Cómo besar a un hombre para volverlo loco por ti
¿Cómo besar a un hombre para volverlo loco y hacer que quiera más? ¡Estas técnicas de besos te convertirán en la auténtica diosa de los besos!
Todo empieza con un beso. Cuando se trata de comunicar lo que sentís el uno por el otro, diréis más con besos que con palabras.
Kisses form a bond between two people and make them more connected, not just in the literal sense of the word, but kisses also build up a couple’s atracción emocional.
And though everybody’s kissing style and preferences differ, there are some universal tips for kissing that can improve your performance and make everything better.
Hay 10 maneras de besar a un hombre y volverlo ABSOLUTA y TOTALMENTE loco por ti.
How To Kiss A Man So He’ll Never Forget You: 10 Kissing Tips
Make sure you’re (adequately) prepared
Existen diferentes tipos de besos. There are “greeting” kisses, spontaneous kisses, and the ones that you expect to happen. If you’re planning for a make-out session that will lead to lots of kissing (and something more), you need to make sure that you’re prepared for it.
Huele bien en TODO tu cuerpo
Besar implica las sensaciones del tacto, el gusto y el olfato. Oler bien todo tu cuerpo es imprescindible si quieres potenciar esas sensaciones (y volverlo LOCO).
- Añade un poco de loción para que tu piel esté suave al tacto y huela bien.
If you’re looking for a healthier and better alternative, I suggest using coconut oil. I’ve had a special bond with this oil for years now and every time a guy touches my skin, they express amazement at how smooth it is.
- Ponte desodorante y perfume (no demasiado).
Lots of women overdo when it comes to applying perfume (including myself as well). I’ve realized when I’m feeling anxious about the first date with a guy, I lose my sense of smell and apply a little bit too much perfume.
Remember that less is more because you certainly don’t want to suffocate your guy with an intense scent while kissing, right? Also, if you’re not sure which scent is best, I suggest vanilla-based perfumes because they’re soft, sweet, and feminine (and the majority of men are CRAZY about it).
- Don’t forget to prep your breath
Lávate los dientes y usa un enjuague bucal con sabor a menta. Además, ten en cuenta que tener mal aliento es mucho peor que besar mal. Cada buen besador lo sabe.
Prepara tus labios
Make sure your lips are soft and kissable. To achieve that, use products that “exfoliate” the dead skin cells off your lips OR simply apply some lip balm and rub your lips with an old toothbrush in a gentle manner.
Evita maquillarte demasiado
Many men don’t enjoy kissing a girl who wears too much makeup. One of their biggest concerns is your lipstick smearing all over their face and clothes. So, applying lip balm and avoiding heavy makeup while kissing is usually the best bet.
Dar pistas sutiles o directas
Cómo besar a un hombre, o mejor dicho, ¿cómo conseguir que un chico te bese? Pues bien, hay dos maneras de hacerlo: una indirecta y otra directa.
Una forma indirecta (recomendada)
During the conversation, start paying more attention to his lips instead of his eyes and face. But don’t give him a creepy glance. Be subtle in a seductive way. Glance down to his lips for a few seconds from time to time and wait for him to notice it.
Además, habla más despacio e inclínate más hacia él. En resumen, confía en tu lenguaje corporal y esto hará que ayúdale a dar el primer paso. Once he decodes your intentions, he will start mimicking your body language, and sooner than you know you’ll be locking your lips.
Una forma directa (para los atrevidos)
How to get a guy to kiss you? Well, if he’s one of those men who are too bad at reading between the lines and decoding a woman’s body language, then try something like:
“I’ve had a great time with you today and I’d really like to kiss you ahora mismo. Would that be okay?”
Or, if you’re feeling super-direct, you can try something like: “Hey, wanna make out?”
Usually, guys are crazy about girls who feel confident to initiate things, so I don’t see how you could go wrong with using a direct way if you really like each other.
RELACIONADO: 13 señales inequívocas de que quiere besarte
Utiliza el poder del contacto visual
¿Cómo besar a un chico a la perfección y hacer que se enamore de ti?
Cuando se trata de aprender a besar a un hombre, hay que prestar atención a el poder del contacto visual intenso también. Antes de besarle, mírale a los ojos y espera a que se produzca la magia.
La pasión será tan intensa que cuando empecéis a besaros no podréis parar. Puedes utilizar el poder del contacto visual entre las pausas del beso para intensificar la sesión.
Empezar despacio y con suavidad
Evite hacer una de los mayores errores al besar and that is rushing things. Take it slow; there’s no need to rush things.
Un beso lento y apasionado es diez veces más poderoso que uno apresurado, así que presta atención a eso.
Empieza con besos suaves, disfruta de cada momento y asimílalo todo. Hagas lo que hagas, no pienses demasiado en ello, deja que ocurra por sí solo.
But don’t freeze either. Move from fast to slow, from sweet to passionate, follow his lead and listen to your feelings.
Utiliza tus manos para potenciar las sensaciones
How to kiss a man? Well, don’t focus only on your lips but also use your hands to enhance the feelings (if you know what I mean).
Al usar las manos en la sesión de besos, estás creando vínculos e intensificando las cosas. Todos los receptores de tu cuerpo trabajarán horas extras y la intensidad del beso aumentará.
El contacto físico hará que la experiencia sea más íntima. Puedes pasarle los dedos por el pelo o tocarle suavemente la cara mientras le besas. Puedes usar las manos de muchas formas, solo tienes que ser creativo.
Maestro colocación de la mano al besar and you’ll turn into a real kissing goddess.
Mordiscos suaves
Mejore su juego de besos con mordiscos suaves.
This is something that should be done delicately. You don’t want to hurt him. You want to spark his imagination.
