and doing his best to grow and be more than his shyness.

Maybe there is a reason for his shyness, maybe life has treated him unfairly. Maybe he opened up and trusted people one too many times even when he shouldn’t have done so.

Provavelmente, até era um pouco tímido, mas se a sua confiança ou o seu coração foi partido antesTornava ainda mais difícil para ele confiar nos outros. Tornava mais difícil para ele aproximar-se de alguém ou permitir-se sentir algo por alguém.

There are a lot of maybes and what-ifs when it comes to him. He’s a real jigsaw puzzle. But when he finally sees that he can trust you, that puzzle will gradually start solving itself on its own. And you will probably like him even more!