Ele quebrou-te mas vais recuperar a tua faísca
Quando alguém que significava o mundo para nós se vai embora, toda a gente pensa que o despedaçar do nosso coração é o que dói mais.
I won’t lie to you—having it crushed into millions of pieces is devastating and painful and often looks like the biggest disaster of all time.
No início, o choque inicial entorpece-nos.
You’re in denial and refuse to accept that something like this has happened.
Recusa-se a encarar as partes do seu coração que precisa de reconstruir e assume que a supressão das suas emoções o fará sentir-se melhor.
However, after a little while, all the pain hits you and to put it mildly, it starts to feel like you’ve been stabbed in the stomach.
It’s almost like you’re going through physical pain that prevents you from breathing properly and which you can’t explain.
You know you’re safe and sound but you feel dead on the inside.
Naturalmente, pensamos que este sentimento nunca irá desaparecer.
You assume that you’ll spend the rest of your life walking around with this incredibly heavy rock in your gut and that every morning you wake up will be just a new agony.
No entanto, tdor passa, mais cedo ou mais tarde. Passa-se por algumas fases diferentes que terminam com a aceitação e, mais cedo ou mais tarde, o desgosto deixa de ser a única coisa em que se consegue pensar.
Of course, this doesn’t happen overnight, since it is a process that takes a lot of effort and energy. Nevertheless, eventually, time does its magic and it stitches your broken heart.
Dá-se passos de bebé e, passado algum tempo, aprende-se a respirar de novo. Apanha-se a sorrir e surge a esperança.
You think that this is it—you’re officially saved. Your o coração partido é curado and you’re good to go.
Well, sadly, things don’t work that way. Because what hurts more than a shattered heart is the consequences this awful experience leaves on you.
That is exactly what happened to you. This man didn’t just break your heart—he broke you as well.
Ele mudou a pessoa que eras antes de o conheceres. Ele matou a rapariga inocente e ingénua que acreditava nas pessoas e que tinha fé no amor.
Ele fez desaparecer a verdadeira pessoa e substituiu-a por esta mulher amarga, negativa e cínica que não confia em ninguém.
He erased the girl who followed her heart’s lead no matter what and instead, brought about a disappointed, guarded and overly careful woman who is trying her best to shut off her emotions because she is medo do amor.
Most importantly—ele tirou-te o brilho. Matou o seu espírito e destruiu o seu otimismo e entusiasmo.
Este homem transformou-te num morto-vivo.
A dada altura, deixámos de viver e passámos a existir e há uma enorme diferença entre as duas coisas.
Let’s be honest—when was the last time you caught yourself being truly happy, without any specific reason?
Qual foi a última vez que coisas simples como dar um mergulho no mar ou ver um pôr do sol incrível o emocionaram?
You can’t remember, right? Well, that’s exactly what I’m talking about.
No entanto, even though you accepted the new you, I’m here to tell you that things won’t always be like this.
Prometo-vos que um dia destes, a tua faísca voltará. Ele virá inesperadamente, baterá à sua porta e nunca mais o abandonará.
Don’t push yourself too hard and give yourself enough time to completely heal but remember that this will pass, the same way your heartbreak did.
You didn’t perder-se forever and you’ll get the girl you used to be back. Just be patient and don’t think about giving up just yet.
I won’t lie to you—the scars on your soul will remain there forever.
Servirão para vos recordar as batalhas por que passaram e, mais importante ainda, como uma memória da forma como conseguiram sobreviver.
No entanto, you’ll manage to pick up the broken pieces of yourself and glue yourself back together.
You’ll succeed in rebuilding yourself to make an even stronger, updated version of the girl you once were.
E sabem porquê? Porque no matter what happens, what you go through or what some evil people do to you, you’re never broken beyond repair.