It’s really simple. All you have to do is make little additions to your kissing session.
Mientras os estáis besando, coge suave y ligeramente su labio inferior o superior entre tus dientes, y tira lentamente de él hacia atrás.
It will drive him crazy because this is a huge turn-on. You can be sure that he’ll be hungry for more.
Reglas del beso francés
Cómo dar un beso con lengua ¿Tu hombre? Regardless of whether you’re a newbie at French kissing or a pro, here are some helpful tips to keep in mind:
- Don’t press your lips together too tightly
- Evita abrir demasiado los labios
- Las babas (demasiada saliva) desaniman a la mayoría de la gente.
- Caliéntate con ligeros toques antes del beso con lengua
- Inclínate suavemente hacia el beso
- Place the tip of your tongue into your mouth (don’t overdo it)
- Cambia los movimientos de la lengua (cambia la velocidad y la presión de la lengua)
Más consejos:
Before placing the tip of your tongue into his mouth, you might want to first lick his lips with your tongue. You can also lick the edge of his teeth (if you’re into that). Also, note that some people are fans of wet kisses while the majority aren’t.
There are also those who prefer light tongue type of French kissing while some prefer deep tongue French kissing. We all have our own unique kissing style and preferences so before doing anything, make sure to know your partner’s preferences and if you don’t – go slowly and explore.
Cambia las cosas al besar
Spice up your make-out session with a variety of sensations and touches. Don’t focus only on touching his face but also his neck and other parts of his body.
Also, every good kisser knows that changing your head position is a must. Switch up your tongue movements as well so that you don’t appear uninterested.
Diversity is the key when it comes to kissing so don’t be afraid to experiment with different sensations.
Don’t forget about his sensitive areas
¿Te preguntas dónde les gusta a los hombres que les besen? Men are just as sensitive as women are, but you have to know what will trigger their senses. You shouldn’t focus only on his lips and ignore the other parts of a man’s body. For starters, their ears are one of the most sensitive areas a man has.
Other men’s sensitive zones include his scalp, inner arms, inner wrists, the palm of his hands, fingers, and so on. You can kiss or touch these powerful sensation triggers.
Kiss his nape in a gentle way, whisper into his ear and you’ll turn him in a second! After kissing his lips, you can kiss his jawline or play with his beard with your fingers.
A lot of men wouldn’t admit it, but their stomach is also one of their weak areas. Place kisses and pecks on his stomach, and see how he responds.
Be imaginative and experiment. Also, you shouldn’t forget to use your hands in the most playful ways possible. In ways that will drive him crazy!
Véase también: Un beso en la mejilla - Significados y 12 tipos diferentes de besos
¿Cómo besar a un chico para principiantes?
If you’re a beginner, don’t rush things but go gently and slowly. That way you’ll be less nervous about your kissing sessions.
Feel free to follow the above tips on how to kiss a man. Here are some extra tips for you as well. The most important tip of all is the following one: Don’t overthink things!
La verdad es que tus pensamientos ansiosos son la cosa número uno que puede arruinar tu sesión de besos (incluido un mal alientopor supuesto).
You probably worry about one hundred things at the moment (your head position, hand position, lip and tongue movements, you name it.) Well, the more you worry, the more you’ll think that you have no idea what you’re doing.
Kissing is not quantum physics so there’s nothing you should worry about.
Just go slow, lock your lips and enjoy the sensations. You can massage his lips with yours before going in for a deep kiss. As a matter of fact, you don’t need to rush into a deep kiss if you’re not ready for that yet.
Don’t overthink it but focus on being in the moment and you’ll know exactly what to do.
¿Cómo se besa a alguien por primera vez?
Toca suavemente sus labios con los tuyos. Continúa besándole durante cinco o diez segundos. Acaríciale el pelo, la cara o el cuello con las manos mientras le besas.
“The primer beso can be as terrifying as the last.” – Daina Chaviano
The first kiss is like a prelude to a book. It’s short and descriptive of what’s to come.
Still, don’t judge everything by the first kiss
Don’t worry if the first kiss doesn’t go as you imagined. Sometimes our expectations are not easy to reach, especially when we’ve imagined the kiss a million times in our head before it ever happened.
En lugar de preocuparte por cómo besar a alguien, debes saber que besar es una habilidad en sí misma que mejora con el tiempo y la práctica.
Todos tenemos diferente estilos de besos, and yours and your partner’s might not match right from the start.
That happens often to people, and it’s the most natural occurrence. That’s why the best thing to do is to stop over-analyzing, and start practicing more often. As long as you are into kissing them, everything will be more than ok.
Profundiza tu conexión y haz que tu relación sea perfecta.
¿Cómo besar a mi novio románticamente?
Un beso es un gesto romántico en sí mismo, pero para hacerlo aún más romántico, tienes que mirarle fijamente a los ojos antes de besarle. El contacto visual prolongado intensificará las sensaciones y reforzará vuestro vínculo.
Tras unos segundos de contacto visual intenso, touch his lips softly with yours. You can pause a little bit (to intensify your feelings even more) and then proceed with the kissing session. Don’t forget to stroke his hair, and caress his neck.
You can pause from time and time to get some air and to lock your eyes again. Romantic kissing often turns into steamy kissing after a few minutes. If you stop earlier, you will end your kissing session “on a romantic note”.
Besar, disfrutar, ¡repetir!
Now that you know how to kiss a man and amaze him with your kissing skills, congratulations, you’ve stepped up your kissing game!
Kissing is one of the essential parts of a strong relationship. The more you kiss, the deeper your bond becomes. Here’s my favorite definition of a kiss by Ingrid Bergman:
“A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous.”
So, when words become superfluous, you know what you’re ought to do!
